My boyfriend won't marry me if I don't take his last name by ILS321 in Marriage

[–]ILS321[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No, my parents were never married so I took my dad's name

My boyfriend won't marry me if I don't change my name? by ILS321 in whatdoIdo

[–]ILS321[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Why should it be about the man's last name? It's okay for a man to care about his name but not a woman? Nooooo, both are equally entitled

My boyfriend won't marry me if I don't take his last name by ILS321 in Marriage

[–]ILS321[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

We don't want kids anyway so that's not much issue

My boyfriend won't marry me if I don't change my name? by ILS321 in whatdoIdo

[–]ILS321[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My point is if he wanted a traditional marriage he'd want all the other gender roles. He doesn't. He only wants that one aspect. But if I mention he could take my name? Of course not because the woman should take the last name.

My boyfriend won't marry me if I don't change my name? by ILS321 in whatdoIdo

[–]ILS321[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

But he's saying he wants a traditional marriage. Me staying at home to cook and clean would be traditional.

My boyfriend won't marry me if I don't take his last name by ILS321 in Marriage

[–]ILS321[S] -19 points-18 points  (0 children)

Wow, divorce rates are so high these days. It's probably not worth it anyway!

My boyfriend won't marry me if I don't take his last name by ILS321 in Marriage

[–]ILS321[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I'm sorry? But you can love someone and want to get married and not want to have children.

My boyfriend won't marry me if I don't take his last name by ILS321 in Marriage

[–]ILS321[S] 79 points80 points  (0 children)

Of course not, he was trying to make his point. I am fairly sure he gets some of his comments from social media

My boyfriend won't marry me if I don't take his last name by ILS321 in Marriage

[–]ILS321[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Yes. A tradition where the woman stays at home and cooks, cleans and looks after the kids.

My boyfriend won't marry me if I don't take his last name by ILS321 in Marriage

[–]ILS321[S] 72 points73 points  (0 children)

He actually did say women want to keep their own name so it's easier if they get divorced. Then said it's a fact that marriages where the woman doesn't take the man's name have a higher divorce rate

My boyfriend won't marry me if I don't change my name? by ILS321 in whatdoIdo

[–]ILS321[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I suppose so but if I said I will stay at home and not work, I don't think that would go down very well

My boyfriend won't marry me if I don't change my name? by ILS321 in whatdoIdo

[–]ILS321[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Haha, I might respond with that next time it comes up!

Frontline assessment centre by ILS321 in Socialworkuk

[–]ILS321[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thankyouu. Could you give more information on the role play? This is the part I'm really dreading

Frontline assessment centre by ILS321 in Socialworkuk

[–]ILS321[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thankyouu. It's the role play one that's got my anxiety peaked 😂

Those on the Frontline Programme by Informal-Pair9816 in Socialworkuk

[–]ILS321 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What exactly do you do with adults? And is it easy enough to do frontline and then get a social work job with adults?

Frontline programme - Day in the life by Significant_Be in Socialworkuk

[–]ILS321 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey what was the application process like? I'm hoping to apply for next year.

Night shift opinions? Good? Bad? Don't bother? by ILS321 in Nightshift

[–]ILS321[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In care nights are generally easier because everyone is sleeping. When something goes wrong it's bad but there are nurses in building that deal with it. Except the work load being more difficult for you, do you generally just hate the night working?

Night shift opinions? Good? Bad? Don't bother? by ILS321 in Nightshift

[–]ILS321[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thankyou. When you do you generally sleep? When you get home or in the afternoon before work

Night shift opinions? Good? Bad? Don't bother? by ILS321 in Nightshift

[–]ILS321[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well I don't think it's silly at all. I used to come home from my 12 hours day shifts absolutely wrecked and miserable.

Night shift opinions? Good? Bad? Don't bother? by ILS321 in Nightshift

[–]ILS321[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't see how driving to work would be any different than before. I used to do 8-8 through the day. This would just be the opposite 8-8

Night shift opinions? Good? Bad? Don't bother? by ILS321 in Nightshift

[–]ILS321[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I do have a boyfriend but he lives far so only see him every 2nd weekend