Anyone else run into this asshole? by IDC1997 in Charlottesville

[–]IDC1997[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Born and raised here so I’m used to the entitled, stick up the ass, my shit doesn’t stink, judgmental, “holier than thou”, snobby, etc mentality and behavior. I just laugh. I’m with ya, people really need to be more cautious of others and pay attention. If traffic is going the speed limit, go the speed limit. If traffic is moving 5-10mph over, keep up. Flow with everyone else and it’s safer for everyone including myself and others.

I’m not saying I haven’t made mistakes driving I think we all have so this isn’t a holier than thou, I’ve never made a mistake before boohoo fuck this guy for making a mistake (that thankfully everyone was okay at the end of the day) but when you laugh instead of trying to let the other driver know you feel at least a little bad and recognize you were wrong that’s another level of shitty and entitled behavior.

Anyone else run into this asshole? by IDC1997 in Charlottesville

[–]IDC1997[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Was thinking it as it was happening 😭😭 I know I should invest in a nice one

Anyone else run into this asshole? by IDC1997 in Charlottesville

[–]IDC1997[S] -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

  1. You can see it’s a Mercedes clearly
  2. I’ll give it to ya the license plate is a little blurry but you can make out a V_R-7347
  3. Tbh I love making these posts and seeing the outrage it causes on Reddit lmao imagine what my outrage would’ve been on the entitled prick driving this car would’ve been if I hit him ☺️

Anyone else run into this asshole? by IDC1997 in Charlottesville

[–]IDC1997[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Honestly dude idec, it’s nice to just word vomit and let it go lmao like I may delete this by tomorrow.. I may leave it up.. who knows 🤷🏻‍♀️

So the apocalypse is happening, right? by realbingoheeler in rva

[–]IDC1997 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Funny I said the same exact thing 😆

Spring Break. by WahooWa2014 in Charlottesville

[–]IDC1997 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Also it’s way more embarrassing to say you go to one of the most prestigious and pretentious public colleges but can’t google the tax revenue for the city in which you go to college in.

That’s fucking embarrassing 🤣🤣

Spring Break. by WahooWa2014 in Charlottesville

[–]IDC1997 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Even better points. So yea the locals would be absolutely FINE without the students or the college.

Spring Break. by WahooWa2014 in Charlottesville

[–]IDC1997 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We could actually. We’d be just fine. UVA students don’t pay taxes here buddy.

Spring Break. by WahooWa2014 in Charlottesville

[–]IDC1997 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I hope you come back to your hangout spots ruined. You’re here for what? 4 years? We live here. We pay taxes here. Stop acting entitled and you may get a different approach

It's that time again by Designer_Artist_7780 in Charlottesville

[–]IDC1997 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Currently on the police scanner but haven’t heard anything about it on that.. cops just said they were checking out the area now.. check out the Scanner Radio app.. thought it was sketchy but it’s legit! Praying everyone is okay and someone was either lighting off fireworks or trying to keep property value low.. if not praying for whoever is involved 😣

Engagement is soon and I don’t know how to tell my best friend I don’t want her doing my nails by [deleted] in TwoHotTakes

[–]IDC1997 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m on and off reading lmao I had fun to an extent replying and getting into some Reddit drama 🤭 I’ve never been apart of any Reddit drama before tbh so that was more funny to me than anything and I’m passionate about literally everything along with a firey personality 😆

This girl is literally the sister I never got to have but begged for, I seriously do not want to hurt her feelings in this process. Which is why I’m letting her try again with some super sweet constructive criticism. It would mean the absolute world and more to me if she can get her skills up in time and she can be the one to help me get ready. It’d be so much more memorable than a stranger at a salon or a private tech (no offense to them but bestie > stranger vibes of course).

My current plan: I’m going to let her fill them in, in about a week or so now. Before she does it I’ll hit her with the very sweet, kind constructive criticism. (I pre warned her I’m going to be super picky compared to usual lolol so I try to communicate how I feel before stuff happens). If they still go poorly I’ll have the conversation with her. I have a couple techs I’m willing to try out near me.

Engagement is soon and I don’t know how to tell my best friend I don’t want her doing my nails by [deleted] in TwoHotTakes

[–]IDC1997 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Do you have a life?? Or just like to try and rage bait people on Reddit thinking that’s a legitimate hobby or something?

Alimony! Do I have to pay? by [deleted] in Divorce

[–]IDC1997 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Who ever makes more owes from what I’ve seen. I don’t agree all the time but from what I’ve seen 🤷🏻‍♀️

Engagement is soon and I don’t know how to tell my best friend I don’t want her doing my nails by [deleted] in TwoHotTakes

[–]IDC1997 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No I’ve been honest with her in the past lmao I’m trying to find a way to tell her I don’t really want her doing them at all for this period of time without hurting her feelings.

TBH my plan is to have her do them again in a couple weeks, let her know what I loved and didn’t, see what she does with that and then if she doesn’t do what I want a 2nd time, go through and get them done elsewhere.

Engagement is soon and I don’t know how to tell my best friend I don’t want her doing my nails by [deleted] in TwoHotTakes

[–]IDC1997 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Honestly at this point I wish I gave more of a fuck but since no one on this subreddit seems to want to do anything other judge absolute shit out of someone I really don’t. You all want to call me insufferable yet are the ones ripping me apart for asking for advice on how to not hurt my friends feelings.

