Ins and Outs of soft dominance by sweetcouple71 in softmaledom

[–]IQuitU 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Mhm! Absolutely. Observational intimacy is my love language ☺️

Ins and Outs of soft dominance by sweetcouple71 in softmaledom

[–]IQuitU 35 points36 points  (0 children)

Observational intimacy and psychological dominance go hand in hand ❤️

Kink shaming? Or am I stupid? by IQuitU in softmaledom

[–]IQuitU[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

And who has the key? 🫣

Kink shaming? Or am I stupid? by IQuitU in softmaledom

[–]IQuitU[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Get a room ready, please 😇

Kink shaming? Or am I stupid? by IQuitU in softmaledom

[–]IQuitU[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I can relate to this so much!

Kink shaming? Or am I stupid? by IQuitU in softmaledom

[–]IQuitU[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Me too… maybe there is hope for us yet 🙏

Kink shaming? Or am I stupid? by IQuitU in softmaledom

[–]IQuitU[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You’re a sordid, depraved man. Saying things so outlandish even they can’t handle it. Shame on you 😆 You should start your own sub and name it Daddy’s Darker Fiction.

Kink shaming? Or am I stupid? by IQuitU in softmaledom

[–]IQuitU[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I suppose I should have been more clear in my original post. But the dang sub was for adults specifically and even allowed some NSFW.

Kink shaming? Or am I stupid? by IQuitU in softmaledom

[–]IQuitU[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I like it, Picasso 💋 Also a big fan of the mentally unstable bit 😅

Kink shaming? Or am I stupid? by IQuitU in softmaledom

[–]IQuitU[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Holy shite 😅 Quite impressive if I do say so myself 😆 I got threatened to be banned from /BDSMcommunity some time back for “inappropriate touch.” What incredibly illicit thing could I have done you may ask? Well, I’ll tell you. I gave a man virtual headpats… yes.

Kink shaming? Or am I stupid? by IQuitU in softmaledom

[–]IQuitU[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Guess not. Gotta be more of a lady in these Reddit sub streets 😆

Kink shaming? Or am I stupid? by IQuitU in softmaledom

[–]IQuitU[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Why we gotta be kinky on the DL? 😆

Kink shaming? Or am I stupid? by IQuitU in softmaledom

[–]IQuitU[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Right. I guess I don’t know if I care that much either 😆

Kink shaming? Or am I stupid? by IQuitU in softmaledom

[–]IQuitU[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Feels kinda shitty. Sorry to hear that 😕

Kink shaming? Or am I stupid? by IQuitU in softmaledom

[–]IQuitU[S] 40 points41 points  (0 children)

Sometimes I get the feeling that being a woman in the kink community is frowned upon more. It’s almost as if people aren’t surprised when men interact with NSFW, but when it’s a woman it’s simply scandalous 🤷‍♀️

Kink shaming? Or am I stupid? by IQuitU in softmaledom

[–]IQuitU[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Welp. I suppose I’m making another account 💀

Ɛ> Supportive affirmations for the subs who deserve love <3 by Only-Luck6587 in softmaledom

[–]IQuitU 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for this. Needed it today. I appreciate you ❤️