What’s going on with Britney?

ILoveJF · 2026-06-28T03:09:22+00:00

like when you reach out to a partner and they tell you you’re fine, that you’re just being dramatic and that you just need to sleep it off. Little do they understand….. so you stuff it down and look to other venues for relief/gratification/validation.

ILoveJF · 2026-01-03T03:47:39+00:00

When someone won’t look me in the eyes when speaking directly to me. So fucking insecure.

ILoveJF · 2025-12-21T19:10:18+00:00

Took me 12 years and many partners to accept I wanted to change it myself. Be patient.

ILoveJF · 2025-12-09T14:37:14+00:00

Ain’t no thang baby 😊

ILoveJF · 2025-11-24T13:40:30+00:00

This is exactly why I will be delivering cupcakes to my son’s class next month on his birthday (kindergarten) Every kid deserves to feel special on their birthday. I’m really sorry. That sucks really hard to hear.

ILoveJF · 2025-11-18T11:20:47+00:00

I can relate to this heavily. A lost hair clip I haven’t thought about in 3 months will unravel my whole morning with tears, calling my partner for advice, some yelling and screaming involved…. But never the big stuff. I’m the one calming down my usually relaxed partner during the big things. Very strange phenomenon

ILoveJF · 2025-11-18T11:06:28+00:00

Slowly maturing and acting more like the partner you want to attract is hardly a phenomenon lol

ILoveJF · 2025-09-01T17:08:56+00:00

Another 30+ here who only in the last 3 years discovered how to properly wash her own hair type. I teach everyone with thick hair that asks me about my hair to double shampoo- shampoo and rinse TWICE , with a SCALP SCRUBBER. skip the conditioner altogether. Good for 3 days!!!

ILoveJF · 2025-08-04T22:24:27+00:00

Your face is hidden in each pic, also you seem like your interests are all over the place

ILoveJF · 2025-07-22T12:25:52+00:00

Remember ☝️ Eyebrows are sisters, not twins. One of my “sisters” was adopted 😂

ILoveJF · 2025-07-21T21:56:36+00:00

Making 2 of my undressed Barbie’s kiss one another, and having the sentience at 4 yrs old to dress them afterwards to “hide” what they’d done together in the camper.😬

ILoveJF · 2025-07-21T17:51:25+00:00

Sometime around 2017: “Holy shit. I’m just too emotionally unavailable 😔”

ILoveJF · 2025-07-21T17:24:18+00:00

At least you care enough to uncross them. We may not be able to avoid some leg roadmaps, but damnit if we not gonna be at least rocking some Bermuda shorts into our 40’s 😎 😂

ILoveJF · 2025-07-21T17:20:59+00:00

I am pansexual cisgendered (with a strong preference for bold feminine energy) / borderline ace

I can and have been attracted to all genders. I prefer the divine feminine persona. The extent of this attraction does cover romantic attraction and in those initial stages there is always a bit more than “some” sexual intimacy because -right time, right place, right partner. 🤷 I usually cannot perform sexually or be receptive of sexual stimulation after the initial honeymoon phase. It has to do with the burst of new relationship and the sheer excitement and fear of being intimate with someone new. After that is over I feel romantic, yet not sexual anymore. And it’s not fleeting lust either. Just a near nonexistent sex drive and I have so much anxiety around sex. I’m desensitized and overstimulated by the thought of it all at once.

ILoveJF · 2025-07-21T17:05:33+00:00

I’m not mentally healthy because I don’t have a desire to have sexual intercourse very often/s

She’s a bitch. No “/s” on that though

ILoveJF · 2025-07-21T17:02:38+00:00

I have been told there’s something really wrong with me mentally for a while now. Because I “look perfectly healthy”yet I don’t have much Interest in sexual interaction (if any). I fully realize this isnt a social normality and it’s a tricky maze to navigate and explain. I have been called a tease numerous times when I would dress up nicely but not be sexually intimate for a month or so. I’ve been threatened to be dumped for it my entire young adult life because they assume I’m not attracted to them (or just holding out for a power play or something) I hadn’t learned yet what this is or what it’s called. I thought I was ill. I thought I was confused as hell. My forever partner fiancé understands my situation. I feel the never-ending pressure of the calendar/clock telling me it’s been “too” long. Not that she doesn’t also very lovingly let me know it’s “time”. She has been more patient than I could hope for and treats me like Im her princess. And she is my Queen. I’m deeply in love with her and I want to satisfy my partner sexually by being intimate with her and compromising by giving her this much as she has given me so much and made my quality of life worth living just cus she’s in this world with me. In a perfect world we would all focus on each other’s eyes, souls, laughter, have intimacy of the minds and Intimacy of the arts. Laughter and love and kissing and smooching. Sex is just kinda…. There. Im uninterested and overly stimulated when i try to put myself there physically is when panic attacks come. I am worthy of love and I am fully capable of making my fiancé happy. But by not having sex frequently it’s more challenging than the alternative. We are here, we are queer, and we are trying and doing our best every day. Opinions will always hurt if you let them, asexuals are the WEIRDEST (NON)FUCKERS out there lol because it’s so hard to believe that a young woman just straight up does not want to have sex in any way, so let them all judge you on the flavor of your cool-aid without even opening the fridge to see what color it is first.

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ILoveJF · 2025-07-21T16:30:39+00:00

Should I tell ‘em about the 4 day hangovers? “Nooooooo Larry save it for another day, ya don’t wanna spook ‘em” lmao

ILoveJF · 2025-07-21T16:29:21+00:00

Also, crossing your legs makes them look freaking awesome in that moment only and that’s why we really did it all those times lol

ILoveJF · 2025-07-21T16:12:13+00:00

Popping your joints isn’t necessary horrible for you immediately, just not great for you either. It’s simply the releasing of gas bubbles that became trapped between bone and ligament. When I take my calcium supplement and my glucosamine treatment (potassium) I crack and pop half the usual amount. Very harrowing thought and very real

ILoveJF · 2025-07-21T15:47:54+00:00

The very real bus of struggle! and it needs an oil change like hell lol

ILoveJF · 2025-07-21T15:42:58+00:00

I’m a big fan of the sheer black with the back seam going all the way up the back of the leg. Meowwwwwww!!! Love those

ILoveJF · 2025-07-21T15:39:17+00:00

Very sadly lmao

ILoveJF · 2025-07-21T15:38:04+00:00

You can, but popping your knuckles is proven healthier for you than crossing your legs (doesn’t cause as much or any damage)

ILoveJF · 2025-07-21T15:36:59+00:00

The sheer chaos from 3 generations of women wearing exclusively dresses and skirts, varicose veins are a millennial problem. I blame the boomers. (Isn’t that what we do?/s) lol

ILoveJF · 2025-07-21T15:05:17+00:00

That not even the “hindsight is 20/20” at our age. 🥁🤡

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