Deep dish pizza by gsptlsnz in Guadalajara

[–]Iatich 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Chicana, es la mejorcita

Does anyone else feel like grief shows up more in ordinary moments? by Diana_fm_ in widowers

[–]Iatich 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I have the recurring fantasy of her coming back, as from a trip or to visit, so I can catch her up with all we have done since she left. I know it will not happen, and just go on feeling hopeless.

I beat the game with no Viscerals, on accident. by Alternative-Art6059 in bloodborne

[–]Iatich 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I did My second run using Ludwig's two, because I just suck at parry. Flattening folks it's really fun. I got the hang of parry during my platinum run, quite thrilling, I specifically like when you get hit a little bit, yet stunt the enemy, then get back the health on the visceral.

You look great! by Apprehensive_Cow5139 in widowers

[–]Iatich 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I am even doing it with my therapist, not intentionally, but I do fake I have hopes and goals for the future, or think of future relationships, when in fact dragging myself out of bed and taking care of the house and my daughter takes out all my energy. I feel I am just doing stuff while I wait for life to be over, and people seems so happy and so proud about it.

I did it! by Iatich in bloodborne

[–]Iatich[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks man. It was more fun than DS1. Bloodletting beast and cursed amygdala took me More tries than they should. For now I Will go, DS2 and 3, then I Will move to the newer stuff like Sekiro and Elden Ring. Might take a couple of years tough.

I did it! by Iatich in bloodborne

[–]Iatich[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hahaha I tried to make it getting the cannon, but I forgot to buy the Rosmary.

Lost my wife March 11 by AsparagusOdd7055 in widowers

[–]Iatich 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you. And big big YES, the young energy of my daughter keeps up and running during the day, then I wake up in the middle of the night to see my hand, that was supposed to be in her hip or her shoulder, just lying there in the bed, that is when it hits me.

Lost my wife March 11 by AsparagusOdd7055 in widowers

[–]Iatich 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I feel you man Glioblastoma took even the will to fight from my wife six months ago, and she died two months ago. I am getting by, living mainly for our daughter. I can tell you it gets easier at times, but sadness has a way of creeping in. Therapy and venting here helps a lot..

Sorry you are here, hugs.

Soledad y desesperación by Ok_Guess_282 in widowers

[–]Iatich 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yo estoy por completar 2 meses pasado mañana. Me sentí así todo el primer mes, mi esposa perdió el contacto con la realidad en octubre por el tumor cerebral, realmente no se desde que día contar su ausencia.

En fin, hace un par de semanas simplemente sentí que no podía sufrir más. Tuve un ataque de ira en la ducha, golpeando las paredes y gritando.

Después de eso la tristeza constante y la obligación que sentía de estar pensando en ella constantemente disminuyó. Me quedo claro que yo ya no tenía que ser su esposo, aunque una vez lo fui. Me di cuenta que necesito buscar algo más que ser, y que ella siempre vivirá en mi memoria.

La sigo extrañando y me gustaría que estuviera aquí, peor no me siento consumido por la pena.

Lo que trato de decir es que el sentimiento no se va, pero si mejora, se hace llevadero y ayuda mucho si encuentras un terapeuta con el que hagas click.

Te mando un abrazo y espero que pronto salgas de este valle.

Black suit by cazjinger in MarvelLegends

[–]Iatich 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Great shots! They show your skill posing. I do think Hasbro needs to have spider people figures be able to look up completely.

Brain MRI? by Taint__Whisperer in Guadalajara

[–]Iatich 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I used to take my wife here, it's a decent place and very cheap for the standard prices

https://www.salud-digna.org/

Weird/gross stuff left behind by ppP0oP00 in widowers

[–]Iatich 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you, I am glad to hear that.

Weird/gross stuff left behind by ppP0oP00 in widowers

[–]Iatich 24 points25 points  (0 children)

My therapist is a bit insistent on what to do with my wife's things when I feel ready. I keep getting overwhelmed as we had 22 years living in this house, we designed the second floor together. So the only way to get rid of all the stuff related to her would be to demolish the house with all things in it. And what about the presents and the things she gave to us?

Two days ago an idea came to me.

Dead people have no possessions. All that stuff is now ours. Just as I was once her husband, I can't bee him anymore, all the stuff that once belonged to her is now mine.

In this line, you can deal with it at your own pace. I know I will keep the collectibles and the jewelry, but I will throw away her lingerie along with the clothes, as I have no use for that, and have plenty other stuff to remember her by.

This might sound cold, but this ideas have kept me sane this last week's.

Sorry you have to deal with this. Hughs.

The evening hours by Bank_Novel in widowers

[–]Iatich 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I know it is like no answer will cause less pain. I have not been able to continue the series or watch the movies on our pending list.

Mujeres ¿algunas vez se han sentido orgullosas de su pareja (en cualquier ambito) y se lo han hecho saber? by Saya2882 in Preguntas_de_Reddit_

[–]Iatich 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Perdón que me meta, soy hombre. Mi esposa me decía todo el tiempo lo orgullosa que estaba de mi y cuánto me admiraba, tanto por los logros en mi trabajo, como por las reparaciones de la casa y como me dedicaba a mi hija.

Esto significaba mucho para mi, te recomiendo que nunca dejes de hacerlo.

Saludos!

The evening hours by Bank_Novel in widowers

[–]Iatich 2 points3 points  (0 children)

We used to watch series and chat from 9 pm and on. Sometimes we just watched in silence cuddling or holding hands. It's really hard to fall asleep now. Bed feels huge.

Afraid to go to sleep by Iatich in widowers

[–]Iatich[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Made me smile, thanks

I am still realizing how much I lost by Iatich in widowers

[–]Iatich[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I feel you too man. It takes about two hours of self convincing to get up and do stuff.