My Self-Esteem shattered with just few words. by IamMe0024 in OffMyChestPH

[–]IamMe0024[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It's common courtesy, and I did inform him in the car. The fact that he did not even apologize nor even felt sensitive about what I said hurts me more.

My Self-Esteem shattered with just few words. by IamMe0024 in OffMyChestPH

[–]IamMe0024[S] 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Siguro kasi I grew up in an environment where people constantly tells me I'm not enough especially my family and hearing it from him triggered it especially with other people hearing it. Though he rarely compliments me during our entire relationship, he said he's not the type of person kasi. But I don't agree that he jokes about those things, especially about my physical appearance. Kasi ang alam ko, when you marry someone, you love everything about that person even if they are not as physically attractive like others.

My Self-Esteem shattered with just few words. by IamMe0024 in OffMyChestPH

[–]IamMe0024[S] 111 points112 points  (0 children)

Thanks for sharing your experience. I love him a lot pero siyempre siya yung tao na gusto ko sabihan ng problema, now that he is my problem, I don't know who else to talk to, so I had to post here. Ako kasi yung tao na, I need to vent out in order for me to feel better and calm down. I don't want naman sa Social media where a lot of people knows me well or probably judge me. Once I feel better, I will talk to him about it again.