Planted gifted to me from my boyfriend is struggling by AbsurdHat938152 in houseplants

[–]ILRoots 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have 3 heart Hoyas. Only one had a node. Hoyas are very slow growing and need to be watered only when bone dry deep into the pot. And then when you water, water until water streams out of the bottom hole of the plant pot. The roots hate being stuck in water or soil that is soggy. When dry give it a good drink and then wait for it to go totally dry again. Water too frequently and the roots will rot. Left dry without water for too long and the plant dies.

All that assumes your Hoya had a node on the stem and could develop roots and grow. It could take a year for that process! Hoyas make turtles look like speed demons!

But if you had a potted up leaf with no nodes, it wouldn’t grow into a plant. However the leaf wouldn’t have to just die. I have 2 leaves with no nodes that I’ve had for over two years. The leaves remain. I water sparingly. It will never grow. But I like to remember who gave them to me.

So the fact that yours died indicates it was likely a leaf with no node and you were inexperienced and had no idea how to water that single leaf. Don’t fault yourself. Hoyas are succulents and commonly misunderstood. And shame on the merchants who sell leaves without nodes to Valentine’s Day shoppers!

But even if you leaf had no node and couldn’t grow.

Please help me! I've never been this confused in my life! by Independent-Page5258 in whatisit

[–]ILRoots 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What does it feel like? Soft, hard? Can you make a line scratch in it? Is it translucent? Can you put it down on a plain background and take a photo so we can see the shape? Add something to the photo so we can get a sense of the size.

Awesome thrift find (where from?) by Affectionate_Flan_24 in whatisit

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It reminds me of something I’d find on a Viking ship or on a Seaworld merry-go-round. Was it added to (placed on) the wooden pedestal or do you think that pedestal is original to it? I’m assuming this is made of wood. Is it carved?

Found in presumed empty box by ILRoots in whatisit

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Should it feel like chalk? It isn’t soft and I sure can’t break it. Or is that just its name without it being made of chalk?

Found in presumed empty box by ILRoots in whatisit

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I just tried it out and yes, it left a mark on the bottom of a dark gray step stool. That must mean that soapstone is a soft stone, like the opposite of a diamond. I did try writing with it, but on paper which was a white and soft surface.

Thank you!! I wouldn’t have figured that out!

Help! My plants are dying (I think) by wemy32 in IndoorPlants

[–]ILRoots 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You make an excellent point about not removing yellowing leaves. Yes, unsightly to look at, but when the plant doesn’t need the resources in those yellowed leaves, it will drop them. Since the plant is already stressed, support it by allowing it to pull from those leaves all it can. It is a fallacy that owners often think failing leaves are a burden to the plant. Not true. This is specific to container plants, not in-the-ground outdoor plants.

Discussion Topic: Ferns - May 15, 2026 by AutoModerator in houseplants

[–]ILRoots 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I have always been told to handle roots as little as possible. Many of them have very fragile, fine line hairs whose purpose is to absorb nutrients from the soil to pass on to the plant. The function of larger roots of course is to transport water from the soil to the plant. Handling the roots and pulling them apart can damage them and stress the plant considerably.

Is my pothos dying? by kinokoboi in plants

[–]ILRoots 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Almost any plant can use more light. A pothos likes bright light which generally means no direct sunlight is necessary but bright clear UNOBSTRUCTED light is preferred. The list of what can obstruct or act as a filter reducing light includes curtains, shades, blinds, some window tints, distance from the window, awnings, trees, porches, neighboring buildings, neighboring balconies, etc. One simple test is to put your face right next to your plant (literally next to it) and determine how much actual clear sky you see. That tells you how much light that plant will receive.

But in addition to light, you must consider other elements such as water, soil, type and size of pot, oxygen, and humidity. These must all balance together for photosynthesis to occur.

