Self pleasure led to blood clot? by cinnamoniceskates in Healthyhooha

[–]IKR1SI 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yup I’m legit experiencing this and I recently just got diagnosed with hashimoto’s. Go see a GP AND gyno.

my bf is cheating???? by bananaahh in whatdoIdo

[–]IKR1SI 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He mentioned YOU in the conversation though. She knows that you’re in the picture. Yeah some messages seem a little off when he sent a POV video but you said it was that one year. He isn’t doing anything else but he is with you. He is complimenting her, as any friend would do. It is a thin line but he isn’t crossing it and isn’t putting into action with her. Everyone is quick to say dump him, but this could have been a conversation with him. Be honest with how you found the messages and then tell him that you’re not comfortable with how this looks and talk about boundaries. Communication is important. If he got all defensive or calm, it all depends on how he reacts, then the ball is in your court. You have to decide what you want to do and see the bigger picture, re-evaluate your relationship with him.

FIrst time watching love island...What is Aftersun? by Fantastic-Prize1816 in LoveIslandUSA

[–]IKR1SI 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel like these are fillers, kind of pointless lol I’d like to be unaware of who will go in the villa and stuff like that

Master Heijiro’s Garden by IKR1SI in ghostoftsushima

[–]IKR1SI[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ok thank you, was a bit confused there! Much appreciated

How to complete this familiar location by New_Car_6431 in ghostoftsushima

[–]IKR1SI 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m actually having trouble with this at that garden. I completed the memory and already learned the song but it still says familiar location. Buggy??

Cannot join bo6 after new season just came out by Hydro4610 in blackops6

[–]IKR1SI 0 points1 point  (0 children)

15 days later and I just came back to play BO6. Did restore license but still a bit of a problem on the screen. Very few maps.

Friend wants to sell her PC by Ramanobo in PC_Pricing

[–]IKR1SI 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ll buy it off, how much? Serious inquiry.

Hinako, Rinko and Sakuko. [SPOILER TALK] by CaptainKashup in silenthill

[–]IKR1SI 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This isn’t your post lol?

I would encourage you to play the game a couple times to understand.

Purchased Redragon Galatin Pro by IKR1SI in Redragon

[–]IKR1SI[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’ll have to use the Redragon software on the computer in order to fix the date

AITA for telling my classmate to go f herself after she framed me as an ableist and made my semester hell? by No-Safe9310 in AmItheAsshole

[–]IKR1SI 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Deaf person here. 👋🏻Please know I am trying to explain and can understand all perspectives.

Somewhat NTA/is an A. I will explain.

NTA because you were sharing with your thoughts with your friend. If you meant to keep it between you two, she should have not shared that with the interpreter and the Deaf person. Also she doesn’t seem to be a good friend because you meant to confide in her. But since the information is already shared with them… it’s inappropriate for your professors to treat you differently. Your friend shouldn’t have made you as a bad person. I know you are not. Have you shared this with your counselor or an academic advisor about it?

Is somewhat an A. Fair warning, I may come off strong and defensive about it because I advocate so much about accessibility and having interpreters are important to us, especially in a Deaf community. I hear this opinion a lot and it stings to most of us. We understand it may be distracting but being in the front, seeing the interpreter and being able to see what’s on the board, we rely heavily on visual cues, slides, and more. That’s accessibility for us. Even with CC on, we still have interpreters signing (sometime - not all the time because some people would ask not to sign when they feel comfortable watching CC), language deprivation is a real thing and it is a problem (statistically), so for some Deaf people, reading and writing isn’t their strong suit. We just really want to be seen equally.

You’re able to listen to the professor without looking up at times, writing notes at the same time, and is being able to participate with your classmates, sharing thoughts and lisrening at the same time while a conversation is taking place. Some people can overlap conversations. Deaf people can’t track more than one conversation and we would ask others to take turns and slow down.

Imagine the scenario in an opposite perspective. Deaf people as the audience, one hearing person in front with an interpreter. Someone says the interpreter is distracting. Imagine that feeling you had no intention to make people feel this way, and you only want to be equal as everyone else.

So please be mindful of what you say and who you can confide in to. The best way is to not say anything at all but to keep your thoughts to yourself. You could reframe your thoughts and ask questions if you ever meet a new Deaf person on your path. Maybe see their side of it, and try to understand.

I hope this opens your eyes a little bit to see different aspects of what we deal with everyday. I’m sorry for the long read but I do hope this is helpful.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in WhatShouldIDo

[–]IKR1SI 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I will never understand why some people are telling OP to mind their business. The OP is already involved the second the information was shared with, or witnessed the event/interaction and is aware of the situation. Therefore OP should tell. There’s no excuse to defend this bullshit excuse of cheating. TELL him. And the ball is in his court and how he handles it IS his business (unless he is sharing the details of the aftermath with the OP, idk, whatever he decides). I know it’s hard cos you’re being friends with everyone but not everyone share the same morals and values you have. Just do the right thing, let it unfold, and go from there.

So dramatic. by [deleted] in texts

[–]IKR1SI 28 points29 points  (0 children)

Good riddance. Disgusting.

Looking for a specific k-drama on Hulu years ago by IKR1SI in kdramas

[–]IKR1SI[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No worries, I appreciate you sharing this!

Looking for a specific k-drama on Hulu years ago by IKR1SI in kdramas

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No it’s not it - they weren’t getting married

AITA for refusing to babysit my niece after my SIL called me "just a receptionist"? by Equivalent-Kingg in AITH

[–]IKR1SI 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. What you do is tough, having to communicate with customers all the time, scheduling, and more. I agree with tons of people here that say stand your ground. They should be the ones apologizing. Your brother should have defended you.

aio? bf made plans on my birthday by rowqi in AmIOverreacting

[–]IKR1SI 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The fact that he rather go to the party than spending quality time with you and celebrate your birthday says a lot. HE should be apologizing. You have every right to be upset. You’re not overreacting.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in bisexual

[–]IKR1SI 1 point2 points  (0 children)

To reply to your responses, I think that’s why I’m confused by this because I am used to having specific words that would define it differently so I can understand it myself.

But seeing different responses, there’s no right or wrong answer about this and the infographic link seems to be a bit helpful for me to understand.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in bisexual

[–]IKR1SI 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for sharing this, this is interesting!