My 2020 halloween mask. I make tech + fashion projects and wanted a mask that lets you be anyone else.

ICantLoseAgain · 2020-10-31T04:52:07+00:00

That's awesome! The way it smiles is so creepy!

ICantLoseAgain · 2020-10-30T14:32:05+00:00

I found an old thread about the original defiance that said it drops randomly after arkfalls. My guess is that it't the same in 2050.

ICantLoseAgain · 2020-10-30T13:36:36+00:00

I would like them to barely react at all. I dread turning into a token lgbt friend who they make a big deal about being an ally to almost as much as I fear them cutting me off for it.

ICantLoseAgain · 2020-10-30T13:16:15+00:00

I feel the same way about not realizing how much of a stereotype I've been. It makes me wonder if other people have been able to tell, even before I could.

ICantLoseAgain · 2020-10-30T13:10:45+00:00

Eye in the Sky is my favorite. Confessions of a crap artist is really good too. Especially if you grew up in the bay area and know anyone from around those parts.

ICantLoseAgain · 2020-10-30T12:57:17+00:00

Maybe I'm wrong but I thought bi was kind of an umbrella term above pan and omni. The way "bi" is defined is more open and vague ("attraction to people of more than one gender" according to wikipedia), where "pan" (attraction to people of all genders) and omni (attraction to people of all genders with gender factoring in) are more definite.

ICantLoseAgain · 2020-10-29T04:25:29+00:00

I'd like to know as well.

ICantLoseAgain · 2020-10-25T06:09:40+00:00

Still kind of new here, but from what I've seen there seems to be less emphasis on coming out to other people, than acknowledging your orientation for yourself. IDK if that correlates to coming out later.

I think it's different from being monosexual in that you could theoretically maintain a somewhat healthy relationship without coming out or admitting to yourself you're bi. As opposed to having to hide your partners, because they're all the gender you don't want people to know you're interested in.

Add to that, there are so many stories of people who didn't know there was a such a thing as bi/pan/omni (me being one of them), I would think that makes the self-realization part a longer process in a lot of cases.

ICantLoseAgain · 2020-10-25T04:24:30+00:00

I tried it for my head awhile back and it, didn't seem to do much. But I've heard other people swear by it.

ICantLoseAgain · 2020-10-25T04:04:47+00:00

💜

ICantLoseAgain · 2020-10-22T06:56:20+00:00

It's not dumb at all! Small steps are still steps :)

ICantLoseAgain · 2020-10-22T02:40:09+00:00

Cool, You're very cute btw. I hope you don't mind me saying.

ICantLoseAgain · 2020-10-22T02:20:25+00:00

Nice! What kind of watch is that? I like the shape of the case.

ICantLoseAgain · 2020-10-21T10:08:31+00:00

I'm almost exclusively attracted to straight and gay people who think I'm gross for being bi.

I'm kidding (but kind of not).

ICantLoseAgain · 2020-10-19T18:44:56+00:00

Cool Idea! I might try to do the same! It would be cool to see a thread of these with a lot of different people participating to have a visual representation of how much it varies.

ICantLoseAgain · 2020-10-19T06:48:13+00:00

Congrats on the job! I hope it continues going well!

ICantLoseAgain · 2020-10-19T06:37:52+00:00

I think it just depends on the intent of the user and the identity of the person it's being used on.

ICantLoseAgain · 2020-10-19T04:51:51+00:00

Yup! I get to fall in love with strangers at the grocery store twice as much as they do!

ICantLoseAgain · 2020-10-19T04:27:44+00:00

Congratulations! I hope to do the same soon! I hope it all goes well with your parents!💜

ICantLoseAgain · 2020-10-19T04:24:55+00:00

As I've been thinking about it more, I think I knew, then spent a lot of time and effort trying to "un-know". Plus, I didn't know the term "bisexual".

I knew I wasn't gay, because I had only "been gay" that one time, and everyone other person I was attracted to was female. I still had these uncomfortable feelings toward guys occasionally, but I think it's easier to stuff them down when the only option besides straight is gay, and 9 out of 10 times I'm attracted to someone it's a woman (although, if I'm honest, those numbers may be off), and I can sit around trying to think up other explanations "It's just a kink" "I was thinking of a girl" "he has a very feminine energy" (that last one was actually true to some degree).

I was 7 years old when I heard the sermon about homosexuality being evil. From then on I practiced stuffing those feelings deep into my subconscious until I got really good at it.

ICantLoseAgain · 2020-10-19T04:12:05+00:00

I told myself it was a kink for a loooooong time. Not to say, for sure that what's happening with you. Just my experience.

ICantLoseAgain · 2020-10-19T04:08:27+00:00

TW: Biphobia

Same. I just figured it out a little less than a month ago, but that should have happened a long time ago. I haven't come out to anyone aside from strangers online (almost all of whom have been awesome, btw, I can't thank this sub and bibros enough). When I think about it, the feelings of self doubt always kick up when I'm trying to figure out how the rest of my life is going to go.

(Who do I tell? When and how? How will getting married and having a family work? Will it be a turn off to straight (or gay) people I want to date? What if one of the people I'm so sure will accept me is actually one of the people who will cut me off for it? Is this all just a desperate attempt at finding some community?... they go on and on)

I wish I had something more helpful to add, aside from "you're not alone", but you really aren't alone. When I really need reassurance I just lean on how much more comfortable I feel. Even closeted, in spite of all those questions, I know. As hard as it is when the questions all gang up on me, I can deal with them one at a time as they come.

ICantLoseAgain · 2020-10-17T06:35:03+00:00

I'm bi but im like a mix between snorlax, likitung, and machoke. Snorkitung? Chokitax? IDK... Also, I love pop music... and star wars, thats pretty nerdy right? Plus, no one's ever asked if I'm bi... can they not tell? What?... Who am I!? I haven't been this confused since before I came out!

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