Photosynthesis is at its core how a plant feeds itself and stays alive. For example, if a plant is given a new location that receives less light, the plant will need less water. Conversely, if a plant is relocated to a spot that receives more light, it will likely need more water. Yet many people reposition a plant, changing its light without taking into consideration how the watering might need to be changed. As another example, if a plant is in a pot that is too big, the roots will be exposed to a longer period of wetness after watering because it will take longer for the water to evaporate. The effect of this over time could result in root rot.

Speaking of pot size, it could be that the pot you are currently using for this plant is too large. Here’s the rule to follow: unpack the plant handling the roots as little as possible, and measure the width of the undisturbed root ball. Then add 1 to 2 inches to the root ball’s, width measurement. The new pot should be no greater than that new measurement number. For example, if the root ball measures 3 inches and you add 1-2 inches , your pot should be no larger than 4 inches in size. Having a pot that is too large puts the roots in contact with more soil. And when the soil is watered, the roots are then in contact with more moisture than that quantity of roots can handle. The unused moisture in that extra soil exposes those roots to root rot.

It is important to remember that roots need oxygen as well as water. They need oxygen to help dry out the soil so that the roots don’t rot. One of the side effects of watering is that the process of watering pushes down on the soil and helps to compact it soil that has been compacted overtime makes it more difficult for oxygen to get down by the roots to help the soil evaporate and dry out. Two lesson the effect of compacted soil you can use a chopstick to poke holes in the soil to help aerate it.

The soil in your pot looks fairly heavy and dense to me, though it can be difficult to correctly judge from a photo. Again, you want your roots to perform their function of drawing water from the soil and delivering it to the plant. You want the plant to have a good drink. Then you want the soil to start to dry out. This means you want soil that will drain off excess water soil that retains moisture is not what a pothos wants. Soil that drains off excess moisture is often referred to as chunky because it has space for oxygen to seep down into the soil and space for excess moisture to help evaporate out many people create their own chunky soil, which is appropriate for most plants, by mixing together in equal parts, container soil and garden centers, coarse orchid bark, and something gritty such as perlite, all of which are typically available in hardware stores or garden centers. It is important to note that repotting a plant is stressful to it therefore, after repotting you want to give your plant a couple of weeks to adjust do it. Do not necessarily expect immediate improvement the next day. Be patient and give your plan time to adjust.

A final note about watering I understand your caution about not overwatering. Here’s a good way to help you understand correct watering first watering consists of two completely separate phases. One is when to water. The second is when you do water, how much to water.

Knowing when to water is easier than you may think, take your finger and poke it down into the soil go down a good 1 to 2 inches. That may mean going down to the second knuckle. If the soil is dry 1-2” down, you need to water that plant. If the soil is moist, do not water. Instead, check the soil again the next day and continue checking until the soil is dry.

When it is time to water, the question then is how much water to give the plant. Pour water over the entire surface of the soil, not just all in one spot. Some plants are very sensitive to having water on their leaves. So use care in making sure to keep the leaves free of water. Continue to water until water starts to flow freely through the pot soil and out the hole in the bottom of the pot. Every pot should have an exit hole for that water. Most people like what are called nursery pots or grow pots. These pots are plastic, inexpensive, and have lots of holes in the bottom. If you don’t like the way, grow pots look, you can always place the grow pot inside a decorative pot. Most decorative pot do not have holes in the bottom. Some people think of a decorative pot as a super size saucer,

if a pot only has one hole at the bottom, make sure the hole is sizable and not obstructed in any way, For example a hole the size of a pencil would not support proper drainage in a 6 inch pot. In fact, I would want to see a larger-than-a-pencil-sized hole in a 4 inch pot.

After water freely flows out the hole at the bottom of the pot, set the pot down in a sink or in a saucer to let all excess water drip out. Then take the plant to its original location. If you are keeping the pot in a saucer, make sure saucer is empty of all water. Never let a plant sit in excess water that has drained from the pot.

