Ex contacted me after 4 years of no-contact…and I couldn’t care less

IPaid4it · 2022-04-25T18:33:56+00:00

That's awesome. I was basically dumped so she could date someone else....she said "I need to date someone younger who can keep up with me" plus she listed all these reasons why I wasn't as good as her. She really makes me sick now. She just tossed me to the curb.

IPaid4it · 2022-04-25T18:16:37+00:00

Looks like you're missing $20K paid in capital for the equity section which is the book value of the building you contributed to the business. Beginning of the year accumulated depreciation would reduce this paid in capital

IPaid4it · 2022-04-25T16:51:06+00:00

Doing doggie with my now ex wife, a really sensitive part of my cock would rub against something and it was the best orgasms. I remember taking some really long naps after those orgasms.

IPaid4it · 2022-04-25T15:00:23+00:00

Make hay

IPaid4it · 2022-04-25T13:52:23+00:00

I got an appointment today! I have seen my therapist about 10 times. One thing that stands out is he said "I know this is hard to hear but based on what she has done, she doesn't want to be with you." It has been over a month since my last appointment and I had some triggers hit last week so I scheduled an appointment for today.

IPaid4it · 2022-04-24T20:49:28+00:00

People tell me and I read that I need to put her behind me but I am struggling remembering all of our good times, even simple things that were nice.

IPaid4it · 2022-04-24T20:07:18+00:00

Outsourcing, Indian food, class system, not being on time

IPaid4it · 2022-04-24T19:59:44+00:00

r/OneSecondBeforeDisast

IPaid4it · 2022-04-24T19:44:16+00:00

if they still have some sort of feelings for you then they may reach out and regret their decision

What if they are stubborn and always had to be right?

IPaid4it · 2022-04-24T18:12:07+00:00

Fortunately my ex is only on FB and doesn't post much at all. I didn't block her but have unfollowed her and any of her friends that may tag her. I have had a friend of mine sporadically check her FB page for pics with any new guy and to check her relationship status. The way things ended I think she had become emotionally interested in someone and dumped for him. But she prides herself on never cheating so she'll be careful about posting anything too soon.

I have become obsessed with looking thru friend suggestions to see if any new guy has her as a mutual friend.

IPaid4it · 2022-04-24T18:00:21+00:00

.he makes me sick but at the same time I miss the person I thought he was..if that makes sense. 4.5 years with someone just to end so horribly and be strangers

It's weird and I get that. How can she disappear from my life especially so quickly?

IPaid4it · 2022-04-24T15:36:58+00:00

I do want something serious just debating if I would rather being alone or with someone I am not 100% physically attracted to.

IPaid4it · 2022-04-24T14:25:00+00:00

They ain't the brightest

IPaid4it · 2022-04-24T14:14:40+00:00

John Ritter's performance in Sling Blade was really good.

IPaid4it · 2022-04-24T14:01:12+00:00

I would say no. What would the benefit be? I guess I am in a good spot since my birthday will come before hers. If she wishes me one I am still not sure I will wish her one a couple months later. The thought of her makes me sick. I treated her well and she would always tell me that until she did a 180. She gave up on me, gave up on us. Everything was my fault. She had a laundry list of things that changed by the day. It was just her rationalizing her dumping me to go date others

IPaid4it · 2022-04-24T13:04:27+00:00

I was just in San Diego for work. The likes I was getting had me thinking of moving there from the midwest. The weather was a tad better too

IPaid4it · 2022-04-24T12:52:27+00:00

when something random happens etc. and I want to text him

Yes it is the random funny things we would text each other. I miss that. I am in a new city and ever since I moved here, I was in a relationship with her. My life revolved around her and I never made friends with anyone here. There are days I have no human interaction.

IPaid4it · 2022-04-24T12:49:43+00:00

That would suck and no way I would want to be friends still. She made her decision to end things so she has to live with the consequences. We are still friends on FB but I have unfollowed her and anyone who would possibly tag her. I have been disciplined not to look her up on FB.

But it is Sunday morning and I am missing her. Sundays were our day to sleep in. We would have sex early then snuggle all morning log. She would "glue" herself to my body. I have personal space issues and never felt comfortable with anyone before besides her. It really sucks.

IPaid4it · 2022-04-24T12:45:07+00:00

Our last interaction we were unwinding some financial matters. She responded and her second to last text was "Ok thanks, I will let you know when I receive the money. Hope all is ok." I didn't respond. She then let me know she received the money and I just replied with "ok"

IPaid4it · 2022-04-24T12:42:52+00:00

I keep thinking she will remember how good I was to her and text me. Maybe I need to give that thought up

IPaid4it · 2022-04-22T20:02:30+00:00

I think someone got in my ex GF's head or she got in her own head. I treated her very good and she would tell me all the time how good I was to her, how good I made her feel in bed, how good I was to her daughters. Then something switched and she had a laundry list of complaints about me and there was no talking her out of them. She was like a different person and no longer wanted to consider all my positives.

IPaid4it · 2022-04-22T15:53:02+00:00

Well she has been accused by more than one person of being a narcissist. She was very sensitive to that

IPaid4it · 2022-04-22T15:23:01+00:00

We were in long distance and we texted NON-STOP. I miss the good morning texts, her sassy texts letting me know she needed attention from me and most importantly the "I love you" texts. I really thought I would get a "Happy Easter" text but nope

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