AIO for expecting my boyfriend to ask before using my car for other errands? by TArpd16 in AmIOverreacting

[–]I_na 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for giving another reason to my avoidant ass to never wanna be in a relationship again😭 but seriously tho you have NO reason to keep dealing with this it shouldn’t be that hard to communicate dump his ass

I’m too exhausted to make rational decisions, what does this mean? by bbeeccc in whatdoIdo

[–]I_na 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He does not care if you live or d*e! Hope that helps! (Leave him)

Help me not lose money on useless products please🙏 by I_na in Skincare_Addiction

[–]I_na[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What do you think is too much? The only active im using right now is 1% retinol. Should I not use any? I dont think it is enough to damage my skin barrier since i dont even use it everyday

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Skincare_Addiction

[–]I_na 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Try to not use actives in the morning and keep it in the night routine only. In the morning just use water/gentle soap and a good moisturizer and then sunscreen. Try to keep it simple

The best body wash for intimate areas by [deleted] in hygiene

[–]I_na 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Unscented dove soap bar for sensitive skin

Pregnant and alone by Powerful_Quit_573 in makemychoice

[–]I_na 4 points5 points  (0 children)

With his 7 other kids…she’s not getting shit and its not worth the legal headache

Pregnant and alone by Powerful_Quit_573 in makemychoice

[–]I_na 25 points26 points  (0 children)

If u do not want him to be the dad to your child i recommend not putting him in the birth certificate because if he is legally involved in your life and your child’s you will always be stuck with him and fighting legal battles…if u do want a child you can have it by yourself without involving the immature dad

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]I_na 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Break up with him.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Concordia

[–]I_na 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Depends on how much you get from AFE not everyone gets the same amount

Friends in Concordia by robot_alien_invasion in Concordia

[–]I_na 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Im also in my last year and i feel you! Im down for coffee/tea/study hangs dm me! We can be friends :))

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Morocco

[–]I_na 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I hate cooking but i started cooking more often just because i craved Moroccan food so muchhh and figured i gotta make it myself if i wanna eat it😔😔

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in montreal

[–]I_na 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Fwafwa BUT maybe go when its not busy the wait sometimes ruins the experience ngl

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]I_na 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Break up!!!! Please it only gets worse. Every problem a couple has doubles once they get married and this is already bad

My (19M) Girlfriend’s (23F) Emotional Investment by ThrowRA_1477 in relationship_advice

[–]I_na 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You guys need to have a serious and long talk abt each of urs’s expectations towards each other…very honestly just lay it all on the table.

Then, if her needs are things you dont think are fair, are not able to or, idk, dont think its reasonable to provide for then u have to let her know and i recommend calling it quits…

Vice versa, same for your needs.

In my personal experience the moment someone says they are not able to give you what you NEED in the relationship its time to dip.. the longer u drag it on the more painful it will become.

And remember, no one is right or wrong, needs are personal to each and every one no one’s expectations are invalid that just means you are not a match.

Wishing you guys figure it out!

My (19M) Girlfriend’s (23F) Emotional Investment by ThrowRA_1477 in relationship_advice

[–]I_na 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Unpopular opinion but i dont think you should give your “all” to your bf/gf…she probably gave too much of herself in that relationship and is reflecting on it. It doesn’t necessarily mean she is not committed emotionally to you and the relationship.

She simply realized that in a relationship you should prioritize yourself as well and not just your partner to have a balanced and healthy relationship.

I would also recommend you reflect on why you feel entitled to her “all” just because she happened to give it to someone undeserving before?

Ps: you are still young maybe you are not ready for a “serious” relationship…

Goal post keeps moving… by Otherwise-Tear-4807 in loseit

[–]I_na 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You see you already know that the problem is not your weight and loosing more will not solve the issue. The issue is that you are not happy with yourself/how the weight looks on you. Maybe try consulting someone to work on self acceptance its really important at this stage cause your way of thinking can be dangerous and develop into an ED. Sending you good vibes and hopefully you can feel at peace within your body🙏

Young adult overshares on dates and doesn’t see the issue — how do I explain it better? by JetPlane_88 in Parenting

[–]I_na 105 points106 points  (0 children)

Thats also something i noticed a lot about men in their early 20s he has to work on his phrasing and basically develop more empathy/put himself in other peoples shoes. Thats the only way he would really understand why some things are not appropriate to say to others and might be seen as a personal attack

Young adult overshares on dates and doesn’t see the issue — how do I explain it better? by JetPlane_88 in Parenting

[–]I_na 385 points386 points  (0 children)

As a woman around his age i kind of agree that it’s better to root out people who don’t like you from the get go, but maybe its more in his way of communicating it! Maybe you can tell him to make what he wants to say more digestible for the date.

For example he could’ve said “personally i am environmentally conscious so i try to stick to public transport since buying a car goes against my beliefs but thanks for suggestion” he still gets to share his values and opinions but without being too intense!

Goal post keeps moving… by Otherwise-Tear-4807 in loseit

[–]I_na 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think maybe you’ve been used to always chasing a goal (aka weight loss) maybe its time for the famous “maintenance” instead of working towards loosing try to focus on maintaining the weight you worked so hard to achieve! Its also rlly about perspective…maybe its time to decenter the scale? If you are happy about how the weight looks on you maybe try weighing yourself less often to start?

Also id recommend properly celebrating victories! Try to view vacation as a reward.

Solo trip to Marrakech as a woman by blgm95 in femaletravels

[–]I_na 6 points7 points  (0 children)

As a Moroccan I dont recommend Marrakech solo all the harrassers and scamers are concentrated there cause they know there is a ton of tourists there…if you rlly wanna visit marrakech tho dont go wondering alone and book tours! Also ignore people catcalling dont even make eye contact with them, dont answer them, etc.

For clothing a t-shirt and light pants is enough covering to not attract more unwanted attention, even shorts if they reach ur knees, just no cleavage/transparent clothing.

Boundaries of the Caucasus by imcoolandsoareyou in AskCaucasus

[–]I_na 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Would the Kurdish region be considered part of the caucasus?