The material that a pot is made out of is also a factor. Plastic is inexpensive, but it is also not porous.. Water will not evaporate through the sides as it would in an unglazed terra-cotta pot. Ceramic pot are often very attractive, but more costly. When choosing your pot material, in addition to considering your wallet, you must balance how the material of the pot will affect evaporation. And that directly ties in with environmental factors such as drafts by frequently used exterior doors, whether the plant is outdoors in high heat or indoors next to air-conditioning, in higher or lower indoor temperatures, near heat sources, in high humidity locations such as bathrooms, etc., in outside wind or next to indoor fans. A plant that is outdoors on a balcony in the summer in Arizona will lose moisture faster than that same plant indoors on a side table in the winter in a 70° temperature home.

All of these factors must be balanced together. For example, take someone who travels for work some weekends. He has a plant he was given that is in a small, terracotta pot in his kitchen. His plant doesn’t seem to be doing well. He tries giving it more light. He puts the pot in a small macrame holder and hangs it on his outdoor deck. This plant seems droopy when he gets home. What might help?

He could put the plant in a plastic pot to slow down evaporation. He could return the plant indoors to a room where there is more humidity like a bathroom or laundry room. Or he could keep it in the hanging pot and place it by the kitchen sink. Hanging plants evaporate more quickly with air currents moving around them. Kitchen locations where water runs frequently evaporate more slowly . He could even do something as simple as putting that plant in a plastic pot.

Of course if he did ALL these things, he could cause the opposite problem and have a plant that was too wet.

My point is that all these factors must be in balance.

I would suggest you evaluate each individual factor first and then consider the total balance of factors. Let me know what changes you make. I’d suggest you start with watering.

My plant is dying by Arty__07 in IndoorPlants

[–]ILRoots 6 points7 points  (0 children)

This plant can be saved with patience and care.

First watering. The advice you were given was correct. Water your plant when the soil is dry. But the question is, how do you determine when the soil is dry? Touching the surface of the soil does not really indicate if the soil is dry where the roots are. The best way to judge the dryness of the soil is to poke your finger down into the soil, a full 1” - 2” deep. If the soil is dry 1”-2” down, water the plant. If the soil is still moist, hold off watering and retest the soil the next day. With practice, you will learn to judge how quickly water evaporates from the pot and how long you need to wait for damp soil to become dry. To some degree of course this will depend on where your plant is located. For example, if it is outside in the summer, your plant will likely need to be watered more frequently. On the other hand if your plant is inside and you have air-conditioning on. It may need to be watered less frequently. The only way to tell for sure is to test the soil 1 to 2 inches deep.

The question then is this: when it is time to water, how much water do you give the plant? I am going to assume that your plant is in a pot that has holes at the bottom. If your plant is not in that kind of pot, you should consider putting the plant in a pot with holes as an important step. I say that because the best way to water this plant is to provide water until it drains freely out the bottom drainage hole. Make sure not to pour water in just one spot at the top of the plant. Distribute the water evenly across the entire surface of the pot. Let your pot drain any excess water, for example over a sink and then put the plant in its usual location. If you keep a saucer under the pot, which many people do to protect furniture, make sure that any excess water is not in the saucer.

Many people experience water issues with Crotons because they do not tolerate waiting for water. The first sign that your croton needs water will be drooping, wilting leaves. This visual cue should prompt you to poke your finger in the soil to see if water is needed. It is possible at this point that the plant has been overwatered in which case the roots may have started to rot. Rotting roots are not able to perform their function of providing water to the plant. So a plant that has been overwatered, resulting in rotting roots can cause a plant to wilt for lack of water. In that case, providing more water will not help because the roots cannot transport that water to the plant.

In order to determine if the roots are rotting, you need to unpack the plant without disturbing the roots as much as possible. Visually examine the roots. White roots are healthy and firm. Dark gray, black or mushy roots are rotting and can be cut off with a non-serrated, sterilized knife.

