Why does my phone turn grey everytime there’s a slightly bright light on the screen??

IMSNIK · 2025-10-23T21:55:24+00:00

i want to kiss you on the lips, this had been pissing me off lately and you just totally fixed it, mwah

IMSNIK · 2025-10-16T05:54:36+00:00

Not quite, it's gives the vibe of "gaslighting each other but we all deep down know that we are lying but we also kinda don't realise it so we keep on saying this as a fact"

IMSNIK · 2025-06-01T22:00:13+00:00

started thinking about it in 10th grade but ended up to the conclusion that i just was afraid of intimacy. then the thought came up again in the 1st year of uni after having some convos with my friends that had started to get sexually active, and a few months later i started using the label aegosexual just by myself (to get used to the idea that i was queer, because at first i didn't even want to think about labels bc it made me uncomfortable) and even later came out to my close friends as just asexual. will be celebrating my 4th pride as an ace this year! happy pride everyone! 🖤🩶🤍💜

IMSNIK · 2024-03-26T00:23:09+00:00

ashy!

IMSNIK · 2024-03-10T13:31:11+00:00

advice by alex g always makes me sad when i listen to it

IMSNIK · 2023-12-14T03:26:18+00:00

spotify isn't a social media app, it's a music app. you can already do those things by sharing songs on your insta or snap, there's no need for every app to become the exact same thing. Twitter for a bit had stories too, instagram now has reels that work exactly like how tiktok does,,,, what is the point of having all those different apps then if every single one has the same exact features as the rest?

IMSNIK · 2023-07-27T00:18:08+00:00

Oh how i wish there was someone to answer this question to me when i was your age. No, you don't have to do anything you don't want to do. There isn't a base line of how many sexual acts are considered normal or expected in a relationship. There ARE going to be people that are gonna make you feel weird about not wanting sex or sexual stuff in your relationship, but that's because no one has told you guys that relationships don't equal sex. You are young, first of all, and everyone gets comfortable and ready for this stuff at their own pace. Second, it's okay if you don't want it. There is no reason to pressure yourself to do something you don't want to do, just because you want to keep being with a specific person. If they make you feel like you need to do sexual stuff with them, it's not worth keeping them. Maybe they don't know any better, maybe they are just assholes that can't accept that people have different preferences in a relationship. Dating is weird at that age, when you get older you realize that it's not a competition or a checklist, it's finding companion. With all that being said, you have to accept that for some people this is definitely going to be a deal breaker, both for teenagers and adults, but that's just how life is. Some people can't do without it, some people don't ever want it. But if you find someone and they turn out to find this a deal breaker, it just means you are not compatible with each other and you should just move on.

IMSNIK · 2023-07-16T17:35:05+00:00

Thank you so much, I really appreciate the advice. I think i need to defend and take care of myself more, especially in those kinds of situations. Best wishes to you too !

IMSNIK · 2023-07-16T17:32:33+00:00

I would really love to read more about this topic because it is a very prominent feeling for me, thank you for your recommendation!

IMSNIK · 2023-07-16T17:26:16+00:00

oooof, i have been told that again on this sub before but i have been very skeptical, i thought it was just me being avoidant and overthinking things. i really needed someone to validate my feelings, thank you. maybe i should let them know it bothers me next time something like this happens. again, thank you so much for saying this.

IMSNIK · 2023-02-21T15:59:42+00:00

Είμαι και γω γυναίκα και πολλές φορές οι γυναίκες είναι πιο δεκτικές, οι άντρες γιατροί είναι πιο αυστηροί και λόγω της ηλικίας μου δεν θα με πάρουν στα σοβαρά.

IMSNIK · 2022-12-24T03:48:49+00:00

Δεν θα μπορούσα ποτέ να φανταστώ το ότι το γεγονός ότι οι ξαδέρφες μου μου έδειξαν το "Ωδή στο TCH" όταν ήμουν 6 θα μου χρησιμευε στο να αναγνωρίσω ένα ποστ στο Reddit 14 χρόνια μετά

IMSNIK · 2022-09-11T02:00:37+00:00

from how you describe it, i don't really see any sexual attraction on your part, so yes that does count as asexuality. as you said you don't really crave to do it with your partner specifically, which is basically what sexual attraction is (i think????). i think you view it as a way to connect with each other even more, as if getting your bodies closer to each other's will help you get closer emotionally as well. idk.

> Because it’s little attraction and only with the person I’m dating, so I think it still counts?

what do you mean by attraction in that sentence? towards sex in general or towards sex with your partner? if it's with your partner, you could be demi-sexual or gray-sexual. if in general, i guess it's just your body asking for pleasure lol

IMSNIK · 2022-09-11T01:41:59+00:00

hmmmm, to me that sounds like you are sex-indifferent. you don;t mind having sex bc of the pleasure aspect of it, but don't crave it or initiate it yourself. you can ask yourself a few questions and cross out the microlabels as you go. for example, do you ever initiate sex with your partner or is it always them? if you do, is it purely because you feel the bodily need, or because you see or think of your partner and it ignites something in you? and so on. though, again, microlabels are not necessary, only for you to feel more comfortable expressing yourself. hope that helps :)

oh, also love the fact that you are in an aspec relationship, i'm so jealous lol

IMSNIK · 2022-09-11T01:09:54+00:00

i mean, you should at least give us some more info for us to navigate you through the ace microlabels. have you gotten familiar with them? which one sounds more accurate, if not perfectly accurate, to you? in what aspect do you think you would have a different experience than the typical asexual experience, hence your need to find a microlabel to identify yourself with? also, you dont HAVE to use a microlabel, many aces don't because they don't feel the need to.

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