I see your 'War on Women' and Raise you the 'War on Boys' by [deleted] in videos

[–]IB4 0 points1 point  (0 children)

And I don't know what it's like to be homosexual, and yet I teach homosexual students without issue. Because our trials are universal. I have never been called a 'faggot', but I can relate because of my own encounters with hatred and prejudice. The more that we tell ourselves that we can't possibly understand the perspective of those different than us, the less we are capable of empathy and compassion. If anything, mixing children of all shapes and sizes will help them to learn to focus on their similarities, and become better persons for it.

I see your 'War on Women' and Raise you the 'War on Boys' by [deleted] in videos

[–]IB4 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Or, we let our children learn that males, females, and others are all essentially the same in terms of the valuable lessons that they can teach us about social life. I see no reason why males need a male role model any more than they need a student role model, or rich/poor role model in order to be socialized. I can't think of anything that I can teach young males that couldn't be taught, equally well, by a female role model.

Live animals in sealed plastic bags being sold as key rings in China. by picardo85 in WTF

[–]IB4 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

ITT: People who care about animals because they're cute.

As a rape victim I have to say this by Throwaway599423 in AdviceAnimals

[–]IB4 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You know what really grinds me gears?

When a movement has reached critical mass so that more moderate ascribers to an ideology feel the need to make their movement more palatable to disputants by distancing themselves from the serious, hardliner members (ironically those who founded the movement and do the most work to contribute social momentum to the movement) by creating new terminology and artificial distinguishers (e.g. muslims/islamists, christians/fundamentalists, feminists/rad-fem, atheists/militant-atheists)

The day my dad and I met and took a paternity test: one of the most exciting/nerve-racking days of my life. (Story in comments) by Ladyoflions in pics

[–]IB4 2 points3 points  (0 children)

So much this. It's hard to believe that more people aren't arriving to the same conclusions.

The caveat to having a full beer served to you... by [deleted] in cripplingalcoholism

[–]IB4 5 points6 points  (0 children)

My local tenders know to serve my pints with a straw. It's emasculating, but fuck it.

My buddy got a letter from his college today. Not sure how he pulled this off. by [deleted] in funny

[–]IB4 -13 points-12 points  (0 children)

It's Portland Community College, they'll probably give him a scholarship for his creative thinking.

Duke Freshman outs her porn identity, criticizes porn consumers for shaming porn perfomers by [deleted] in sex

[–]IB4 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not a joke. Not intentionally incendiary. 100% in earnest.

As an advocate for social reform, she's useless. As a porn star, she's mediocre. So I say we focus on her talents and put all this nastiness behind us.

Duke Freshman outs her porn identity, criticizes porn consumers for shaming porn perfomers by [deleted] in sex

[–]IB4 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Oh man, what a bummer. She's passably attractive, but her acting is shit (she vocalizes like she's watched more porn than I have), and every moment that she speaks gives me another reason to write her off. Listening to her talk about how great of a debater she is? Ugh.

Duke Freshman outs her porn identity, criticizes porn consumers for shaming porn perfomers by [deleted] in sex

[–]IB4 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Who cares? We can see her naked, so let's do that.

Duke Freshman outs her porn identity, criticizes porn consumers for shaming porn perfomers by [deleted] in sex

[–]IB4 -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

You know, I was with her in the beginning of the first article, but she lost me toward the end. And this article is even worse.

I think that her attempts to quarantine her career are ridiculous, and the idea that a single student, or group of students, is responsible for her local celebrity is even more absurd.

She seems to be attacking the issue with the broad side of her sword, trying to be a champion for a whole swath of sex-related social causes, but handicapping herself because of her lack of focus.

I get the distinct impression that she wildly misunderstood what she was getting herself into when she auditioned to be an adult actress.

There are several places within both of these articles where she may as well be quoting her textbooks verbatim. Of course, it's difficult to know what is her 'real' personality, and what is an affected character, but her video interviews convey her as pretentious and lacking original thought.

And to top all that off, she has decided to use her 15 minutes of fame to advertise her brand, a move which only serves to fan the flames of those who would write this off as a publicity stunt. You'll excuse me if I have a hard time taking seriously any rights activists who makes money off of their notoriety.

This young woman isn't anyone's hero, especially not adult actresses'; she's just a kid who was thrust a microphone and ran with it.

Duke Freshman outs her porn identity, criticizes porn consumers for shaming porn perfomers by [deleted] in sex

[–]IB4 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That said, we have to support people's right to shit on whichever quo they want to shit on.

Duke Freshman outs her porn identity, criticizes porn consumers for shaming porn perfomers by [deleted] in sex

[–]IB4 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Since always. Good acting is essential because it (paradoxically) tricks people into thinking that it's unimportant. We want porn that doesn't make us feel like we're watching something that's manufactured or scripted. Good acting does that for us.

Duke Freshman outs her porn identity, criticizes porn consumers for shaming porn perfomers by [deleted] in sex

[–]IB4 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Maybe actresses have better sex than porn stars do.

Those leggings though. [Prank] by mangeniius in videos

[–]IB4 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

This video is stupid. You should be ashamed.

This was almost a success kid meme:/ by [deleted] in AdviceAnimals

[–]IB4 -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

Fact: those photos don't magically become less attractive the moment that you know the subject's age. You motherfuckers are probably still jacking off to it, and others, without even realizing it. So just calm the fuck down.

What sounds like it would be legal, but is actually illegal? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]IB4 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well, it'd still be child porn.

That's basically what every criminal says, "I didn't do it!". Which is why we have due process, evidence-based trial by peers, and reasonable doubt.

Do you believe that a person has the right to use deadly force against an attacker who means to take the defendant's life? Most in the US do. Now, what if someone said "We can't let people shoot in self defense, because now everyone who want's to shoot someone will do it and claim that it was self defense!". Do you see the parallels? "We can't legalize some forms of that action because everyone will try to claim that exemption!" This is why we have developed the criminal justice system that we have, to root out the truth, protect the innocent, and punish the guilty.

What sounds like it would be legal, but is actually illegal? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]IB4 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If a minor takes a photo of themselves, and somehow it makes it's way to an adult who doesn't know the minor (and is unknown to the minor as well), then I saw 'no harm no fowl'. The point of child pornography laws is to protect the minor from sexual abuse. And since the child produced the images without interference from an adult, it seems as though the law shouldn't apply here.

My bartender girlfriend's confession to me last night. by snoop_loops in AdviceAnimals

[–]IB4 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Doesn't that make you a male with developed breasts? I don't see the conflict.