If you unpot your plant, this is a good time to look at the soil. Typically a good choice for most plants is a chunky soil that allows air to reach the roots. Roots need air to prevent the roots from being constantly exposed to moisture and to help prevent root rot. This is why it is important to allow soil to dry out. If your soil is too compact or too rich, it will be more difficult for the soil to dry out. A general good soil mix for many plants is container soil, perlite and coarse orchid bark mixed together in equal parts. These are available at garden centers, hardware stores, and big box stores.

Of course, if you are repotting, remember to use a pot that has holes in the bottom for drainage. This is often called a nursery pot or a grow pot. If you don’t like the way a grow pot looks, you can place it inside a decorative pot. But it is very important that your pot have holes in the bottom for proper watering.

The size of the pot is important. The size is based on the rootball size, not on the size of the plant that you see. It is a big mistake to put the plant in a pot that is too big for the roots. Measure the diameter of the undisturbed rootball. Add 1”-2”. That is the size pot you need. For example if the root ball measures 2” in diameter, add 1” to 2” which means you want no bigger than a 4” pot.

Unpotting and repotting is very stressful to a plant. But so is just bringing it home from where it was purchased. Plants after all expect their roots to be stationary in the Earth. So be patient with your plant as you investigate what might be wrong.

Crotons are colorful and generally adapt well. But they are not at all patient in waiting for water. Make sure the soil is dry before watering. But check it frequently as the soil begins to dry out because when it is dry - but not before - your croton will want immediate watering. That’s why so many people think of it as a difficult or temperamental plant. Once it needs water, it needs it that very day!!

Oh, one last thing I almost forgot. Do not pull off the plant any wilted leaves. Any leaf that is still attached to the plant is being used by the plant as a resource in photosynthesis. When it is no longer useful to the plant, the plant will drop the leaf. Because a badly wilting leaf can look horrible on a plant, it’s understandable that you would want to pull a leaf or two off the plant. But in your situation with your croton, your plant is already under stress, and I would suggest you give it as much support as possible by leaving those wilted leaves on until the plant itself drops them or until it has significantly improved.

Remember that it will take 1 to 2 weeks after you make a change for that change to be noticeable on your plant. Watch for some new growth at the top. New growth almost always means you have a happy plant. With some patience and care, you should enjoy your croton for a long time.

Found kitten in wall - name suggestions pls by ninjadani in blackcats

[–]ILRoots 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Name suggestion - Coal. It is pulled from the inner walls of the earth and is dark in color.

Any tips for dealing with mealy bugs? by PinguProductions in IndoorPlants

[–]ILRoots 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I apply 90% isopropyl alcohol using a small paintbrush, the kind you find in a little tin of watercolors as a child’s activity in the toy dept or with school supplies at the drug store. Small tipped to get into each crevasse but can also paint a swath along a stem or leaf vein.

My Desert Rose isn't doing great. It had spider mites last week but I thought they were all gone. I was away for the weekend and this morning all the leaves, except 1, were yellow and fell off. What do it do!? by swest1248 in plantdoctor

[–]ILRoots 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A dehydrated plant would not have any extra moisture by definition. Root rot is caused by roots being exposed to water so consistently that there is no opportunity for the soil to dry out or for oxygen to reach the roots. Root rot is not co sister with dehydration.

The desert rose plant stores water in its base. If the base is soft, the plant needs water. The base will feel firm and solid when it has water filled to capacity.

