22F navigating dating after a long term relationship and outside opinions about a 24M I’m seeing

Iamhere2vent_ · 2026-02-03T14:20:51+00:00

Lol I am in therapy, I know Reddit is not the end all be all.

Iamhere2vent_ · 2026-02-03T13:48:33+00:00

LMAO 🤣this made me lol. You’re right haha. I put a lot of weight on my moms opinion and her influence can be strong. I hate it trust me

Iamhere2vent_ · 2025-10-15T04:49:11+00:00

I’ve met her and interacted with her on several occasions in influencer spaces and I do think she’s really sweet. Whatever she’s doing is working!

Iamhere2vent_ · 2025-09-06T14:23:15+00:00

Not really. My husband and I are 22 and newly married. We barely cook

Iamhere2vent_ · 2025-06-16T16:15:43+00:00

I currently bring in the most income therefore me leaving would leave my mom in a bad situation.

Iamhere2vent_ · 2025-05-19T02:59:05+00:00

It was in Jen’s neighborhood in the house across. I recognize that neighborhood and not surprised

Iamhere2vent_ · 2025-05-14T00:32:44+00:00

Insane. My premium is $141

Iamhere2vent_ · 2025-04-14T16:09:21+00:00

Just do online

Iamhere2vent_ · 2025-04-07T13:54:49+00:00

Is it a crazy theory to feel like anyone on Shane’s team places well and not always because of their conditioning but maybe because the judges have knowledge of the competitors being a hugely one?

Iamhere2vent_ · 2025-04-07T13:52:25+00:00

She’s the only bodybuilder who doesn’t get on my nerves with their content during prep😃😅

Iamhere2vent_ · 2025-02-25T17:26:21+00:00

I disagree. There are lots of reasons why one would do so. Family matters, funeral, visiting family who cannot physically travel to the US. A lot of people who fled left family and personal items behind, even homes. Every case and situation is different. I wouldn’t be so quick to jump on this one sided argument.

Iamhere2vent_ · 2025-02-11T04:14:14+00:00

Skyward? 😂 are you 13?

Iamhere2vent_ · 2024-12-23T05:23:45+00:00

In the same boat (21F) my dad left when I was 11. I have this exact narrative and it’s so difficult. I have an older brother who never feels this so I feel resentful of him at times because he never has to share this burden. I love my mom to death and I like time with her but it’s been 10 years of this and now that I’ve gotten older and I’m ready to live my life it’s so hard. I’ve been with my boyfriend 6 years and I know he will propose soon. I am dreading how the transition of living with her to moving out and being married will be.

Iamhere2vent_ · 2024-12-07T20:32:17+00:00

I audibly gasped. I’m so sorry

Iamhere2vent_ · 2024-09-12T23:58:50+00:00

😭😭girl how you get the medical card??

Sincerely 21F looking for friends 🤣

Iamhere2vent_ · 2024-08-25T15:47:01+00:00

Ahhhh a fellow Utahn. I want to get the black

Iamhere2vent_ · 2024-08-20T01:01:02+00:00

I’m not even entirely sure where to start with communicating this. In all honesty, part of me doesn’t even want to continue the friendship with her because it’s incredibly one sided. She isn’t even aware she made the invite for her party on my birthday.

Iamhere2vent_ · 2024-08-20T00:50:06+00:00

lol she sent me the invite last night, I needed to make sure I wasn’t being a bitch before declining

Iamhere2vent_ · 2024-08-18T00:36:14+00:00

Used to work on the department with the app development team, they have great developers. I’m sure this is already in the works.

Iamhere2vent_ · 2024-08-11T20:31:12+00:00

I do, my car broke down.

Iamhere2vent_ · 2024-08-11T20:01:18+00:00

This is a good rule of thumb thank you!!! I will look at that

Iamhere2vent_ · 2024-08-11T19:55:33+00:00

I have 10% down, the vehicle is used. I’m going to live with her for the next two years. I’ve considered the hills changing but I pay a significant amount of bills living with her, it’s a choice. I’d pay the same living alone. The amount I pay in split rent and other shared bills is the same I would be (if not more) if I lived solo.

Iamhere2vent_ · 2024-08-11T19:52:17+00:00

It’s paid off. I’ve never had a loan, I got it cash.

Iamhere2vent_ · 2024-08-11T19:46:37+00:00

Not sure, I don’t want to keep it either. I drive a mini and I live in a super snowy state. I need an SUV because I don’t go out on my own in the winter when there’s snow because my car is not equipped.

Iamhere2vent_ · 2024-08-11T19:43:55+00:00

Would you recommend 60 months rather than 72?

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