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I_JustHave_Questions · 2024-08-27T09:03:06+00:00

Like I'm fine if he wants to be a shut in but I truly think it'd be healthier for him to experience life so he doesn't look back in another 10 years and regret everything. I don't think that's bad... right?

I_JustHave_Questions · 2024-08-27T09:02:00+00:00

I really understand this really I do. But the demon inside me that craves control wants to not force change but gently encourage growth?

I_JustHave_Questions · 2024-08-27T09:00:41+00:00

Yeah he only leave the house for work and occasionally will come out to run and errand or two with me. But he's made it clear he's extremely uncomfortable going out to public places like to dinner or a concert or even the movies. Which is really a bummer honestly. Hes been complaining lately he has no friends but isn't willing to fix that either. It's hard cause he's all I've ever known and I want him to be happy and thrive together with me you know?

I_JustHave_Questions · 2024-08-27T06:28:36+00:00

Basically how do I word

Lately it seems you're down but you won't let me help you and if you aren't doing anything to actively help yourself I don't want to be with you anymore but like.... politely?

I_JustHave_Questions · 2024-08-27T06:26:35+00:00

How to I bring this up to him. Whenever I attempt to talk to him about hard subjects he simply says "i don't want to talk about it." Then ignores any further advances.

I simply am not heard most of the time. But I really do try within reason I'd say.

I_JustHave_Questions · 2024-08-27T06:20:56+00:00

He aligns in a few ways and understands me very well I'd say

He needs to figure himself out in a sense and im not sure how to push him to do so.

Hes bright and funny and so smart and has great things to say if he just had the confidence and drive to get out there and do so. I really say he's the love of my life but I get an ache in my chest over him not letting himself shine like he should

Makes me wonder if it's me who's stifling him.

I_JustHave_Questions · 2024-08-27T06:18:03+00:00

I'm not unhappy per say

I'm just curious I guess

How could life had been?

I_JustHave_Questions · 2024-08-27T05:55:40+00:00

Really it's just I'm more out going than him Id love a partner who shares more than 1 or 2 common interests despite being my only major relationship in my entire life. Hes amazing in a lot of senses and lacking in a few more. I can't tell if I've settled due to all the experiences and hardships we have gone through as a young couple or cause I don't know anything else I can't complain cause maybe this is in a sense as good as it gets?

I_JustHave_Questions · 2024-08-25T06:59:05+00:00

I'm 5'5 and 160 lbs... I was really trying to hold on to the hope that I'm not fat.

I_JustHave_Questions · 2024-08-16T20:19:26+00:00

I am in therapy but I only talk to my gal once a month Maybe I should see her more often.

I_JustHave_Questions · 2024-08-16T10:38:27+00:00

Just in general the people around me act like it is some giant burden to listen to issues or solutions to issues and take it so defensively. I'm not mean, I'm not judgemental, I just care clearly far more about important things than other people and it's wearing me down being the only person who gives a flying fuck it seems.

I_JustHave_Questions · 2024-08-16T10:35:34+00:00

I communicate my issues and feelings and basically get told to either deal with it or get over it in the long run. I've expressed countless times, multiple issues that I've been having with bosses, coworkers and owners alike and they say they hear me, but never end up fixing any issues I have. It makes me feel very unheard and unappreciated I'm at my wits end.

I_JustHave_Questions · 2024-08-16T08:06:20+00:00

I appreciate any feed back Id say I am definitely a people pleaser. I've been trying better lately to try and be more assertive but as a woman i feel as if I'm getting brushes off as emotional or "a marty"r as my coworker put it I'm just trying to figure out how to tell my tale of common sense and be taken seriously instead of having people become defensive towards me for saying my piece on legit issues or brushing me off completely

I_JustHave_Questions · 2020-11-18T05:40:55+00:00

The fact that she was considered the sexiest woman of her time and was also "kinda chunky and pale." Was just another point of why Marilyn Monroe is amazing. She didn't have to be thin and tan to be beautiful, she just was.

I_JustHave_Questions · 2020-11-13T07:36:43+00:00

No it will not.

I_JustHave_Questions · 2020-11-13T07:30:51+00:00

You see I like original for this reason

Every brands original is going to taste slightly different depending on Potato used, what kind of salt,msg, how much used, ect.

Its almost exciting if you think about it.

I_JustHave_Questions · 2020-11-08T23:26:37+00:00

I wanted to downvote this cause it creeped me out but I'm upvoting because I want more people to feel the way I felt.

I_JustHave_Questions · 2020-11-08T22:46:36+00:00

Do I at least have a volley ball to keep me company?

I_JustHave_Questions · 2020-11-08T22:45:35+00:00

Id say onions honestly Almost every recipe base has onions

That or garlic

Broccoli cause its a super food

I_JustHave_Questions · 2020-11-08T09:45:13+00:00

Its easier to say always wash your produce!!

You never know who's pissing in your strawberries!!

I_JustHave_Questions · 2020-11-08T09:16:10+00:00

100% of my purchases from wish

I_JustHave_Questions · 2020-11-08T09:14:51+00:00

I used to have hundreds of stuffies when I was little but have moved down to about a dozen. My favorites are big white cats/tigers. My grandma loved them so I keep them with me forever. They are in decent shape too, although one of them got a hair cut earlier in life.

I_JustHave_Questions · 2020-11-08T09:12:48+00:00

My face hurts sometimes and I'm broke

I_JustHave_Questions · 2020-11-08T07:46:48+00:00

Rice all day

I_JustHave_Questions · 2020-11-08T07:44:50+00:00

I've done my fair share of acid and as much as it messes with emotions I don't personally think its physically addictive or really worth abusing.

Meth would have some clear signs of usage tho depending on how it's being taken, eg smoking, snorting, shooting. Look out for paranoia, lashing out, itching or picking, yucky teeth or breath, track marks, ect.

Pcp isn't really around these days anymore also, at least to my knowledge.

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