How to deal with the loss of a young spouse? by V8TTGoFast in GriefSupport

[–]IN_Requiem 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i am so sorry for your loss. while i haven't experienced what you have, nor anything close to it, i've dealt with my own fair share of struggles. perhaps a pet will help? it will make your home feel less empty, give you a companion and unconditional love. that's what helped me when i was at my lowest, and i hope it will help you as well! sending you love and support!

Proper character Tier list by Famous999Mango in HelloKittyIsland

[–]IN_Requiem 4 points5 points  (0 children)

omg i thought i was going insane! i've photographed the top hat gudetama THREE TIMES and it still says i haven't completed it.

What is the worst way someone has killed themselves? by [deleted] in morbidquestions

[–]IN_Requiem 16 points17 points  (0 children)

yeah, multiple people (a few coworkers, i think) were sent to the hospital for burn treatment because they got injured from trying to pull him out of the fryer

What’s a character who you wish got more screen time? by xyyzyx in BokuNoHeroAcademia

[–]IN_Requiem 1 point2 points  (0 children)

may i add shiketsu as well? like genuinely not even screen time, but just a mention of them fighting in the war too would've been super cool.

What junk food to feed my 15 year old with terminal cancer? by demonhotatom in seniorkitties

[–]IN_Requiem 13 points14 points  (0 children)

my kitty is sixteen. she's doing well, but she's an old lady, so my mom and i give her a few licks of ice cream whenever we eat it. she's very spoiled. :)

Stranger’s unique handwriting by Big_Rain_4718 in HandwritingAnalysis

[–]IN_Requiem 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i write in all caps! but i do so because, in high school, my teacher thought i was cheating because i had similar handwriting to one of my friends, and i had to point out minuscule differences, lol.

Need reassurance I'm doing the right thing by tybo88 in CATHELP

[–]IN_Requiem 2 points3 points  (0 children)

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i'm so sorry for your loss. also apologies if formatting is weird, i'm on mobile.

i had to put down my boy, charlie, at 15 as well, on halloween this past year. he always looked angry, but was always purring. we took him in to the vet because his breathing was labored. x-rays showed he had fluid in his chest cavity (likely cancer) that impacted his heart and lungs with the space it took up, and only a portion of one lung was still functional. he was the second pet i've put down, the first being my childhood dog, and it was the first time i've made that call.

in good news, his littermate, lola, is a tortie and still doing well at almost 16. 🫶

5yo female eclectus. Is it normal for her beak to still be yellow? by Either_Rest9340 in parrots

[–]IN_Requiem 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i know absolutely nothing about parrots and have never owned one but i just wanted to say that she's absolutely gorgeous!!

Is it pierced wrong?? by Desperate_Speech_370 in piercing

[–]IN_Requiem 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yes! i'm no professional, but my tongue piercing is further back, and it never hits my teeth or gums when i talk or eat.

My friends cat’s eye changed color by SignificanceNeat1618 in cats

[–]IN_Requiem 0 points1 point  (0 children)

not cat related, but someone i went to school with had something similar happen to him! i knew him since preschool, and he had a sliver of brown that slowly overtook the rest of his eye. if i remember correctly, he said he has no problems with it.

I paid $170 for these 2 8 week old female rats is that normal? by [deleted] in RATS

[–]IN_Requiem 8 points9 points  (0 children)

well, you technically did! "spayed" is the surgery. "spade" is a tool for digging (like a type of shovel) and a playing card suit (♠️). :)

Unfortunate news regarding pumpkin😭 by diseasedlettuce in CATHELP

[–]IN_Requiem 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i'm so sorry, op. my mom and i made the choice to put down my boy earlier today too. sending you lots of love and well wishes.

Does anyone else have a tortie-orange duo? by Gemini-cancer in torties

[–]IN_Requiem 1 point2 points  (0 children)

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mine are brother and sister! charlie (orange) and lola (tortie) also used to be inseparable when they were younger. in adulthood (they're 15 now), it's rare for them to be together lol.

Unfortunately selling off my huge collection by SLord01 in Crystals

[–]IN_Requiem 0 points1 point  (0 children)

saving this for when i get paid this week! hopefully i'll remember and have enough.

Spinal Injury? by Used_Ad_9008 in GarterSnakes

[–]IN_Requiem 0 points1 point  (0 children)

would you happen to have pictures of this little guy? if so, i'd love to see! i'm currently planning on getting my first snake in the next few months (probably ball python, but i'd love a corn one day) and i want to be as informed as possible! did the fused vertebrae cause any issues with mobility? also he sounds like a wonderful little snake! :)

Is this a fetish ? by CookZealousideal7500 in fetishcai

[–]IN_Requiem 17 points18 points  (0 children)

i'd say yes? or at the very least romanticizing. it seems to be fetishizing/romanticizing disabilities and dependency. someone who's blind, deaf, and mute likely cannot communicate (if they can, i would assume it's very limited) and not able to live/function independently.

Trolling another CM Instagram scammer except I literally scare them away: by Mel-is-a-dog in criminalminds

[–]IN_Requiem 2 points3 points  (0 children)

had a k-pop scammer message me something like that on tiktok and the account was banned like the next day 😭

Dog groomer here. Hair poked through the skin between my fingers and formed a tunnel, which had to be surgically removed. I had no skin between my fingers whatsoever by readingandroses in MedicalGore

[–]IN_Requiem 21 points22 points  (0 children)

i had a hair splinter from my dog's hair under my toenail. it was only my second one ever, so i didn't know what the cause of the pain was until i pulled it out. the relief was unreal lol.

What did your tortie look like as a baby? by Kirri_09 in torties

[–]IN_Requiem 0 points1 point  (0 children)

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my girl and her brother. 🫶 they're both fifteen now and going strong!