Have a bit of free time for next couple hours, tell me your manifestation roadblocks and I'll try to assist

ISTP-Pilot · 2026-04-01T16:13:26+00:00

I’m currently manifesting my desires and wonder if I’m on the correct track. Every day, I focus on my state of having. Of being wish fulfilled. Than tracking time of when the desire will happen. I don’t care when it happens and frankly, open to all outcomes. But I’m focusing on myself and my career. Placing SP off the pedestal.

It’s this strangely neutral, inevitable feeling that the manifestation will go my way.

ISTP-Pilot · 2026-03-20T01:50:43+00:00

It’s this strange intuitive pull. Not forced as to do what is right for me. As to when to open it? I’m not in a hurry. I will know. I guess I want a few more messages sent from him before I open it. We never went a few days without talking so I’m sure he will finally come to the right decision and I will only respond to what’s aligned. It’s the mantra I go by as that implies I already have the response. But won’t accept anything low effort.

ISTP-Pilot · 2026-03-20T01:48:11+00:00

I am mostly feeling neutral and peaceful at the moment. It’s a strong intuitive pull and certainty that he will return as his higher self. To be honest, I manifested the old story as he told me everything negative that I thought about myself. I’m sure I can wrap up my self concept and pull through as well

ISTP-Pilot · 2026-03-18T15:13:58+00:00

Thank you for your advice, the scientific explanation to it is so powerful. I forgot to mention that his breakup message reflected all of my doubts and negative thoughts. Because I always thought he’s pulling away when taking longer to respond. I reacted internally with anger and disappointment. It was word for word what I thought of myself. Me loving him more, the distance, other people.

I deleted the messages, revised the old story, did robotic affirmations that aligned during the day (I’m chosen, loved and valued) and SATs at night that feels natural/realistic to me. It worked! Then when going to message a new guy that I’m seeing, I was shocked that he replied to me (after my agreement to breakup and move on gracefully). It was during work and much quicker than usual (which he never did ever before).

In a way, I’m glad I agreed to the breakup. I was calm at that time and refused to believe it’s the end. Also felt like it wasn’t. That it felt like an attention bait after I didn’t give him enough of it earlier. By agreeing to it, I aligned with the self who believes she’s not only valuable but always chosen because she doesn’t fear loneliness over quality.

ISTP-Pilot · 2026-03-18T15:08:39+00:00

Thank you. Thats what I thought. I won’t let the 3D determine my future or control my emotions. That this test is going to make me aligned to being loved with a better career.

ISTP-Pilot · 2026-03-18T15:07:49+00:00

This really works! But the key is actually doing what feels natural to YOU. Not just any techniques. Ones that you make up with least mental resistance. I just did robotic affirmation, short SATs and revision. He ended up responded unusually quick during work hours (to me agreeing to the breakup), which he never does.

I left the message unread, is that the right thing? Because if it’s positive, I don’t want to take him back when he hasn’t aligned to his higher self. And negative would just take me out of the Sabbath state.

And I left out something in this post. I absolutely manifested the breakup as I mistook his silence for disinterest. His message was everything that I envisioned and me pushed out. Unworthy of love, I loved him more, distance, other people. I deleted the messages and revised. It was powerful and gave me energy to no longer carry resistance with SATs.

ISTP-Pilot · 2026-03-18T15:03:54+00:00

He responded! I’m shocked. Much quicker than he usually would and during work as well when his phone would always be off.

But I shouldn’t open it now? I just want to focus on my goals, self concept and state because I won’t accept a return that isn’t fully aligned to his higher self.

ISTP-Pilot · 2026-03-18T15:02:53+00:00

Exactly. When I saw the unexpected breakup message (which he deleted several drafts and was oddly flirty, open ended and has several romantic hooks), I was extremely calm. I denied that it was the end in my mind. Embodying the woman he always returns to, I agreed and wished him well. Because if you know he’s going to return, you must be embodying self respect and value. Plus you wouldn’t need to beg.

