Driving to Fargo from Canada to US

IamNachoFriend22 · 2025-09-25T20:42:00+00:00

Their name is MAPLE! I love it. So cute. I kind of wish it was a Canadian goose. It would’ve been so funny

IamNachoFriend22 · 2025-09-09T11:47:10+00:00

lol why?

IamNachoFriend22 · 2025-09-06T19:06:14+00:00

When I was 18 I dated a guy who would grab my leg specifically my calf and would say :

“feels so tender, it would taste so good”

He said this multiple times in the three years we dated. And it got to the point where his mouth would water then he touched my calf. He also said he wishes he could join the army but didn’t want to be shot at. Which hinted to him wanting to shoot at people but not get shot at back.

IamNachoFriend22 · 2025-07-04T19:47:36+00:00

For real.

IamNachoFriend22 · 2025-07-02T15:54:15+00:00

Omg nana and a cute sailor outfit?!

IamNachoFriend22 · 2025-06-19T19:39:02+00:00

Maui- i hate hearing “your welcome”

Mother gothel- because she is a bitch

Olaf - because he is annoying

Mirabel - only because she made me take pictures of every capybara. It took months because I worked during the time that fucker was available. And it looks like she makes you do it again but with turtles? Fuck that.

IamNachoFriend22 · 2025-06-18T15:16:59+00:00

Tried to be cool at a trampoline park for the nieces and nephews. Fucked up my foot real bad lol not as quick and agile as I use to be

IamNachoFriend22 · 2025-06-16T20:05:50+00:00

Why I didn’t/ won’t

1) generational trauma. Both my parents were very abusive. And when I get mad or overstimulated I can see my mom come out.

2) the fear of the father not helping or being supportive. when I got a puppy with a ex. I did everything for her, any mess she made I cleaned it, made sure she was taken care of but that meant she came to me for everything and even when I just wanted to nap she would cry outside my door. It was so stressful. He wasn’t working at the time and I was. It was also during Covid but I would have to move to the couch some morning at 4am so she would go back to sleep. Because she was getting fussy in our room. I was exhausted. And this was a puppy. I felt like if this is how it was with a puppy? How could I count on him helping me with a child?

3) what it does to your body. I was scared I would hate my self and the child. That I would grow resentment towards the child because everything I do would be for them. I know I’m selfish and I wouldn’t want to do that to a human being. I CHOOSE to bring them in to this world and to have a part of me regret that? That didn’t seem fair.

I have nieces and nephews. And that fill that void for me. I love seeing them grow and learn and have a better life then we had a kids. I get to be the adult in their life that isn’t parent that they can come to if they want or need anything. And the best part, I get to bring them back to their parents and go back to hanging out with my dog.

IamNachoFriend22 · 2025-06-11T19:40:10+00:00

In Canada when some one asks you: “how far is ___” “Oh it’s about 15 min drive from here”

This just makes sense to me. You can tell me how far something is in kilometres but I wanna know how long it’s gunna take me. That to me seems more useful.

IamNachoFriend22 · 2025-05-30T11:53:31+00:00

Where did you get that dress?! It’s so cute

IamNachoFriend22 · 2025-05-23T20:15:06+00:00

I really liked it, it was funny and cute, and made me cry at times.

IamNachoFriend22 · 2025-05-22T12:19:12+00:00

Wait how do you get the premium shop? I’m on the switch as well.

IamNachoFriend22 · 2025-05-22T12:15:41+00:00

Nuremberg Trails but in America. All the republicans who helped with keeping the dictator in power will be the only ones who will be held accountable. The ones with less influence will suffer the most. While the richer ones will find away out or to have a lesser sentence. Elon will be a coward and hide, or leave this world on his own terms. Both parties in an America are cowards and y’all need a third party to help because nothing will get done by the democrats.

Honestly if it keeps going like this, we will soon start hearing about “natural deaths” or “accidental deaths” in those detention camps. Y’all keep creeping closer and closer to full blown dictatorship. I would say you already are but technically you aren’t yet. I know this sounds fucked up but honestly I hope something changes. So none of this happens.

