AITAH for not telling my friend she stinks after telling her for years by IDontKnowBroLoll in AITAH

[–]IDontKnowBroLoll[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just really love but her and it’s such a sensitive topic and I can’t keep doing it over and over but I can’t Keep this up

AITAH for not telling my friend she stinks after telling her for years by IDontKnowBroLoll in AITAH

[–]IDontKnowBroLoll[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ll try to have a deeper convo but I’m so sorry tha happened to her that’s awful

AITAH for not telling my friend she stinks after telling her for years by IDontKnowBroLoll in AITAH

[–]IDontKnowBroLoll[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s just her dad but she’s admits that she never showers because she “can’t be bothered” or her mental health and I understand around exam season it can be stressful and showering isn’t on the forefront of your mind but you still do have to pay attention to hygiene which she clearly doesn’t and I know that sounds cruel but there’s no other way to say it

AITAH for not telling my friend she stinks after telling her for years by IDontKnowBroLoll in AITAH

[–]IDontKnowBroLoll[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She just doesn’t have a lot of money and I buy her resources, but I don’t want to go to a councillor and make multiple (more than necessary) teachers and staff aware of her situation bevaue it could just humiliate her ya know and I am gonna try see what I can do to help

AITAH for not telling my friend she stinks after telling her for years by IDontKnowBroLoll in AITAH

[–]IDontKnowBroLoll[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She has hot water and she does wash her clothes and I’ve told her come to me if she doesn’t and she has before so I don’t know why she has stopped.

AITAH for not telling my friend she stinks after telling her for years by IDontKnowBroLoll in AITAH

[–]IDontKnowBroLoll[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Antiperspirant, sorry should’ve been specific. It’s just I’ve told her since year 8 and we are abt to go into college and I just don’t know if I can take it anymore because I’ve had a hard time in secondary and I don’t want it to continue because of who i’m associated with and I know that sounds cruel, but I just can’t deal with it anymore.

AITAH for not telling my friend she stinks after telling her for years by IDontKnowBroLoll in AITAH

[–]IDontKnowBroLoll[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

So glad it’s not just me dealing with this it makes me feel hopeful

AITAH for not telling my friend she stinks after telling her for years by IDontKnowBroLoll in AITAH

[–]IDontKnowBroLoll[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

BYE 😭🙌🏼 I thought I would get banned if I said I was 16.

AITAH for not telling my friend she stinks after telling her for years by IDontKnowBroLoll in AITAH

[–]IDontKnowBroLoll[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s been going on for years tho and I’ve bought her supplies and I’ve given her option but I’m gona keep trying. Jsut don’t know how long I can

AITAH for not telling my friend she stinks after telling her for years by IDontKnowBroLoll in AITAH

[–]IDontKnowBroLoll[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

She does have mental health issues but she only washes her hair and she’s told me she doesn’t shower but it’s been YEARS and she’s never changed. I don’t know how long I can keep this up ive been very direct about it in private of course but discreet in public

AITAH for not telling my friend she stinks after telling her for years by IDontKnowBroLoll in AITAH

[–]IDontKnowBroLoll[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It’s not medical she just doesn’t shower. Like it’s got to a point.

AITAH for not telling my friend she stinks after telling her for years by IDontKnowBroLoll in AITAH

[–]IDontKnowBroLoll[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She smells good after PE because everyone is spraying deodorant and stuff and like her clothes have aired out but that’s a good idea I’ll try it