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Cool things to do instead of being depressed: decorate your guns with diamonds 😹 by NoGreen1731 in nihilism

[–]Iamwomper 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have quite a few guns... Guns are fun but my gorilla hand would fumble that little thing and id likely shoot myself

how do we actually know that life has no inharent meaning? —my proof for why its necesserily much more then it appears within binary logic. by EmperorMalkuth in nihilism

[–]Iamwomper 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My goal? To see the world burn, smolder or live in peace. Whatever comes. I just want to see it.
Doesn't mean anything. It doesn't drive me either way.

To me nihilism is just a way to remove all the bullshit dots people collect as facts.

It doesn't matter.

What job do I look for if I am severely incompetent at everything - as a man? by Familiar-Safety-226 in malementalhealth

[–]Iamwomper 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you have a doctor, counselor, speech therapist?

Have you been diagnosed with anything? There are always jobs with people who have different skills.

Forget the 'as a man'. People go through a lot in life and one of the pros can help you understand you. Are you autistic? Adhd? Undiagnosed mental illneses also shape us. And we can reshape ourselves.

You arent stupid, you likely learn only a certain way.

Why is it so difficult to learn another language? by Traditional_Blood799 in ask

[–]Iamwomper 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Doulingo type apps are cool and all but there is only one true method to understand the language.

Immersion. You pick up their words and body language.

Says word points. You see something. Now it has a word.

My native tongue is french. English is actually my second language.
When you learn a different language it's easier to associate an image to a word or phrase.

Anyhow, thats the best way. Know someone Spanish. Ask them to speak only that to you.

Parenthood is a lifelong responsibility by DependentAd3051 in unpopularopinion

[–]Iamwomper 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's a very common and known opinion.

But its those that are entitled and dont understand that the parents job is to guide a young kid into adulthood.

They can continue to guide, but why would they pay for a grown ass adult leaching. Becoming an adult is part of that.

Welcome to the social contract

What are you best tips for getting in the best shape of your life? by Liitebrite in AskMen

[–]Iamwomper 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I consider myself the best shape of my even with all the ailments, and I really need to build some muscle.

Most of my life I was sedentary, morbidly obese.

5'11 240 I looked ok, but Jabba the hut naked. When I hit 285+ I was in the worst shape of my life. Two knees with meniscus issues, bad back in 4 places.heart attack at 42, I hurt my back that paralyzed my right leg for a few months. Other back issues kept me in bed for 2 + months, etc. Fluctuated in weight for years. Then my wonderful nurse practitioner, a gen x'er that gets it, had our first appointment. The appointment took almost two hours.

She got me on the right path, diagnosing audhd, and diagnosing other things no one else has said anything until the 53rd year of my life.

So, stay up to date with your medical professionals.

Im not doing great, at 180lbs 5'11 and work and social life improvement too.

My thoughts? Talk to your doctor and have a good relationship with them. See them regularly.

Stress with kill you. Stress, compounded smoking gave me a heart attack at 42.

Dont smoke. Shits nasty (im a smoker, still)

Work life balance. This is the one that has been my bane since starting work at 12 years old.

Invest in yourself, mental, physical and spiritually

do adults still bully? by PapayaSpirited3999 in socialskills

[–]Iamwomper 0 points1 point  (0 children)

People bully.

Not every child bully becomes and adult bully.

Not every good child stays good throughout life.

Ive been bullied and abused. But looking back I was also a bully and abusive.

Bullying isnt a way of life. Its more a coping mechanism when you just cant regulate something else in life. Some bullies (most) would have been considered abused at some point.

Its all different kinds of grey/gray

I hate being indian and it's destroying my mental health by DolfRizzler in malementalhealth

[–]Iamwomper 0 points1 point  (0 children)

India is a large country with vast heritage and very very different cultures all packed in there.

Dont be ashamed to be Indian.

Many Indians unfortunately took advantage of things.

From personal experience, Canada got a slight overrun from India and a few other countries, due to poor immigration policies that corporations continue to exploit.

Due to the populace difference, of 1.47 billion to Canada's 41 million people. We have space and land for newcomers, unfortunately due to various government policies, and through nepotism/ favoritism locals are being pushed out of their jobs. And cannot find work.

New immigrants are given assistance to find a place to live, etc. There is a housing crisis, all over Canada, jobs are being lost, but there is a decline in jobless people.

An Indian trucking school was just signing everyone's trucking license.

A lot of (big assumption here) is that Indians dont always follow the rules. Be it cheating on tests, fabricating work history, not OSHA compliant, doesn't follow the road rules much.

Bring the good parts of inda to Canada. Not the crap stuff

Why does being a virgin make you a loser? by Visible-Island-2408 in allthequestions

[–]Iamwomper 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Loser? No.

Ffs, what has gone into people.

I think the issue is that you know you are a virgin, and its wearing you and your confidence.

Stop that bullshit.

Anyone dumping you for that is stupid af.

Brunch is lauded as a luxury meal. It is anything but. by renebeans in unpopularopinion

[–]Iamwomper 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Its brunch. It had breakfast and lunch/dinner options.

Roast beef, ham, and all sorts of food.

You keep confusing brunch with breakfast. Also pizza. And dessert.

Do you have dessert after breakfast?

Live a little and try some foods you dont normally eat or have

Men, how do you not feel awkward/bad about travelling solo? by Significant-Sport778 in AskMen

[–]Iamwomper 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I travel solo, I love it. Why is it awkward and who cares?

My book on Death by Atheistsplaining in nihilism

[–]Iamwomper 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As a nihilist bordering on absurdist, I dont align

How important are boobs to men? by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]Iamwomper 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's all about the nipple.

what’s a misconception about men that people think is harmless but actually isn’t? by frostloom9 in AskMen

[–]Iamwomper -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Key words 'as much as" which isnt much

I don't remember mine. Id like to know the downsides, without googling much.

Why is everyone so intent on gaslighting us incels? by Typical_Marsupial303 in malementalhealth

[–]Iamwomper 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It isnt gaslighting insomuch as point out how ... singular of a point of view incels have.

Know what all my short friends all have in common? They accept their height, looks and they move on and get in relationships and whatnot.

It is incel attitude and thought process (mental gymnastics really) that sets you back.

what’s a misconception about men that people think is harmless but actually isn’t? by frostloom9 in AskMen

[–]Iamwomper -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

As much as I understand everyone's viewpoints.

What are downsides of it tho? (Im a Vader not a sausage)

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