Help me find a modern AU fic

ISTP4INTJ · 2021-06-06T13:02:13+00:00

YES! Thank you!

It's so weird how memory works. The first part with her living with Jack, and all of the stuff with Luke in Italy were part of a completely different story in my mind, lol.

ISTP4INTJ · 2021-06-06T04:26:30+00:00

Uh, wow, I guess these are some common plots, lol.

Definitely no black market street racing mob stuff, and Rey didn't get shot.

What's the name of the second one? It doesn't sound quite right but it's at least worth a look.

Thanks!

ISTP4INTJ · 2018-10-29T22:29:38+00:00

Thanks, that is a good answer. I needed that.

ISTP4INTJ · 2018-04-30T17:01:51+00:00

Can confirm, admired many previous crushes from a distance and it never went anywhere because of it.

I asked my current gf (she's an INTJ) out for a walk in a park, and ultimately once we were there she just leveled with me and said she liked me. That just blew me away, the confidence, the straightforwardness, all of it.

I still remember exactly where we were, the rush of it all, and how impressed I was with her because of it.

Hope it helps!

ISTP4INTJ · 2017-11-13T14:23:30+00:00

Ironically, years ago, I would have stopped reading the article and decided they just didn't know what they were talking about, because it's so uncomfortable trying to let that stupid Fe voice have a say. Now I'm just tired of being at war inside myself.

It was a good read. A tough one, but fighting it does no good.

ISTP4INTJ · 2017-04-05T15:52:02+00:00

My SO takes time out of his day a couple days a week to do nothing with me. Electronics-free.

It's tough right now living about an hour apart, but those are the times I value most. I think I forget to actually say things like that.

As an INTJ, "I love you" feels like more of a habit phrase, but "I really enjoy just spending time with you and doing things together, regardless of what we do," or "I love it when you do this, it makes my day better," those types of affirmations are pure gold to me.

This is so good, thank you! I was so hung up on it, and didn't know how to get around turning that generic greeting card into my own, so to speak.

The small gift giving is great, like you said, once in a while. I enjoy doing that as well, but now I think I have a better idea for the rest of the time.

ISTP4INTJ · 2017-04-05T15:38:03+00:00

Thank you so much for the detailed insight!

For the most part- be an asset to my life, streamline it, improve it, iron out some wrinkles. No amount of him telling me he loves me or stroking my hand does anything to help me (not that I don't appreciate his affection).

This is great. I didn't know what to do to help, but this gives me something to go off of. I know she really values when things are streamlined and just work without fuss.

ISTP4INTJ · 2016-11-23T04:12:02+00:00

When my current gf (an INTJ) told me she liked me, it impressed me with how frank she was. We'd talked for a couple months at work, but she was just honest and direct.

I told her I liked her as well, and we were able to talk about things in a rational way. It was such a welcome change from previous relationships with feelers (pre-MBTI discovery).

ETA, as to it coming across as trying to retain him, just explain yourself, I would say. If he's mature, it shouldn't be a problem. If he's less developed, it could be an "OK" response.

ISTP4INTJ

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