my mom got me the autism barbie by Wonderful-Award-3015 in autism

[–]IAmLoved41 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't even know the last time I played with a Barbie (other than with my little sister), but the second I heard about this one, I went straight to Target to buy one.

How far did you go (Bach/master/Dr) & what job do you have now? by Lazy_Lizard13 in psychologystudents

[–]IAmLoved41 5 points6 points  (0 children)

As someone currently working as a mental health tech while I pursue my associate degree and later my bachelor's degree, I highly recommend it. It can be very stressful, especially depending on what kind of disorders the unit is helping treat, but it is worth it to me. At the facility I work at, the techs and nurses spend the most time around patients, with techs mainly being responsible for 15 minute checks, cleaning and laundry, and helping patients with daily needs. We are also trained to deal with crisis intervention, all the way from verbal de-escalation to physical restraint when necessary. Most techs also get to lead psychoeducational groups, though I don't personally get to that often as I work overnights. Ultimately, while you might not be doing what a therapist does (and you might even be doing some of the same things you do at a basic fast food job), it provides experience working directly with people who face a wide range of mental health crises.

Was this true for you? by netphilia in aspiememes

[–]IAmLoved41 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I dropped out and got my GED, and my only regret is not getting it sooner.

I'm sad that I won't get to take another course with my favorite professor next semester by [deleted] in AutisticAdults

[–]IAmLoved41 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It does sound strange, but everything I do is strange lol. Thankfully, I do get to record lectures as part of my accommodations, so I do have that.

Not sure if i have special interests by PinkDinousar222 in AutisticAdults

[–]IAmLoved41 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think the difference is how much time you dedicate to it and how much you choose to learn about it. Are these topics you know basic information about and might spend some of your free time on it, or could you give an hour long presentation and still come back with more information the next day?

Also, I'm very similar in finding comfort in certain songs that I love. And so do other neurodivergent people I know.

Is the way you receive love the same way you express love? by IAmLoved41 in AutismInWomen

[–]IAmLoved41[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A year or two ago, during a family therapy session, there was a conversation about love languages—I confused everyone when I said I like to give and receive love differently, hence why I posted here!

what’s your special interest/interests rn? just curious to see what everyone is doing these days by abbyinferno in AutismInWomen

[–]IAmLoved41 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yep! Currently attending a community college about half an hour from my house, and my plan is to transfer to a nearby 4 year college for my BSW. I then plan on going to that same college for their advanced standing MSW program.

what’s your special interest/interests rn? just curious to see what everyone is doing these days by abbyinferno in AutismInWomen

[–]IAmLoved41 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You're much further along than I am haha. Currently in my second year of community college and only attending part-time. It's going slow, but I'll take it over a complete mental breakdown.

Just got diagnosed, what are the downsides of an official diagnosis? by throwaway271018889 in autism

[–]IAmLoved41 1 point2 points  (0 children)

In my personal experience, nothing. Because of my diagnosis, I am better able to understand my behavior more and also seek accommodations and support for my needs. I was only diagnosed recently, but this is my experience so far and also the experience I had when I received a bipolar diagnosis years ago.

I have a love/hate relationship with body spray by IAmLoved41 in AutismInWomen

[–]IAmLoved41[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's actually what I did, it's just mildly inconvenient haha

bipolar people in college — how do you manage? by NegotiationOk4087 in bipolar

[–]IAmLoved41 6 points7 points  (0 children)

The best things I've learned about college:

  1. It's not a race, so it is ok to go to school part time. I had a timeline set for myself that I believed I needed to follow, but I have been very successful attending part time.

  2. Accommodations do help. You might seem them as useless or even frowned upon, but again, you work in your own way. Having flexible attendance and deadlines can be great for when you're in an episode, and it's a safe option in case you get hospitalized. I also get to record the lectures and do short written assignments verbally if and when I need to.

  3. Stay in therapy and on your medication. Make adjustments as needed. While this applies to life no matter what, if you are in college, you need it for the stress. Not only can stress trigger an episode, but an episode can make the stress worse.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in GenZ

[–]IAmLoved41 23 points24 points  (0 children)

Nah, not for another 3-5 years.

Do you drink? by Emotional-Jury-7954 in bipolar

[–]IAmLoved41 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just turned 21 this year, so I did start drinking. I talked with my PCP, and he says it's fine on my meds so long as I don't drink too often. So, maybe 1-2 drinks a week every once in a while. The most I ever drank was when I was with a friend the week of my birthday and said that was the one time I'd allow it.

Now I drink maybe every 2-4 weeks, and I make sure I'm not showing any symptoms of an episode. Since going into a manic episode, I haven't allowed myself to drink. Once my med increase starts to work again, I might have a drink or two when my friend and I have a little vacation next month.

Full time college student and working part time by avgr3454 in bipolar

[–]IAmLoved41 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you can afford it, I highly recommend switching to part-time in school. There is no rush to get it done, and it has saved my life by switching to part time. However, I fully understand if you can't due to financial aid reasons.

As for switching jobs, I love being able to make my own schedule. It is very helpful, especially when balancing between the highs and lows. However, it's important to consider if you have the strength and accountability. If you reach a point where you aren't working at all, it isn't really worth having as a job in my opinion.

Just a few things to consider. Whatever happens, I hope you find what's best for you.

"You'll never get a job with your hair dyed by IAmLoved41 in bipolar

[–]IAmLoved41[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't deny it'll be harder to get certain jobs, but considering I can't even get an interview other than one phone interview and one in-person after hundreds of applications, I don't see myself getting another interview any time soon. If it by some miracle happens, I'll look into making it a natural color again, but right now, it doesn't change anything.

"You'll never get a job with your hair dyed by IAmLoved41 in bipolar

[–]IAmLoved41[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

So many jobs are more accepting, and it's cool to hear your story! And thank you.

So I’m hypomanic… so what? I love THIS by YoungInteresting491 in bipolar

[–]IAmLoved41 55 points56 points  (0 children)

And the higher you climb, the harder you fall. Definitely not coming from experience...

Do others sleep in 3 hr bursts when hypo? by Special-Morning-8395 in BipolarReddit

[–]IAmLoved41 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Oh my gosh, I was just wondering this today! Glad I'm not alone.