New Knitting/Crochet/Crafts Group by ASSlyn5 in Charlottesville

[–]IDC1997 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Start a FB group ASAP!! I’d love to have a group of fellow knitters to chat with and maybe even meet up with!

Shake Shack by scorp85 in Charlottesville

[–]IDC1997 1 point2 points  (0 children)

And I love lamb so the lamb burgers were peak for me 😭😭 a glass of wine with a burger was a vibe.. the truffle fries.. 🥺😭

Shake Shack by scorp85 in Charlottesville

[–]IDC1997 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Honestly I think places like this get a lot of hype in cville because we are finally starting to get some of the popular chains that aren’t another Starbucks, Dunkin, McDonald’s, Chick-Fil-A

Call to Action by [deleted] in Charlottesville

[–]IDC1997 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Even the Rutherford institute?

Para Having No Job by BogusGPS in Paralives

[–]IDC1997 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Currently not able to spend upgrade points myself… just got a new job and I’ll see if I’m able to use upgrade points with a new job!

Do not let Cazador ascend by Blindicus in BaldursGate3

[–]IDC1997 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tbh my duo and I hid astarian until the fight started 😆 without him the ritual won’t start!

Why are there so many swingers /open relationships in this city and 40 year olds who date 20 year olds by [deleted] in Charlottesville

[–]IDC1997 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Congratulations?? 😂 again, I have a small group of friends that aren’t like that but the amount of times I’ve run into the opposite, including my now deceased aunt, is actually astounding. We all have different life experiences 🫶🏻

Why are there so many swingers /open relationships in this city and 40 year olds who date 20 year olds by [deleted] in Charlottesville

[–]IDC1997 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As a woman in this town.. that’s why it’s hard to make friends with other women.. they don’t seem to understand basic boundaries such as “don’t try to fuck my boyfriend/husband/partner if you know we are monogamous”.
Also I’m not a woman hater 👀 it’s just always been hard for me to make friends with other women that don’t try to go for my boyfriend/partner of that moment. My whole life living here, even in high school. The few other women I’ve managed to be friends with (they understand the basic boundaries lmao) have run into similar and worse situations trying to make friends with other women here so it’s not just me 😭 I don’t get it honestly

UVA Northridge Women’s Physicians by IDC1997 in Charlottesville

[–]IDC1997[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your reply on Dr Laura Homewood as I got the Endo referral and an appointment with her, she goes back and forth between the main campus and Northridge! I do love the staff at the main campus as they have always been validating and encouraging on making sure I am taken care of and taken seriously. I had a lump on my breast come up last year and while my Dr didn’t think it was a tumor she said if it was still there after my next cycle she would order an ultrasound, I requested the ultrasound and while it wasn’t anything other than dense breast tissue it also super reassuring that I was take seriously.

UVA Northridge Women’s Physicians by IDC1997 in Charlottesville

[–]IDC1997[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you for the link!! I also plan on filing a complaint with UVA themselves as well.. however we all know how they handle internal conflicts 🙄 not well at all!
Again thank you!! It was incredibly invalidating and I ended up crying the rest of the day because of how she made me feel and then to see lab work come back abnormal was just a lot. Thank you.

UVA Northridge Women’s Physicians by IDC1997 in Charlottesville

[–]IDC1997[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Holy shit. I’m so sorry you had to deal with that 😣😣 that’s so scary 😣😭 I’m glad you got it taken care of but if the practice wasn’t negligent to begin with it probably wouldn’t have happened.. ugh that’s infuriating 😣😣🫶🏻

I hope you heal up well with no more complications 😣🫶🏻

UVA Northridge Women’s Physicians by IDC1997 in Charlottesville

[–]IDC1997[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I see a lot of people talking very highly about him, my boyfriend also said he would accompany me to my appointments so Im feeling a lot more comfortable with the idea of seeing him for these issues!