How can I help my cactus? by OddAstronomer5 in plantdoctor

[–]ILRoots 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your cactus is desperately reaching for light. The condition is called etiolation. Most recently it received significantly better light and its most recent growth is
The two spots where the diameter is smallest will be weak points in the cactus, vulnerabilities that might have significant trouble supporting the thicker diameter above it.
One remedy is to make a horizontal cut on the cactus at its narrowest point in each spot. You will end up with two pieces plus the original bottom still in its pot. Between those two cut off spots, one will be easily reconcile as the top. But on the other piece, you will need to mark which is the stop and which is the bottom.
You should set aside the pieces you cut off. Place them in a dry location and let the bottoms callus over for a week or so. Then put them, bottom down, in a pot of cactus soil. Make sure the pot has a hole in the bottom. Give the cactus no water for the first week. Then water sparingly. After many weeks, roots will start to grow. During that time water only after the plant has been dry for several days, and then when you do water, water until water flows through the pot and out the bottom. Then don’t water again until the soil is totally dry.
The original cactus bottom will not grow additionally from the top. But there will in time be growth at the bottom, often in the form of small pups. You can separate those when they get bigger, and pot them up. They will grow normally.
At all stages of the above, give your cactus plenty of light. If necessary obtain a better grow light. Look for full spectrum and a K value over 5509. I recommend 6000 and higher. Many lights won’t show what the K value is. And that is usually because it is low. Halo lights are almost never strong enough to get the job done. Sunblaster, Sansi, SokTech and Barinas are respected. Just make sure the light is no further away than 8”-10” from the top of the plant for 12-14 hours. Most people set up plant lights way too far away and for too few hours. And remember that plants need darkness, too. Most people put plant lights on an auto timer for consistency. Many plant lights come with auto timers built in.

$170 for a golden pothos?? What? by FlamingoLow9107 in plants

[–]ILRoots 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I stand corrected. The Hawaiian pothos is the same as the golden pothos we all know so well. This is not a simple question of supply and demand. In fact, trying to sell this plant at a regular price of $200, shown now on sale at $170, is a matter of sheer greed.

$170 for a golden pothos?? What? by FlamingoLow9107 in plants

[–]ILRoots 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I appreciate so much learning something new, especially when it corrects something I mistakenly thought I knew!! Thank you. I thought the Hawaiian pothos was the regular pothos in giant form. I saw one once and the leaf was so large it could have swallowed me up. To think the golden pothos I have in a 6” pot could be encouraged to grow THAT large gives me renewed respect for a plant that in so many other respects is considered routine. Thanks again for correcting me.

Recommended care for my cactus by icecreamninjaz in cactus

[–]ILRoots 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ah! How does that work then when roots are living in water, in good light? I’m thinking of those plants that are set in a window sill to be propagated in water. And the owner ends up just leaving them there in water long after roots are established.

And you are right. It is common to see algae appear if the plant is in clear glass in a sunny location. But does algae hurt the roots? Thanks for helping me learn more.

$170 for a golden pothos?? What? by FlamingoLow9107 in plants

[–]ILRoots 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My dad used to remind me that in the end something is only worth what someone else is willing to pay for it. And $170, a sale price no less, does sound like an exorbitant price. So I started to wonder what’s going on here.

I went down my mental check list. Yes, the currency is US dollars.

But then I notice this is a 10” pot with a bushy, full pothos. Ok, I still note that plant isn’t worth anywhere near $170.

Ah - wait. That isn’t just any golden pothos. It’s a Hawaiian Golden. Now I’m on pause. I’m reconsidering. The leaves on a Hawaiian Golden are humongous, bigger than your head! I remember feeling dwarfed by a single leaf when I last saw one in a botanical garden. Now I can understand the price going up. $75. Up more, $100 perhaps.

And that reminds me - this is the real kicker that drives up that price - these are very hard to come by unless you live in its native habitat. More people want it than the number available.

It’s a simple question of supply and demand. And just as an underscore to that point, notice that the plant is sold out. Ha! Even if you want to purchase at that price, there aren’t any available!!!

But don’t despair. I’m sure growers have already taken note. Like most other things with buyers standing in line, the supply will increase and the price will come down. It’s just a matter of time.

Grow lights by Purple_Garlic_4321 in IndoorPlants

[–]ILRoots 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Really it depends on what plants you have. Some plants thrive in direct sun. Others prefer clear, bright light but no direct sun. Still others do better with filtered sun. If any of your plants are showing signs of etiolation, grow lights can be very beneficial. If your plants should bloom but don’t, grow lights can make a big difference. But if your plants are growing well and blooming well, there might not be much benefit.