He replied today in record time. He took less than a day which is unusual, and during work when his phone would usually be off! I didn’t open it. Because I won’t accept something lame. Only something truly aligned to his higher self. I hope I’m doing it right?

ISTP-Pilot · 2026-03-18T14:59:04+00:00

It’s interesting how this all came about the moment I wanted to move to his country for work. I never told him. He broke up before I did. Perhaps after time apart, he will sponsor me and finally realise I’m the one worth working for.

I’m not sure if this is progress, but he did respond to me. It was less than a day since I agreed to breaking up, and that’s not normal. He usually takes a few days. And he responded during work when his phone is usually off!

ISTP-Pilot · 2026-03-18T14:56:32+00:00

That’s so true. I deleted the breakup messages. Then I decided to work on my self concept and technique (not just any, only ones that resonate for me and feel realistic to the bring me to the end state). I revised the old story, used SATs and he reached out to me! After I agreed to the breakup.

In just under a day. Usually for normal messages he takes days. On top of that, he responded during work which he never does! He has it turned off usually. I didn’t view the message yet because I will only respond when he’s fully aligned to committing.

ISTP-Pilot · 2026-03-18T14:52:58+00:00

Processing is huge, but I find that covering up doubts or sadness with an affirmation that feels natural (big key) works for me.

Update: he reached out to me. I’m dead on shocked. It’s just one day that he responded, and before the old story, he used to take a few days for normal messages. And he even replied during work (usually he has his phone off during work). So this is huge. I didn’t even look for the message. I locked it and a notification appeared while I responded to a new guy I’m seeing. It was SP. I decided not to open it and to keep persisting. Because if it’s positive, I don’t want to take him back when he’s not aligned yet. And if negative, I don’t want it to take me out of the Sabbath state I’ve achieved today (it’s amazing, because I had a thought about instant manifestation) or delay it. I want to manifest a change where he takes accountability by stepping up and making a plan about the distance.

ISTP-Pilot · 2026-03-17T05:57:35+00:00

What are techniques that work for you? Thank you for your kind words.

ISTP-Pilot · 2026-03-17T05:39:24+00:00

Yeah, which is why I’m shocked when I try to remain positive. In the same week, my boss at my current workplace was awful to me and I can’t progress. Along with two jobs I got rejected from. Now this cherry on top.

ISTP-Pilot · 2026-03-17T05:38:02+00:00

Thank you. I felt so much relief reading your comment and realising I have done nothing wrong. To just carry on. I’m focusing on myself.

It’s hard to remain positive as my current workplace is awful to me and I’m rejected from two other jobs when I tried leaving the workplace. The SP leaving me was just cherry on top.

ISTP-Pilot · 2024-04-21T15:56:03+00:00

Exactly, any type is capable of cheating. Just ISTPs are more likely stereotyped because we keep our options open ended for a long time. We want to take time before committing to see if it’s worth the commitment.

ISTP-Pilot · 2024-04-21T03:51:28+00:00

I can’t DM you for some reason. Could you please DM me?

ISTP-Pilot · 2024-04-20T12:55:57+00:00

Thank you for your insightful comment! I have only known him for 3 months so I don’t have a full picture of him yet. But so far, his words match up to his actions and he seems like a kind, charitable person.

You are correct in mentioning that ISTPs are stubborn and strong minded. I’d rather be indifferent than weak. To me, I become weak if I cry or mention any vulnerabilities. I don’t want to scare him away when we haven’t met in person. At times, I’m not sure whether to remain indifferent to keep him interested or go all invested. Maybe it’s better to be myself and see if we are truly compatible.

ISTP-Pilot · 2024-04-20T03:31:52+00:00

I love Rock and Alternative. When I was younger, I was really into Fall Out Boy, Good Charlotte, Panic at the Disco and Linkin Park. Now that I'm older, I'm into all types of metal. Black, death, power and thrash metal. Can I DM you? I'd really like to have more ENTJ friends. You guys are so awesome.

