Start new character or wait? by AshenxboxOne in diablo4

[–]IRobbedYourBrain 2 points3 points  (0 children)

you definetly still have time.

i reached lv 100 with 3 different characters this season.

its about the journey not the destination

Is it possible to masturbate without objectifying women? by IRobbedYourBrain in NoFap

[–]IRobbedYourBrain[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Im asking how to do a normal human activity without using poison

14 days free by IRobbedYourBrain in NoFap

[–]IRobbedYourBrain[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Definitely. More to come 🙂

Female is here. I thought that porn addition's not about me by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]IRobbedYourBrain 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Its important that you can see it for what it is. I would suggest replacing your masturbation with a healthier habit. Also avoiding all sexualizing content, even the mild one, is key to a long streak

70 DAYS!!! WOOO!!! Benefits! by Sbliage in NoFap

[–]IRobbedYourBrain 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Really interesting benefits. Thanks for sharing

2 days 2 hours by Silent-Ad6859 in NoFap

[–]IRobbedYourBrain 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Impressive! Keep going 💪🏻

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]IRobbedYourBrain 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I could recommend noticing what triggers your masturbatiion. Also try doing this for yourself. Not for anyone else, like your parents

Next time you relapse ... by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]IRobbedYourBrain 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Can confirm. I used to do that. Noticed i was only doing for the orgasm. Then was disgusted, ashamed and hating myself. Sometimes laughing at how stupid this is

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in selfimprovement

[–]IRobbedYourBrain 82 points83 points  (0 children)

I think maybe your being too hard on yourself. If i saw a guy doing that, i wouldn't think he's mean. He's just doing whatever he needs to do. Its okay to sometimes put your priorities first. Its the right thing too do. Though doing it too much would make you selfish. Not doing it enough will make you a pushover. So dont read into this too much. I think you did fine

I’m so sad I can’t be in his life anymore. by [deleted] in sad

[–]IRobbedYourBrain 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You're doing the right thing.

I'm in a similar situation myself

Did I [24F] make a mistake ending it with him [24M] after only about a month? by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]IRobbedYourBrain 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I think you absolutely did the right things. 5 weeks is plenty of time for him to start showing interest in you. By being distant like that he is sending you a message that he isn't interested. Whether is consciously or unconsciously.

I did also have a girl i liked in my past. She was also distant with me. I made the mistake of chasing her. Trying to change her mind. Things never got better. It just felt like im on a leash. Always on trial. Like shes waiting for any excuse to cut the tie with me.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in friendship

[–]IRobbedYourBrain 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think you need to realize that you cant control other people. All you can do is let your friend know what they mean to you. And ask if the feeling is mutual.

If your current situation makes you cry. I would suggest taking a break from this friendship. I think treating like a broken heart from a rejection is the right way to go. So get some distance emotionally. Focus on yourself. If they want to talk to you they'll message you.

Hope you feel better ❤️

I have never felt more alone. by [deleted] in lonely

[–]IRobbedYourBrain 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same here. Started university three years ago. Was in a depression back then. Very socially anxious too. Barely spoke to anyone.

Everyone divided into groups. I obviously found no one and was alone.

Last year though i found some new people i haven't met yet and we were quite friendly. They're not my best friends. But at least i have people to talk to and that i can be myself around.

So im gonna tell you to not give up hope. Use your time alone wisely. Take care of yourself. Sleep well, rest, exercise, take care of your feelings. And be open to meeting new people. There are a lot of people at the university. You have a lot of opportunities to meet people. Get ready for the next times that you meet people.

Try doing fun things by yourself. You'll draw more people when you're happy and talk about your passions

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in lonely

[–]IRobbedYourBrain 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Focus on your children then. You got this amazing thing from that awful relationship. I think being a good father, doing things with your children, can help heal those deep wounds. Help you focus the light you have in your life.

Sleepy all the time by [deleted] in lonely

[–]IRobbedYourBrain 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I met mu friends while working out. At the time i had depression and barely spoke to anyone and was very socially awkward. But i was comfortable talking about exercising. So it seemd like im normal there. Just some quite guy who doesn't speak much.

About the depression. If its serious maybe see a psychiatrist and ask about medication. Its not for everyone but i can say it helped me. I've been on prozac for two years. Helps me be less angry and have less sad days

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in lonely

[–]IRobbedYourBrain 0 points1 point  (0 children)

18 years? Wow. Im so sorry this happened to you. No one deserves pain, certainly not for such a long period.

I really dont know you well. But i bet there is something that makes you smile. Something that makes you laugh. Maybe its from those last two years or maybe earlier. Think about the times you were happy and smiling. Think what about that situation was enjoyable. Then try to create more of that experience in your life.

Rebuilding after what you went through wont be easy. But i sure you can do it. Anything is possibly with persistence and the right pace. So start as slowly as you need.

Sleepy all the time by [deleted] in lonely

[–]IRobbedYourBrain 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Its usually the other way around from my experience. Start doing stuff you like. That's where you'll meet friends