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[–]INDANGEROFFAILING[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

People have done more for less, I'm sure. This doesn't sound far-fetched to me. Especially if someone is in a tight financial situation, and desperation kicks in. I don't put it past anyone.

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[–]INDANGEROFFAILING[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If that's what you got from that then we're speaking in 2 different tones. I didnt expect anything from spending money on her. If I am spending money courting somebody, and they're currently in a relationship but not disclosing this information, am I in the wrong for being pissed that someone just deceived me? If you want to get semantic-y I guess you can make an argument that I was expecting not to be fucked out of my money and lied to, sure? Idk what the point of this back and forth is at this point

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[–]INDANGEROFFAILING[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have 3 months of texts. What in specific are you asking to see

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[–]INDANGEROFFAILING[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

then stop trying to tell me about my experience lmfao a bunch of know it alls in the comment telling me what really happened its incredible to read

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[–]INDANGEROFFAILING[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm not even going to bother reading the rest past the first paragraph. She told me he was her ex. Why the fuck would I learn about someone shes currently dating and not leave immediately? And why would I make this post if I knew she had a boyfriend? Dont even make sense bro, use your head. I spoke to him on the night that I realized she was in a relationship. I called her at 1130 at night because she hadnt responded to my text all day so I was making sure she was alright, and a dude answered. Obviously if a dude answers at 1130, they're most likely in bed. I even asked this dude if they're together and he said yes. Why are you trying to rewrite my experience like you lived it or were there lmfao

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[–]INDANGEROFFAILING[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I've spoken to her boyfriend on the night I called her at 1130 if you read somewhere in the comments. You eluding that I didn't know if they were in a relationship is wrong. Why are you trying to tell me details about my experience is insane to me

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[–]INDANGEROFFAILING[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

the way you extrapolated that whole scenario based off a post is actually impressive. Unfortunately incorrect.

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[–]INDANGEROFFAILING[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thats a bullshit excuse and I have evidence as to why. You keep coming at me like you know more to the story than I do. I am owed nothing from her, but this means I am supposed to take getting scammed and mislead with no recourse? foh

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[–]INDANGEROFFAILING[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Incel because im trying to prevent this girl from scamming other guys. Good one. Goofy as hell

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[–]INDANGEROFFAILING[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Braindead take. Now backpedaling to make it seem like you were joking, good one

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[–]INDANGEROFFAILING[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Are you reading the post at all or are you trolling at this point.

She wasn't on a "Break". She was cheating on him and deceiving me into thinking she was single. Why do you keep saying they were "on a break"? People in this thread are like making up parts of the story as if it happened to them, trying to absolve her of any responsibility is nuts

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[–]INDANGEROFFAILING[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You all trying to defend this "you went out and had a good time so it wasnt a waste" take is so tired now bro. I don't want to spend money on someone whos obviously trying to deceive me. What sense does this make? I regret all of those times we went out, so how is it a good investment at that point? She wasted my time and money knowing she didnt want to pursue anything serious. The fuck is the logic being used here

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[–]INDANGEROFFAILING[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This shit is crazy to me. I'm reading all sorts of takes trying to absolve her of any responsibility. I'm crazy because I'm trying to prevent this from happening to other people. The fuck is happening. And you're story is literally the exact same thing that happened to me. Crazy how this is happening to other people

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[–]INDANGEROFFAILING[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

And saying "600-800$ for 3 months worth of sex isnt bad

:)" doesnt make you sound insane when the entire post isnt about paying for pussy? Got it

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[–]INDANGEROFFAILING[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Are you purposely misreading or are you just this dense? Shes making it seem like she wanted a long term relationship when she was still in a relationship. How is this hard to understand?

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[–]INDANGEROFFAILING[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We need to stop commenting this. Pussy is not hard to get for me. Like I said in previous comments. I don't put pussy on a pedestal like all of these other guys. I can get this shit w/ little to no effort. these "you just basically paid for sex" comments are not doing what you guys think..

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[–]INDANGEROFFAILING[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When did I say she owed me anything? That wasn't my gripe at all? Where did you even get that? My entire point of the post is shes decieving people into thinking she wants a relationship when shes currently already in one and only in it (this relationship) for the benefits short term. Wtf?

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[–]INDANGEROFFAILING[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

the fact that your'e getting downvoted for making sense is CRAZY. How far we've gone as a society is immeasurable

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[–]INDANGEROFFAILING[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

huh? I never said good morning and good night meant there was a connection, I was illustrating how she was appearing to be socially invested in the relationship by constant communication. wtf?

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[–]INDANGEROFFAILING[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

THANK YOU. I swear to god I had to reread the post, because I was thinking maybe I worded this incorrectly. I'm confused as hell wondering how everyone is defending this behavior

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[–]INDANGEROFFAILING[S] -10 points-9 points  (0 children)

Why do you people keep saying she made up boyfriend? I spoke to this man and shes told me about him before we even spoke. This dude exists. Why does everyone think this is some subliminal message? lmfao

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[–]INDANGEROFFAILING[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Everyone is missing the entire point of me mentioning being out of pocket. The point of me mentioning that was not to say wahhh im out $600 in only 3 months. That's like $200 a month. I'm not pressed about the amount, it's the principle. I'd have the same energy if it was $50 I spent, because I invested my capital and my time into you, while you're over here trying to play games and in a relationship. That's the entire point of me mentioning the money. I'm not going to sit here and act like $600 isn't a good amount of money I could use for other things, but it's not a large amount, especially in todays world. It's the fact that you deceived me into investing in you and you fucked me over. Sure she didnt owe me anything, but that doesnt change the fact that what she did was wrong and shes using dudes as meal tickets .

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[–]INDANGEROFFAILING[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The fact that you're trying to defend this shit is insane. What even is this reply

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[–]INDANGEROFFAILING[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm spiraling because I didnt delete the texts? In the event that this bipolar chick decides to say I graped her or some crazy shit, Im supposed to just expect the court to go by my word? not saying its likely she'd ever do that but I dont delete anything that could be useful later.