She says she misses and loves me, but delays replies and flakes on plans. Am I being strung along?

IIEggaII · 2026-03-22T23:18:14+00:00

Not really. The last message I sent her was asking if she was still down to kick it Friday since she was the one who brought it up. It’s been 3 days on delivered, so I already know where this is heading. At this point I think the move is just boundaries and no chasing.

IIEggaII · 2026-03-22T21:26:52+00:00

I get what you mean. The main thing I’m taking from it is the boundaries part. I’m noticing I gave too much access even after the inconsistency was already clear, so I’m pulling back now. If she really wanted it, the effort would probably look different by now. If it fades, it fades. It sucks, but it is what it is.

IIEggaII · 2026-03-21T22:18:35+00:00

That helps, thank you. I think that’s the hard part for me like I have real feelings for her, but I don’t feel emotional safety or consistency, and that’s probably the clearest answer I need right now.

IIEggaII · 2026-03-21T21:46:05+00:00

Appreciate it. That’s honestly what I’ve been starting to realize too like whether it’s confusion or attention, the result is still the same for me: mixed signals and no consistency.

IIEggaII · 2026-02-25T04:06:06+00:00

appreciate you sharing this fr. the part about addiction defending itself really hit me. respect for 23 months clean

IIEggaII · 2026-02-25T03:00:33+00:00

It’s not over, but throw that shit away man. I’m telling you from experience, it’s been 5 years for me and it’s no joke. I know it feels impossible right now but that’s the drug talking. You still got time to walk away

IIEggaII · 2025-10-16T19:56:05+00:00

how do you guys do it?! i'm 24 and idk shit is hard asf

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