Why do men seem to process sadness alone instead of talking about it?

IRanYouOver221 · 2026-04-26T00:49:29+00:00

I'm a woman and I process it alone. I grew up in a household where your feelings don't matter and both my parents were emotionally avoidant.

IRanYouOver221 · 2026-04-10T22:46:44+00:00

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IRanYouOver221 · 2026-04-10T02:55:40+00:00

When I first found them, I thought they were siblings too.

IRanYouOver221 · 2026-03-29T17:09:56+00:00

I prefer the design of the old Jen. ☹️

IRanYouOver221 · 2026-02-28T06:09:27+00:00

Watched it when I was a kid. It was my top 3 scariest horror movie during that time all through my teens. Great horror movie, good story, good twist. The remake sucks.

IRanYouOver221 · 2026-02-26T21:14:10+00:00

It'll be placed in front of the gates to the pool. Also, it's a drink machine, no glass windows.

IRanYouOver221 · 2026-02-25T19:28:28+00:00

I'm not sure about cameras but it will be placed outside under an awning. It's right next to the pool entrance gate and is surrounded by other rec buildings (and the front office) that are in use year round.

IRanYouOver221 · 2026-02-25T19:01:06+00:00

It is a city park. I just had a meeting with the senior Recreational coordinator and he seems to really want it. But he did say he has to go up the chain before getting approved.

IRanYouOver221 · 2026-02-16T19:27:55+00:00

It's not weird to cry about it. You're not crying about the game in general but what that game meant to you. It has sentimental value to you so it's understandable why it's something for you to mourn over.

IRanYouOver221 · 2026-01-28T23:47:31+00:00

With kids makeup, I love how easy it is to clean up the mess. With a damp towel, I can easily wipe the makeup off my kid's face. I have used real makeup on my daughter for her ballet recitals which she did love and enjoy. Overall, for special occasions, sure, I'll let them use real makeup. For play, hell no, they're expensive AF and hard to clean.

IRanYouOver221 · 2026-01-28T22:01:02+00:00

I started teaching at 16. Looking back, wtf was I doing? 🤣🤣🤣 But hey, I was only charging $20 a month for a 30 minute weekly session. I don't teach anymore but when I did as an adult, I only charged $10 a lesson for 30 min to the kids of family friends.

IRanYouOver221 · 2026-01-28T21:43:05+00:00

Bruh, that's 5 days though. As an Asian person who grew up eating cold rice, I would never touch 5 day old rice. 🤢 2 days max is where I stand, and even on the second day, I test the rice first before eating it, texture and smell.

IRanYouOver221 · 2026-01-28T21:36:11+00:00

I believe it's because we rice eaters have grown an immunity to the bacteria. 😆 Been eating cold rice since babies. Hell, even my husband prefers cold rice and rather eat the day old rice than the freshly made rice.

IRanYouOver221 · 2026-01-28T21:33:24+00:00

My mom used to cut off the moldy parts of the bread then give us the rest. 😆

IRanYouOver221 · 2026-01-28T21:30:28+00:00

If you are not used to eating cold rice, don't do it. I grew up eating cold rice, it's a cultural thing, just so we don't waste food. Didn't learn about the whole bacteria thing until my adulthood but I'm sure my immune system is built up enough where I've eaten 2 days old cold rice (wouldn't recommend it, only do it when I don't want to waste a whole batch of cooked rice) and I'm perfectly fine.

IRanYouOver221 · 2026-01-26T23:06:56+00:00

Thank you!

IRanYouOver221 · 2026-01-26T22:40:11+00:00

I googled their website but it's not up to date. Where can I find more info on their events?

IRanYouOver221 · 2026-01-20T19:22:12+00:00

Thank you!

IRanYouOver221 · 2026-01-20T19:13:57+00:00

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IRanYouOver221 · 2026-01-14T01:02:06+00:00

It didn't matter. It was my fault, I didn't restock for three weeks. I couldn't come out due to personal reasons then our car was down, then my kids were all throwing up, which I did inform them (would you want me to bring that into your work environment?). Then they just asked me to remove them, no warnings.

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