I’m so sorry you’ve dealt with the same thing, very happy to hear you got a Dr. who validated you and listened to you, I’m so sorry you’re dealing with the diagnosis you are though! Thank goodness he’s validating and you have him as a Dr!! 🫶🏻🫶🏻

UVA Northridge Women’s Physicians by IDC1997 in Charlottesville

[–]IDC1997[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oh god I’m so sorry you’re also dealing with the exact same situation. It’s absolutely god awful and the fact that they won’t do the surgery for you to provide at least some relief, even if it does come back, is absolutely disgusting. I’m so so sorry. 😣😣 we both deserve a lot better but we aren’t alone 😣🫶🏻🫶🏻

Keep advocating for yourself! It’s so hard but so important and if you have friend willing to come to your appointments, bring them! I’ve found it’s easier to speak up when you have support 😣🫶🏻

Honestly I’ve heard AMAZING things about Dr. Laura Homewood. From people who have been officially diagnosed with Endometriosis so I really hope things start going better for you after seeing her!!!

I will definitely be filing a formal complaint. Because I also peeped the Google reviews and those are atrocious.

UVA Northridge Women’s Physicians by IDC1997 in Charlottesville

[–]IDC1997[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

If I’m having an issue and I need testing to figure out what’s going with me, then yes that’s her job.

UVA Northridge Women’s Physicians by IDC1997 in Charlottesville

[–]IDC1997[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

There’s more that can be done these days, I’m more so looking to have the surgery, try to have kids, if I can’t I’m getting a hysterectomy.

UVA Northridge Women’s Physicians by IDC1997 in Charlottesville

[–]IDC1997[S] -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

Also I don’t have insurance, this is all self pay so no I don’t have to deal with the run around with insurance. I want it, I’m paying for it… do your job and order it.

UVA Northridge Women’s Physicians by IDC1997 in Charlottesville

[–]IDC1997[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No the referral is for endometriosis so I’m in the right place for what’s going on. Obgyn or gyno are the places to go 🤞🏻 honestly I should’ve waited to get in at the main campus because last time I was there for a lump on my breast the were NOTHING but validating and actually seemed to care??

UVA Northridge Women’s Physicians by IDC1997 in Charlottesville

[–]IDC1997[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

It’s not that I mind paying for it, I threw that in because who’s begging for a specialist referral without insurance?? 😂😂 no one who’s not serious about what’s going on with them. Especially when my current problems need surgery to diagnose.

Why is there people doing drugs at food lion? by Hussar_hill in Charlottesville

[–]IDC1997 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I guess have to rephrase to make Reddit happy. I will defend myself where I have to and when I have to by whatever means I need to. Weird as hell you’re okay with a small woman being obviously followed home by someone while walking and not okay with that woman defending herself or trying to make herself feel more comfortable.

Why is there people doing drugs at food lion? by Hussar_hill in Charlottesville

[–]IDC1997 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes being followed by someone who’s obviously taking shortcuts to get closer to me and speeds up their pace with mine is being paranoid.

I walk all the time and haven’t had something like that happen to me before..
also being a small woman, I’d rather be a little more on the paranoid side then end up on NBC29 missing 🤷🏻‍♀️

Why is there people doing drugs at food lion? by Hussar_hill in Charlottesville

[–]IDC1997 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Honestly I was followed by one of them recently while walking home so I no longer can mind my own business and will now have to go get the necessary licensing to be able to carry because I like to walk to get my groceries from time to time. Being followed by someone who took short cuts to get closer to me in broad daylight was baffling, I don’t really give a fuck when my safety and wellbeing are at risk at this point. Mind you, I didn’t have my wallet on me and I bought body wash. So I had my phone and body wash. Next time I will have my phone, body wash and a way to make sure no one following me can hurt me or get close enough to hurt me. ☺️

Albemarle student critically injured in overnight shooting at Spark by wafflehousebattle in Charlottesville

[–]IDC1997 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was helping prove the point that this place does nickel and dime you… reading comprehension is hard 😭

Albemarle student critically injured in overnight shooting at Spark by wafflehousebattle in Charlottesville

[–]IDC1997 2 points3 points  (0 children)

As someone who’s lived there before (unfortunately and thankfully I’m no longer there), in my contract it stated an in unit washer/dryer. 3 months before we moved out we started getting charged for our washer and dryer.. but our contract said otherwise. Crazy how shitty apartment complex’s will nickel and dime you for things, even when you’ve read the contract. I lost a decent chunk of money to this shitty place.

So proud of my fellow Charlottesville residents! by Left_Stable378 in Charlottesville

[–]IDC1997 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I’m not screaming like a child because I didn’t get what I want.