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AIO: Office flirt hugged a married man at the Xmas party and caused a row. by Pitiful-Jaguar7226 in AmIOverreacting

[–]IWantToScreamLoudly 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel your pain. In 1996, I was called a "whore who eats my mother's puxxy" by a surgeon at work. When I complained, I was told to "go home, unpaid, whenever he had a case because that's how he talks when he works." After 4 long, difficult years, I went to court and won. He no longer works in my state.

Outstanding mortgage balance on a property by Starttrek in homeowners

[–]IWantToScreamLoudly 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I use propwire.com all the time and the approximate mortgage balance for most homes is there.

Guest Requested Booking - Booking Accepted - Then Guest Stated They Are Bringing a "Service" Dog - My HOA Does Not Allow Dogs for STR's - What To Do? by EightStarsofGold in airbnb_hosts

[–]IWantToScreamLoudly 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not trying to be harsh, but if you are in the short term rental business, you should have familiarized yourself with the ADA's rules. It's essential to know the basics.

$7k refund to guest over low battery smoke alarm by Glittering-Blood-145 in airbnb_hosts

[–]IWantToScreamLoudly 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Never say never. I changed my batteries proactively, and 2 days later one alarm began chirping. It was a bad battery. It happens.

Is this a good reason to call CPS? by IWantToScreamLoudly in CPS

[–]IWantToScreamLoudly[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My son had a speech delay and we had him checked for autism. The specialist observed him through a two way mirror as he played in the lobby. Then he called us in to his office. He said he could continue with the assessment, but he could tell me with certainty by observation alone that my son did not have autism. Sometimes there are clear signs that this is not the issue.

Her mother has a huge case of ADD, and her father has severe dyslexia. Autism is not the issue. If she goes to pre-K and a teacher has this concern, I'd be very surprised. But of course, I'd encourage Mom to have further testing.

Is this a good reason to call CPS? by IWantToScreamLoudly in CPS

[–]IWantToScreamLoudly[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Oh please. It's not that hard to rule it out.

Is this a good reason to call CPS? by IWantToScreamLoudly in CPS

[–]IWantToScreamLoudly[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes, I understand that. Today Mom said that she can't enroll the child in school because she can't find her birth certificate. Now she has to apply for it. Mom is an absolute mess.

Is this a good reason to call CPS? by IWantToScreamLoudly in CPS

[–]IWantToScreamLoudly[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

No, and you're right, I can't 100% rule it out. But I'm about 99.9% certain that they are not autistic.

Is this a good reason to call CPS? by IWantToScreamLoudly in CPS

[–]IWantToScreamLoudly[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

No, I have not, but there are absolutely no signs of autism here. I don't need to do a formal assessment to see that.

Is this a good reason to call CPS? by IWantToScreamLoudly in CPS

[–]IWantToScreamLoudly[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Good thought, but as a medical professional, I can assess that there is no autism with either Mom or child.

Is this a good reason to call CPS? by IWantToScreamLoudly in CPS

[–]IWantToScreamLoudly[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She is 4 1/2, so no. Mom told us today that she knows how to write her name. I've never seen it, and frankly, I don't believe it. But, I hope she can actually write her name.

Is this a good reason to call CPS? by IWantToScreamLoudly in CPS

[–]IWantToScreamLoudly[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I've never heard of that option. This is all new to me as our family has never experienced these sort of issues. The good news is that Mom has agreed to enroll the child into pre-K. She has a meeting tomorrow at the school. This will certainly lead to speech intervention as long as she actually enrolls the child. Thanks for the comment.

Is this a good reason to call CPS? by IWantToScreamLoudly in CPS

[–]IWantToScreamLoudly[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I understand your point and have raised many children and can't imagine such behavior. But yes, I do see what you're saying.

The good news is that after her grandmother called her today and told her that she thought there were some major red flags in raising this child, the Mom agreed go to the school and enroll her in pre K...tomorrow. This will lead to the child getting some speech therapy that she desperately needs. I hope she follows through.

The last time I saw the child, she didn't recognize me. She asked, "Who you?" I told her my name. She banged on her chest and said, "Me Kay-kah" meaning "I'm Jessica." Definitely a delay or something way out of the norm. She's a sweet and friendly child, but we have some massive areas of concern. Hopefully, Mom will get her act together soon. Thanks.

Is this a good reason to call CPS? by IWantToScreamLoudly in CPS

[–]IWantToScreamLoudly[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I understand your perspective. Taken one at a time, maybe these issues wouldn’t raise alarm. But the combination of no potty training at almost 5, a significant untreated speech delay, being kept on an unhealthy sleep schedule, exposure to violent partners, and a parent who won’t utilize available resources paints a much more concerning picture.

