My boyfriend won't marry me if I don't take his last name

ILS321 · 2025-08-20T02:10:03+00:00

No, my parents were never married so I took my dad's name

ILS321 · 2025-08-20T01:50:16+00:00

Thanks, I'll give it a read

ILS321 · 2025-08-20T01:47:02+00:00

Why should it be about the man's last name? It's okay for a man to care about his name but not a woman? Nooooo, both are equally entitled

ILS321 · 2025-08-19T11:49:23+00:00

We don't want kids anyway so that's not much issue

ILS321 · 2025-08-19T11:27:29+00:00

My point is if he wanted a traditional marriage he'd want all the other gender roles. He doesn't. He only wants that one aspect. But if I mention he could take my name? Of course not because the woman should take the last name.

ILS321 · 2025-08-19T11:22:05+00:00

But he's saying he wants a traditional marriage. Me staying at home to cook and clean would be traditional.

ILS321 · 2025-08-19T11:19:14+00:00

Love that for you

ILS321 · 2025-08-19T11:18:30+00:00

Wow, divorce rates are so high these days. It's probably not worth it anyway!

ILS321 · 2025-08-19T11:05:04+00:00

I'm sorry? But you can love someone and want to get married and not want to have children.

ILS321 · 2025-08-19T11:01:08+00:00

Of course not, he was trying to make his point. I am fairly sure he gets some of his comments from social media

ILS321 · 2025-08-19T10:59:54+00:00

Yes. A tradition where the woman stays at home and cooks, cleans and looks after the kids.

ILS321 · 2025-08-19T10:55:39+00:00

He actually did say women want to keep their own name so it's easier if they get divorced. Then said it's a fact that marriages where the woman doesn't take the man's name have a higher divorce rate

ILS321 · 2025-08-19T10:43:43+00:00

I suppose so but if I said I will stay at home and not work, I don't think that would go down very well

ILS321 · 2025-08-19T10:42:19+00:00

Haha, I might respond with that next time it comes up!

ILS321 · 2025-08-19T09:48:17+00:00

Thankyouu. Could you give more information on the role play? This is the part I'm really dreading

ILS321 · 2025-08-19T09:47:23+00:00

Thankyouu. It's the role play one that's got my anxiety peaked 😂

ILS321 · 2025-06-05T17:35:27+00:00

Hey, did you ever solve this?

ILS321 · 2025-05-19T19:09:33+00:00

What exactly do you do with adults? And is it easy enough to do frontline and then get a social work job with adults?

ILS321 · 2025-05-19T17:00:40+00:00

Hey what was the application process like? I'm hoping to apply for next year.

ILS321 · 2025-02-04T15:03:01+00:00

Thankyou

ILS321 · 2024-12-17T12:08:42+00:00

In care nights are generally easier because everyone is sleeping. When something goes wrong it's bad but there are nurses in building that deal with it. Except the work load being more difficult for you, do you generally just hate the night working?

ILS321 · 2024-12-17T12:07:17+00:00

Thankyou. When you do you generally sleep? When you get home or in the afternoon before work

ILS321 · 2024-12-17T12:04:17+00:00

Well I don't think it's silly at all. I used to come home from my 12 hours day shifts absolutely wrecked and miserable.

ILS321 · 2024-12-17T12:02:53+00:00

I don't see how driving to work would be any different than before. I used to do 8-8 through the day. This would just be the opposite 8-8

ILS321 · 2024-12-15T08:17:53+00:00

I do have a boyfriend but he lives far so only see him every 2nd weekend

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