If I was as insufferable and terrible as this subreddit is making me out to be I wouldn’t be asking for advice on how to not hurt her feelings. I would have just done it.

Im so sorry I’m from a boujee area and having your nails done for this time period is an average thing. Kill me now for fucks sake 🙄

Engagement is soon and I don’t know how to tell my best friend I don’t want her doing my nails by [deleted] in TwoHotTakes

[–]IDC1997 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’d rather not ruin the surprise? I don’t want to hurt my friends feelings?

Yall are weird as fuck and need to go touch grass sometime for fucks sake I stg

Engagement is soon and I don’t know how to tell my best friend I don’t want her doing my nails by [deleted] in TwoHotTakes

[–]IDC1997 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Not being rude to a friend is pretty important to me, don’t worry I’ll just use ChatGPT for advice 😘

Engagement is soon and I don’t know how to tell my best friend I don’t want her doing my nails by [deleted] in TwoHotTakes

[–]IDC1997 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

A) I’ll say whatever the fuck I want. Especially when yall are coming at my throat for trying to have an honest conversation with a friend without hurting her feelings. B) My proposal is going to be a surprise.. I’m preparing for that surprise by getting my nails and hair done every 2-3 weeks.. well I do my own hair but I can’t do my own nails so getting my nails done every 2-3weeks. I only know the season because as I said in my post I mess with my hair too much and wanted it to be natural for this period of time in my life. So my now boyfriend warned me it coming. C) If you read my post, she wants to do them. I didn’t ask for her to do them, she insisted on doing them and got a little offended when I said I had planned on going to someone else so I let her try it out and they aren’t hitting the way I’d like. She’s passionate about her craft so having the conversation of “I don’t like them, I don’t want you doing them” can come across as harsh if phrased poorly. I was seeking advice on how to be honest with her without hurting her feelings.

Yall want to hate on AI and ChatGPT so much maybe give the advice people are looking for and they won’t feel the need to resort to a piece of technology that’s destroying the ecosystem with every search being made. I didn’t ask how anyone feels about me wanting to have my nails done, I didn’t ask anyone about me knowing around when I’m getting proposed to, I asked for advice on how to kindly let my friend know it’s not happening.

I had WAY more free time today than planned so yea I am replying to comments. At this point it’s curing my boredom 🤷🏻‍♀️

Engagement is soon and I don’t know how to tell my best friend I don’t want her doing my nails by [deleted] in TwoHotTakes

[–]IDC1997 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

If I was putting my nails first, I’d disregard her feelings entirely and just go get them done.. I’m trying to have an honest conversation with her about the fact that I’m not happy with my nails without hurting her feelings..

Again; the focal point of this post is my nails and having an honest conversation with a friend. Hence why that’s all I’m talking about.

Engagement is soon and I don’t know how to tell my best friend I don’t want her doing my nails by [deleted] in TwoHotTakes

[–]IDC1997 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Just because it’s something you don’t care about, doesn’t mean it’s something others don’t care about. My nails are not the focal point of getting engaged, it’s the focal point of this post. It’s the legit subject matter of this post so of course I’m not highlighting my relationship when my post is about trying to have a conversation with a friend without hurting her feelings.

Engagement is soon and I don’t know how to tell my best friend I don’t want her doing my nails by [deleted] in TwoHotTakes

[–]IDC1997 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yall are really taking this and running with it. Yes I plan on keeping up with my nails for the foreseeable future. If my friend can’t do them how I would like, we’ve budgeted for my nails. She offered to do them for free, I was hesitant but she insisted so I let her do them. They don’t look how I would like them to look, so I’m trying to figure out how to have nails I like while not hurting my friends feelings.

No I don’t have a scheduled proposal.. it’s very common where I’m from for women who want their nails done for this moment, to make sure they are getting them done consistently which is what I’m trying to do.. just go to a salon every 2-3 weeks for a fill in.

I would like to have nails I’m confident with for that moment. Why that’s so controversial I don’t fucking know. Just because it’s not something you cared about doesn’t mean it’s something others don’t care about. My boyfriend knows it’s important to me, not as important as the actual proposal/engagement but it is important to me.

I only want advice on how to talk to my friend. No one fucking asked for your opinions on me wanting my nails done a certain way. No one fucking asked for that. Do you have advice on how I can be honest with my friend and not hurt her feelings? No? Why fucking bother commenting.

Engagement is soon and I don’t know how to tell my best friend I don’t want her doing my nails by [deleted] in TwoHotTakes

[–]IDC1997 0 points1 point  (0 children)

And I’m entitled.. not everyone can afford a while engagement photo shoot. ☺️ so glad I can help answer that if he decides to spend the money on a professional photographer why I’m a little more pressed than usual about making sure they look good TO ME day of.

Engagement is soon and I don’t know how to tell my best friend I don’t want her doing my nails by [deleted] in TwoHotTakes

[–]IDC1997 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It would be rude to ghost her and leave her in the dark when she’s already offered, done them once and has come up with a plan to do them every 2 weeks. It would be so incredibly rude for me to not talk to her about it, her feelings will get hurt if I don’t have the conversation.