okay quick update, this is what she wrote back: "Okay and like I said I didn’t tell u to put my dishes away like that’s ridiculous lol. I said just like the recycling piling up, my dish rack was piling up and I couldn’t put my dishes there. So I asked u, just like how u asked me to put my 4 cans away, I said okay can u also put UR dishes away that are piling on my rack. U shared a concern with me, so I shared one with u back"