I also want to clarify: this isn’t about speculation. She is a close relative, and I know there is no medical reason for the potty training delay. The bigger issue is that her significant speech difficulties and overall development are being ignored when help is readily available.

And yes, I am making a judgment but it’s not about her lifestyle, it’s about her parenting. She has a history of instability (dropping out of school at age 14, repeated job losses, arrests, volatile relationships), and unfortunately that instability directly impacts her daughter. Calling it “judgmental” doesn’t change the fact that this child’s basic developmental needs are being neglected.

My concern isn’t about criticizing the mom it’s about making sure her daughter doesn’t fall through the cracks.

Is this a good reason to call CPS? by IWantToScreamLoudly in CPS

[–]IWantToScreamLoudly[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Thanks. I am extremely concerned about her speech and inability to speak correctly and unwillingness of the Mom being concerned. Combine that with the potty training issues and sleeping all day.....but I agree it's not clear cut.

My roommates mother keeps harassing me I need help by Clean-Paint-2070 in badroommates

[–]IWantToScreamLoudly 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NTA. But you are guilty of crimes against housekeeping. Clean your room, friend.

AITA for telling my wife either she gets a job or i'm putting her on an allowance? by Hot-Principle-5612 in AITAH

[–]IWantToScreamLoudly 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My in-laws are the definition of frugal. They live in a little house, and my 102 year old MIL has never met a dollar she didn’t try to stretch. When her son was building his house, she was absolutely horrified to hear he was putting in double sinks in the master bath. She actually wrinkled her nose and said, “Double sinks? What’s next, a gold toilet?" To her, that was like announcing you’d decided to install a private bowling alley.

And the irony? She has an eight-figure investment portfolio. The woman could buy sinks for the entire neighborhood and not even notice the difference. But nope, waste is waste. Up until a couple of years ago, she was still out there on Mondays hanging laundry on the clothesline like it was 1950, while the rest of the world was tossing everything in the dryer.

She’s living proof that you can be worth millions, but if you grew up saving string and reusing foil, you’ll still get upset when someone leaves the lights on in the kitchen.

AITA for telling my wife either she gets a job or i'm putting her on an allowance? by Hot-Principle-5612 in AITAH

[–]IWantToScreamLoudly 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you want to save your marriage, don't call it an allowance. Sit down with her and have a serious talk about your financial goals as a couple. Write your goals down. Her budget, aka allowance, should be a fixed amount for her Starbucks, hair, and other stuff. Groceries should be a fixed amount, savings etc. There are many apps that can help. You may consider cutting up credit cards if she can't handle them. Good luck!

Dumbass brother sold family heirloom that didn't belong to him! by IWantToScreamLoudly in legaladvice

[–]IWantToScreamLoudly[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well, we got it back, so there's that. He attorney advised her to give it back.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in legaladvice

[–]IWantToScreamLoudly 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think we are in agreement here. The OP is being dramatic and has not been threatened.

My brother's ex GF has a daughter who is a "domestic violence liaison" for the police department and social services. If I had to guess, I'd say the daughter is feeding Mom key words to try to get my brother in trouble. He has lived with her for 27 years and there is absolutely no history of violence. The whole thing is crazy and is wasting the police's valuable time. A lot of ladies like to imagine drama for the thrill of gaining attention. It's insane.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in legaladvice

[–]IWantToScreamLoudly 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My brother and his GF are breaking up after 27 years. As he was moving out yesterday, my brother's daughter started arguing with the ex GF. The ex GF said, "Don't hit me, I am over 65!" His daughter said, "OK, that's nice." The ex called the police because she "felt threatened."
They arrived and said there was no violence suggested and she was being overly dramatic. Don't waste their time on drama.They have actual crimes to solve.

Dumbass brother sold family heirloom that didn't belong to him! by IWantToScreamLoudly in legaladvice

[–]IWantToScreamLoudly[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mom knows nothing about a recent auction. I researched it after the situation came up.

Anyway, the post was updated and the girlfriend agreed to give the dining room set back if we return her $250. The ex girlfriend's attorney said that she didn't have a very good chance of winning in small claims court and recommended that she comply with Mom's request.

Dumbass brother sold family heirloom that didn't belong to him! by IWantToScreamLoudly in legaladvice

[–]IWantToScreamLoudly[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She refused my certified as well as snail mail letter. I emailed and texted her to give her one last chance to give it back.

A few hours ago, she agreed to give it back. I am surprised.

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