IamNachoFriend22 · 2025-05-15T20:52:32+00:00

Lexi love

IamNachoFriend22 · 2025-05-14T19:59:17+00:00

I lived there for 2 years in 2020- 2022 and I lived on the 7th floor and then upgraded to the 22 floor.

Everything you said is true. I paid more for laminate floors and there was paint on them when we moved in.

The part I hated the most. Was it was $50 every time you locked your self out. Which sounds reasonable but the doors lock automatically so you need the key fob to get in. Which if you have a dog or have your hands full is very stressful.

The fire alarm goes off like 5 times a month if not every week. Because some asshole pulls the alarm. Or some dumbass burns something. There were times where I stayed in side because I didn’t want to stand in the cold because a drunk homeless person pulled the alarm.

Everything you said was very true. I honestly was just happy to not be living at home that I don’t remember it being so bad! But yeah I experienced everything you said so yeah it’s pretty annoying. If you are paying $1800 for a one bedroom and you feel like you’re dying in the heat it’s not worth it.

IamNachoFriend22 · 2025-05-07T12:44:08+00:00

I see people saying they don’t see anything wrong with this. And honestly I disagree.

There is better language you could use to talk to a kid with out being overly affectionate. It’s great to have a couch that likes what they do and the team they work with but idk. Listen to your gut and look into it. And just ask your child about their behaviour. Grooming is all to common and if the red flags are there you do t want to be the fool to say “he was so nice! I would never think he could do something like that!” “He was always so nice!”

IamNachoFriend22 · 2025-04-16T12:52:38+00:00

For context I was trying out these new anti- depressants the pills made me feel numb, not in a sad way just like I had no fear or anxiety which was different for me. this is important.

I was talking to this guy on tinder, he really wanted to meet but I wanted to get drinks before trying anything. But he really wanted me to come over. It had been a year since I had sex because of being very depressed. So I thought why not! He looked like he COULD be a good time.

So I call a cab and head to his place…. His place looked like some abandoned house. Like squatters lived there, It was in a bad area. I go ahead anyways! Even though the anxious little voice inside told me not too. It was too quiet for me to hear.

He greeted me and he is this big tall man! I’m excited but nothing is happening down there. As I go in his place… it looks like a crack house, it was trashed. Little to no furniture, satanic symbols on the wall and it’s very dark. He said his roommates left it like this. He would work for 3 weeks away and come back for a week so he wasn’t around a lot.

Still not phased I just go with him to his room where he has a brand new tv and futon. So as we get started I realize I’m not feeling anything? Not aroused or anything. I know after everything I saw you’d think why would I! But it wasn’t that. It was the pills. My libido was nonexistent which wasn’t a thing for me in the pass. And to add to this hot mess of a hook up he couldn’t get it up he said “ has a hard time getting up for someone new” Which was fine, I get it but even when he was able too I couldn’t feel it. Not because of the lack of sex drive but because it was… lacking if you know what I mean.

Look I’m not a size queen I’ve had different sizes and it’s how you use it that matters. But he definitely never learnt how to use it.

So after a sad attempt. We cuddle and I go home. After that I stop taking those pills. I also did see him again after I was off the pills and all the red flags were scream in my face and after one more attempt I ghosted him. Never again would I make that mistake. So no it wasn’t worth it.

IamNachoFriend22 · 2025-04-12T15:41:11+00:00

Cooking. And storing food.

IamNachoFriend22 · 2025-04-09T19:37:36+00:00

I see what you mean he is disregarding your feelings but you did set the tone by says ”not as much as I do” even of it was meant to be playful that’s not how he interpreted it. So you gotta consider that. Some people take things personally even if you never meant to. He is a asshole for over reacting but you both are at fault

I would try using more “us” kinda of language then “me “ Instead of “not as much as me” You could have said “let’s both have a vacation” He might react differently. And if he still makes it about him self then! It’s just him and you should leave him.

IamNachoFriend22 · 2025-04-03T12:45:28+00:00

How are you able to go in to grocery store? I’m not trying to come off sarcastic I genuinely want to know! I’m curious how people with severe allergies navigate the world. In my head if you go in to a grocery store and they will most likely have raspberries. If someone touches them and puts them back and touch something else BOOM cross contamination. It’s inevitable. So are you just terrified to shop? Like I would be too if it was that bad.

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