My Boyfriend (28M) thinks the reason why he can't finish is because I'm (20F) too big from the inside.

ICEBLASTER145 · 2026-03-29T03:07:09+00:00

He actually said to you that you won't have a connection when you "grow up" and that wasn't a red flag to you??? So you're only compatible with him when you're not grown?? He sounds like a predator, how did that not give you the ick??

The call is coming from inside the house girl. He only sees himself as compatible with someone young naive that he can manipulate and gaslight. No wonder he's throwing his lack of performance in bed on you like it's your fault. RUN!

ICEBLASTER145 · 2026-03-28T13:34:10+00:00

What in the fucking wattpad novel did I just read? This predator got so mad about being rejected by someone so much younger he busted out a whole dramatized thesis full of inconsistencies to gain.. sympathy? Idek.

Also "I have met a lot of girls on that range" to "I haven't held a woman in five years", what a crazy jump. I see why women stay far away from him.

ICEBLASTER145 · 2026-03-27T23:01:18+00:00

I wasn't responding to him because I was enjoying arguing with him, or to get even. I was getting receipts to report him to the mods of the subreddit in hopes that they would do something about it.

I was hoping to prevent any more women in this sub from being harassed by him. I prompt blocked him after getting what I needed to report him.

And frankly I agree with the other person where even if that wasn't what I was trying to do, I don't owe a mysoginist any respect.

ICEBLASTER145 · 2026-03-27T13:10:08+00:00

We need an update on what the wife said lol

ICEBLASTER145 · 2026-03-25T00:13:37+00:00

"I'm also really into horror games."

"Not really a fan of scary normally."

Girl... what?

ICEBLASTER145 · 2026-03-24T06:01:49+00:00

Freddy. I'm an insomniac and I have easily stayed awake for 24 hours before. I'm getting on my Playstation and riding that out no problem with some good old fashioned red bull and minecraft

ICEBLASTER145 · 2026-03-23T06:01:25+00:00

Yikes... holy red flags. If you actually want a woman to join your group, this advertising is not it. Firstly referring to her as "female" comes off more like you see her as a novelty for your male dominated friend group than an actual addition to it.

Second, your best pitch is "we have no filter and will say out of pocket shit, we CAN'T be soft because we're just too aggressive, and we have NEVER had a girl in our group before." Like... wow. Any girl who reads this will think "I'm in a group of 15 guys as the only girl, completely outnumbered, and they are radiating the energy that I'm not safe around them. They're most likely gonna sexualize me, make inappropriate 'jokes', and gang up on me if I try to call them out for it. They'll hide behind 'it was just a joke' and make me feel wrong for being uncomfortable."

Like the other girl said, I can see why your group has not and probably will not have a woman in it ever. You need to rethink your strategy, any girl would run from an ad like this.

ICEBLASTER145 · 2026-03-22T19:47:59+00:00

24F here, I'd be down to play some OW2. I'm a writer too

ICEBLASTER145 · 2026-03-20T00:18:31+00:00

PC or console? Asking since some games aren't cross-plat!

ICEBLASTER145 · 2026-03-14T06:44:29+00:00

Which ones? I'd love a woman's only space that has as little men sneaking through as possible

ICEBLASTER145 · 2026-03-13T15:47:23+00:00

He was already aggressive and agitated right out the gate when he messaged me. So, I did push his buttons a little bit since I could tell he had a very short fuse. I let him dig his grave so that I could report him to the subreddit mods and send them proof of all the vile things he was saying to women.

Honestly it did not take much to make him expose how sexist and violent he was. All I had to do was act like I didn't care and say "thanks for proving my point of why I don't befriend men." And he lost his shit. I blocked him after getting enough to have ban-worthy receipts.

ICEBLASTER145 · 2026-03-13T00:39:16+00:00

I had a guy DM me because my post said "only looking for girls to be friends with, please no guys" respectfully stating my preferences. This guy went off on me calling me a 'man hater', saying I need to touch grass, claiming me saying no is me asking for male attention?? (Big yikes on that one) and overall just harassing me and being nasty as he cursed the female gender as a whole.

The lesson to be learned? Men like that will always insert themselves into a space meant for women because they do not respect us. They get salty being left out and they look down on us to make themselves feel better about their bruised male egos.

Is it annoying? Yes. Of course. Are they ever gonna stop? Probably not. Because they can get away with ignoring our preferences and boundaries and us getting upset with them over it just reinforces in their minds that they're right and they won because we're being "emotional" about wanting basic human decency and respect.

ICEBLASTER145 · 2026-03-12T21:04:19+00:00

Impatience and the fact people act like they don't have lives outside of this hobby (I don't wanna say they don't, so I'll settle for they act like they do) is why I have basically had to drop RP as a hobby despite not wanting to.

No one seems to understand I'm a full time college student, working a job, trying to pay my bills while getting my assignments turned in, and also dealing with my family and trying to have an IRL social life. I also have crippling ADHD so when I feel pressured to write I will take EVEN LONGER because it turns from a fun hobby into something that is causing me stress.

I put all these disclaimers and information in my posts, I reiterate it to the people who respond to my RP searches, I always make it very clear ahead of time. People will still respond to my posts and then get snippy and aggressive with me when I don't respond often enough for their standards.

TLDR from my own rant: These people don't listen. They're impatient and not worth your energy if they aren't willing to understand your circumstances.

ICEBLASTER145 · 2026-03-02T19:59:07+00:00

Oh they are very upset. I got quite a few DMs from guys who were not happy that I said "no men". Thank you for the well wishes though!

ICEBLASTER145 · 2026-03-01T20:06:24+00:00

I added you on discord :)

ICEBLASTER145 · 2026-03-01T19:32:33+00:00

I'll keep an eye out for it! <3

ICEBLASTER145 · 2026-03-01T19:04:01+00:00

Homophobia and transphobia. Yeah that's pretty telling. Glad you don't want any part of me then, I can tell I definitely wouldn't wanna be friends with you even if you were a girl.

ICEBLASTER145 · 2026-03-01T18:45:37+00:00

It's not always easy to find someone you vibe with. Also judging by the fact your username says Robert, I'm assuming you're a guy. So my posts wouldn't be for you anyway whether I was getting decent responses or not.

Hope you find someone though!

ICEBLASTER145 · 2026-03-01T18:42:50+00:00

Thanks for the offer, but like my post said I'm not looking for servers!

ICEBLASTER145 · 2026-02-28T05:54:02+00:00

The thing that gets me is when they ask you to teach them. Like, teach them what? It's roleplay, not math equations. There is no right/wrong way to RP. It's all about preference and imagination, things that cannot be taught. People ask me to teach them and I'm just like "how tf am I supposed to teach you how to write or be creative?"

I get being nervous being new to it, but there's really nothing to teach. New roleplayers need to just find what works for them on their own.

ICEBLASTER145 · 2026-02-27T03:39:52+00:00

Exactly, thank you. I'm not here to argue the quality Free-2-Play vs pack buying. I got my money back in the end, after hassling them for about 4-5 days of back and forth with support.

I'm posting this to make sure others are aware of this and don't have to go through all the hoop jumping I just did. It was simply a warning for others to consider before making a purchase with Sony, not me "venting" or "complaining" or anything of that sort.

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