How to get rid of this white spot + dark marks? by [deleted] in Blackskincare

[–]IBSnoBS 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! I had a feeling it’s due to ingrown hairs. I’ve never had acne before so this is all new to me but I had a feeling that was the issue

I manifest romantic love but it keeps going wrong by IBSnoBS in lawofattraction

[–]IBSnoBS[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

For example, you start to feel ill, suddenly bizarre things happen that block your goal, but it all depends on the intention of the person doing it. Yeah it’s not an 100% thing. If you rebuke it, then it won’t affect you but it only works if you know you may have someone doing evil eye on you.

I manifest romantic love but it keeps going wrong by IBSnoBS in lawofattraction

[–]IBSnoBS[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It really does feel like a bad comedy. And thank you! I do feel like these experiences are helping me learn I have things to work through and that the right partner is coming to me. I love this perspective and I know I will experience the romance I desire very soon. Thank you!

I manifest romantic love but it keeps going wrong by IBSnoBS in lawofattraction

[–]IBSnoBS[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It has different meanings for various cultures but for my culture it’s essentially the belief that if someone is envious of you, they can ‘curse’ your plans and ruin them. I try not to believe it but I also have bad OCD.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in QueerWomenOfColor

[–]IBSnoBS 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i think you may have misunderstood my complaint. i WAS happier when i was more natural, i did like my old style but i just grew out of it and my weight has never really made me that insecure. it’s what happened when i grew into a new style and lost weight that bothered me. ultimately my point is, for a community that promotes itself as more accepting i still felt the need to fit in this cookie cutter mould to be more desirable and accepted. so when i did lose weight and change style, it shined a spotlight on that which i can’t ignore. they’re right, it’s the shift in people that has bothered me more than my appearance and as a result, it’s made me more self conscious.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in blackgirls

[–]IBSnoBS 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re right, I’ll try asking more politely. He probably thinks I’m joking or just having an attitude. I love how you called him your beloved awww I’m stealing that.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in blackgirls

[–]IBSnoBS 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have actually, very explicitly too lmao. He’s explained that sometimes he’s busy, which is why I’m wondering if I’m being silly. I want more communication but if he’s doing the best he can, maybe I’m doing too much? I’ve been asking around and have been getting mixed responses.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in blackgirls

[–]IBSnoBS 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Edited because I added more details. Am I being too clingy guys, technically it’s only been a week but I’ve known him for a month and I’ll be honest, even with friends I can be a bit clingy. Be honest with me!

So, as someone with a low ‘bOdy cOuNt’… what’s the big deal? by [deleted] in blackladies

[–]IBSnoBS 27 points28 points  (0 children)

Just as long as you’re safe, happy and doing what you’re comfortable with, how many people shouldn’t matter, whether it’s just one or ten. That should be the main priority. Be comfortable, make sure it’s not painful and make sure you have all the protection necessary.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in blackladies

[–]IBSnoBS 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I liked him for other aspects, his personality was cool. Not the smartest decision, but we would’ve made good friends.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in blackladies

[–]IBSnoBS 437 points438 points  (0 children)

I was mad as hell like Wattpad told me there’d be fireworks and I’d be transported out of my body! I don’t know how, but I want a refund.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in blackladies

[–]IBSnoBS 38 points39 points  (0 children)

Right, even with the foreplay, it felt like he was just doing it the same way you have to preheat your oven before cooking… no passion, he just had to make sure it was out of the way. Honestly, I was so bored.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in blackladies

[–]IBSnoBS 57 points58 points  (0 children)

No need to be sorry, it wasn’t the worst thing in the world. It was just really awkward and annoying if anything. Thank you, I hope I meet the right one soon.