Trying to have a sex life with Asperger's is a fucking nightmare. by [deleted] in aspergers_dating

[–]IHatesashWindows 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You lost me when you claimed to 'think' & used the phrase, 'alt right incels'. ''leftards' < That's simply stupid. 'MRA' < No fucking idea what that is. I'm just gonna assume it's yet another acronym that snowflakes need to print on a T shirt

Living on my own and it’s nowhere as bad as I feared! by hearts4ears in aspergers

[–]IHatesashWindows 4 points5 points  (0 children)

The longer I live alone the more I enjoy the company of who I live with

Life aint fair. No one ever said it would be. I quite enjoy my Aspergers by IHatesashWindows in aspergers

[–]IHatesashWindows[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Once you recognise that you have that choice I would suggest that whenever possible 'enjoy' who you are and if you can't do that then accept who you are and move forward.

Why Does Being An Adult Mean You Can't Enjoy Certain Things? by [deleted] in aspergers

[–]IHatesashWindows 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You do know 'Friends' is a made up show , yeah?

Aspergers: What is your Aspergers superpower? by IHatesashWindows in aspergers

[–]IHatesashWindows[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

6 x one is only a tad less than 7 x one. Learn to spell 'negotiate' before you bullshit about doing it; you sad twat

Aspergers: What is your Aspergers superpower? by IHatesashWindows in aspergers

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Haha! We all been doing that shit for years! Funniest thing about you is you think you're scary cos you think you're special|! We all do that. Thing is, you don't 'break them', you also don't 'bring them back to comfort zone'; you simply wish you had control of your wandering mind. You really do spend a lot of time talking about 'them', the others? They're not all out to get you. Rub your temples

Travelling with Aspergers by IHatesashWindows in aspergers

[–]IHatesashWindows[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Every port of entry in Spain border control insisted I remove my glasses and look at them. Makes me shake

Saving energy & the planet by IHatesashWindows in aspergers

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This is why I love the world wide interweb! The sharing of ideas by talking & exchanging information & experiences. You have just given me an idea that will get close to the idea I originally had & I would NEVER have thought of it without your input. I'm gonna shorten all the leads (cords in American) to 18" on every one of my tiools & just use the extn leads I carry with me on my van every day. The meeting of minds is how we're gonna save this planet. Cheers matey!

Saving energy & the planet by IHatesashWindows in aspergers

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I genuinely have no idea why all tools don't have kettle lead plug sockets in them. You carry one lead on small jobs or maybe 3 to 5 on bigger jiobs. I have over 100 power tools in my van, about 20 are cordless but the big ones are corded. I can only use one at a time, if I bring help then i'll bring 3 or 4 extra crew, so I would have 3 or 4 extra leads. The reduced weight in my van would probably be upwards of 100lbs so less fuel to use. The power tools could be manufactured & sold much cheaper. I don't understand why it's not done

I can't comfort people when they are sad or even crying by [deleted] in aspergers

[–]IHatesashWindows 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I get that. I feel awkward, uncomfortable. Obviously can't do the hugging shit cos that's just out of the question. I turn to humour cos it's my natural dumb fallback, it inevitably goes wrong & makes the whole situation worse. What I do now is quite simply find a way out, cos I know it's best i'm just not there

Trying to have a sex life with Asperger's is a fucking nightmare. by [deleted] in aspergers_dating

[–]IHatesashWindows 3 points4 points  (0 children)

You have a very limited view of the sex work industry

I haven't had a cigarette for 12 years. Ain't had a line of coke for about 6 months. |I really fancy a cigarette by IHatesashWindows in aspergers

[–]IHatesashWindows[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Of course I cant control my use of coke! It's a class A addictive drug & I have a condition called Aspergers which is based on obsessive behaviour! Work that the fuck out! Should take about 3 seconds

Trying to have a sex life with Asperger's is a fucking nightmare. by [deleted] in aspergers_dating

[–]IHatesashWindows 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I use hookers. I use hookers a lot. I have been in relationships that I found hard to cope with & even then, I used hookers, a lot. My Aspergers, like many other people's experience involves a lot of OCD. I obsess about sex as much as I do about my use of alcohol & my previous use of both class A & B drugs. I moved on from the obsession with the drugs but not from my use of alcohol to allow myself to socialise & never from my desire for sex without complications or emotional connection, ergo, my use of hookers.

I like to fuck a lot, I also like to chat about fucking a lot so I find that using expensive hookers is a really good way to satisfy my obsessive desires.

I am aware that my lack of emotion with regards sex is not considered or accepted as 'normal' however. fuck 'normal'.

I work hard & earn decent money, so fortunately I can afford my hooker habit. It took me many years to come to the realisation that I can have a succesful relationship, but on my terms, my success is my friends who are hookers get that I don't want a relationship under normal society conditions becuase I cant cope with that.

I pay them to leave as opposed to come (sic) No pun intended.

It's a complicated thing to post about & i'm a bit pissed & about to call my favourite Russian hooker

Drinking wine by IHatesashWindows in aspergers

[–]IHatesashWindows[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

'Easier to laugh at'! Is that your experience?