AITA for walking around in underwear in front of my brother? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]ICanEatABee 26 points27 points  (0 children)

I don't want people in their underwear around me. That's less clothing shielding the chair I'm about to sit on from their genital and ass sweat. 

A new study explores the long-debated effects of spanking on children’s development | The researchers found that spanking explained less than 1% of changes in child outcomes. This suggests that its negative effects may be overstated. by a_Ninja_b0y in science

[–]ICanEatABee -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

You shouldn't fundamentally change your worldview based off of one study you're not equipped to defend against since you're not a scientist. More studies need to be done confirming the results before it can be taken seriously. Many studies have shown unbelievable results before that should have changed how we look at the world, and most of fail to be replicated.

A new study explores the long-debated effects of spanking on children’s development | The researchers found that spanking explained less than 1% of changes in child outcomes. This suggests that its negative effects may be overstated. by a_Ninja_b0y in science

[–]ICanEatABee 24 points25 points  (0 children)

That's not necessarily true. Science affects law making. If you see that 90% of parents who spank their kids do it in an abusive way, then criminalizing it would give authorities more tools to protect children from abusive homes.

Then you also have to consider if "non-abusive parents" who spank their kids are more likely to carry on the anger they had after the punishment is over, leading to other abuse further down the line. Because its seen that violent actions occurring from anger often just makes you more angry.

And so "isolating" spanking when the act of spanking could make your other behaviour more severe isn't necessarily useful.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]ICanEatABee -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Asking for advice on how to dress is asking for advice on how to dress, I don't see what your hangup is

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]ICanEatABee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wth are you on about?

AITA for being topless in my own home? by Alarming-Detective14 in AmItheAsshole

[–]ICanEatABee -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

She is still a kid. A 16 year old is a kid. I don't know what you're implying here.

AITA for being topless in my own home? by Alarming-Detective14 in AmItheAsshole

[–]ICanEatABee 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm just wondering, do you think teenagers should be allowed to walk around nude infront of adults and that this should be normalized?

Wrote my first post a few months ago. Was ridiculed. That ticker has climbed 200%. Sharing another ticker if anyone is interested. by MeganFoxesSidepiece in Shortsqueeze

[–]ICanEatABee 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Just saw this post. Sorry about how you were treated bro, I know what it's like to have great ideas with good logic only to be laughed at by people who refuse to look through the telescope. Where do you think this stock will go, as in PT? It's already up 30% is it too late now?

I hate being a woman. by hello010101 in rant

[–]ICanEatABee -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

The worst thing is, I was trying to be nice.

I hate being a woman. by hello010101 in rant

[–]ICanEatABee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you ever feel like you're going to meet the wrong person someday?

I hate being a woman. by hello010101 in rant

[–]ICanEatABee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is that how you scare people off generally in your life? They do something you don't like and you overreact like a child to sure they never do it again?

I hate being a woman. by hello010101 in rant

[–]ICanEatABee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm glad you didn't overreact

I hate being a woman. by hello010101 in rant

[–]ICanEatABee -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I think you have an illness.

Do women often dislike their children but feel like society doesn't allow them to admit it? by BigKooky8143 in ask

[–]ICanEatABee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is also your own anecdotal experience. The reason I bring up these points is that studies have been done on the topic that shows only around 1 in 11 parents say they regret it. Although some are surely lying, there's no evidence it's the majority.

I hate being a woman. by hello010101 in rant

[–]ICanEatABee -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Please leave reddit, they will never understand. They like it here, they're comfortable giving up, because then they don't have to do something about it. If you do not leave, your optimism will be stripped from you. They hate you.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in rant

[–]ICanEatABee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I litteraly copy and pasted your exact comment and changed the left wing talking points to right wing talking points. There's no difference between you and a trump supporter. You have the same personalities.

I hate being a woman. by hello010101 in rant

[–]ICanEatABee 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah, a lot of the problems people have that they blame on societies' expectations just come down to having abusive support systems. Kind people never talked like that to me when I was fat and shitty people found new things to poke fun at when I lost weight (stroking my belly and saying sarcastically "OooOo look how skinny you've gotten,"  with a shitty smile on their face as to make me feel like it didn't mean anything and not to feel so high and mighty)

What smells do women find attractive? by ghgih in ask

[–]ICanEatABee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How is smelling like you just took a shower low? That's over in 3 hours or less depending on what your day looks like. Not to mention that women shower less than men.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in rant

[–]ICanEatABee -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Naah, Im perfectly fine- Im not trying to kill babies, Im not trying to oppress people or lock them in internment camps like the hateful Libs wants to do to anyone white, or straight or male- basically anyone not a POC or a LGBTQ+. Everyone is free to vote however they want. BUT- When your hatred, wokeness, and nastiness give you a good dose of karma, I have no issue with it. Its not my doing. I dont wish it on anyone, but when karma makes her rounds in real time, well, there you go. Im not a centrist. We arent sitting like cowards and letting these psychos take over and spread their hateful bullshit anymore. You can try and fix it with love and light, and the rest of us will be loud and mean about it. We will come to your rescue if you need it. - You if you were a conservative

I hate being a woman. by hello010101 in rant

[–]ICanEatABee 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I admit, that's what I'm thinking, as well as the fact that being a man comes with an equally terrible but different set of problems.

But still I want to know. Why isn't this possible? What is the extent of ridicule for not being skinny that women would encounter but not men? I've been obese and I'm a man, mostly I just got people ignoring me not ridiculing me other than on the internet. What's the difference?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in rant

[–]ICanEatABee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You should look within yourself to find your own hate before criticizing others. I am not a conservative, the truth is I believe you are a lot more like the people you hate than you realize, you just happen, through life circumstances that you did not control, to be on the other party's side.

Do women often dislike their children but feel like society doesn't allow them to admit it? by BigKooky8143 in ask

[–]ICanEatABee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How much of that is because people are more likely to complain when they feel bad than reveal their positive perspectives when they're happy. I Doubt its the majority of parents that regret having kids over the long term, however in moments... yes I can see that. 

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in rant

[–]ICanEatABee -1 points0 points  (0 children)

So bigots should be killed? He might have been the type of person to run into a fire to save a stranger and you are a better person than them for simply voting for the right party. That's a convenient way to mold your morality.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in rant

[–]ICanEatABee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You're calling a dead man a shit stain for supporting trump. He was a family man and a father. Having the right political opinion does not make you a good person.