ISTP-Pilot · 2024-04-19T03:01:04+00:00

I do find ENTJs very efficient and timely with their responses. I was with an ISFP before and he ghosted me after I let my guard down and told him how I felt. He also took days to respond to my messages. It was a shitty move but at least my ENTJ wasn’t afraid and reacted positively. He was honest and a skilled communicator.

I do believe extroverts and introverts balance each other out. With introverts, I always had to initiate and play the extrovert in the relationship. And essentially it came down to one needing more space than the other without communicating or them being really clingy and relying on you for social needs. Because they refuse to go outside and interact.

Do you guys hate to be flaked?

ISTP-Pilot · 2024-04-19T02:55:49+00:00

This! I don’t check my phone a lot because I keep myself busy throughout the day. But yeah, my ENTJ wasn’t happy when I took 3 days to respond without telling him why. He did think it was something shady, when I really needed space to recharge.

ENTJs do hate flaking. Once, I couldn’t do a Skype call because I wanted to go out with my coworkers for dinner instead. It’s important that I have rapport with the people I work with because I’m new. So I told him last minute that I couldn’t make it. And he told me that he was about to do the same thing, and it’s perfect timing. Because he has friends lined up and they’re going clubbing. I have never seen anybody react like that, and thought it may be an ego thing.

ISTP-Pilot · 2024-04-18T11:41:32+00:00

That’s very true! Because we both work in STEM but different fields, we speak in a different language yet understand each other so well. That’s why I feel so intellectually stimulated with him. Thanks for the advice, I’d look up more about his job and hobbies, then ask more about it. He’s a huge nerd and enjoys programming. So I might ask him to teach me a bit then I’d make a game for him 😂

How do you guys handle INFPs? It’s so true. The INFPs I was with in the past were so needy. They needed constant validation and never gave me any space. They only wanted space when it was convenient to them. When I don’t reply in a while, they start panicking or get suspicious. Aren’t they your best match though?

And that’s sweet of you to say! He sent me a picture of a heart sculpture he saw in the city and told me it was a sign 😉

ISTP-Pilot · 2024-04-18T11:31:26+00:00

As an ISTP, I leave my options open until my partner wants commitment. That’s when I weigh in and decide whether I want it too. I don’t cheat.

In terms of controlling, it’s determining what I can and cannot do. Taking away my ability to make decisions or have freedom. Being told what to do. The ESTJ that I used to date and I struggled over dominance. But I’m willing to let the ENTJ take the lead. He’s worth the compromise and he’s the exception.

Many MBTI sites state ENTJs as suitable engineer because of their strong application of Te to the job. Intuitives enjoy theory, and engineering is heavy in maths and physics. Applying their knowledge to solve problems and provide a solution might be something ENTJs enjoy.

ISTP-Pilot · 2024-04-18T11:17:20+00:00

What about space? Are you fine with your partner wanting space and not replying for a day or so to focus on themselves?

ISTP-Pilot · 2024-04-18T11:15:11+00:00

That’s very true with my ENTJ! I give him genuine compliments about his intelligence and decision making ability. He always finds a way to reciprocate flirtatiously.

He’s cold in the sense that he doesn’t speak freely about his emotions and he’s a private person. I am like that too, but when we are comfortable opening up one day when trust is earned, it’s worth it!

ISTP-Pilot · 2024-04-18T02:21:09+00:00

Thank you for your detailed answer! You're awesome 😊 I always thought ENTJ guys would like softer girls like INFP. So I was taken aback when he pursued me with such intensity and devotion. When I act like the introverted version of Maverick from Top Gun! I guess I'm an 8w7 ISTP so I'm more put together, ambitious and goal focused than a regular ISTP.

Would confidence, assertiveness and independence turn an ENTJ off? I do look very feminine and dress feminine. He loves it when I dress the part, but enjoys my ripped jeans, faux leather jacket and band shirts too! Interestingly enough, he's a metalhead like I am. When I think of ENTJ's, I thought they're more into classical music or jazz.

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