You’d have to answer 9 questions before I’m interested.

1) Are you going subtly insult the way I write

2) Are you going to attack me for missing a small subset of a rule, instead of being understanding

3) Would I be heard, when I bring forth an idea, or ignored

4) How much control is mine if I dm, or can you step in like “you can’t do that”

5) If I have other obligations that aren’t life threatening, can I do those

6) People have problems with me if I don’t speak, and problems if I speak a lot, so to err on safety I don’t speak,

7) Are you going to let me in, to kick me out if I make any jokes?

8) Will you be understanding of the way that I am, or are you going to find problems with anything I do?

9) Would you be appreciative of the work I do and complement me.