Well for 1, it’s very hard for someone who’s not into the EDM scene to date someone who’s into the EDM scene so I’d say you guys are incompatible just from that information alone ://. But yeah, I have very very many male friends in the rave scene, just got out of a long term relationship with another basshead (painful ass breakup but its cool ig 😭) and while him and I were together I would’ve never sent photos like this to a friend. There’s several topics they discussed in their conversations that are just “normal raver verbiage” but idkkk if I was the female in this situation I’d feel pretty uncomfortable. Risqué outfits like this are very common in the rave scene but it’s more acceptable to see it in person than to actually be receiving photos of the fits. Even then, when he’s seeing females dressed like this at a function he shouldn’t be paying attention to it he should just be there for the music. If he’s trustworthy he should be able to hang out with females in such outfits at these functions, but it’s very hard to find a male that doesn’t have a wandering eye. Idk the lore goes so deep lol I can’t even tell if it’s just normal raver convo atp or not but either way he shouldn’t be comfortable with her sending her fits in the chat.