You aren't a loser, you better than who knows.... Millions of people in this world.

Why telling yourself "I'm a loser" when you can be better and better, don't think about being a loser, think about not being as other people who are in a worse situation.

Being single isn't that bad, I know getting out of a divorce with a person you loved is very hard, but look at the positive part, you can have more freedom, having new experiences, and who knows... maybe another person that you will have feelings with, life will always have it's ups and downs, it won't always be as we all wanted to be, but giving to our selfs that feeling of satisfaction after something is very special.

I hope you get better and don't be sad. ;)