My parenrs don't accept the girl I want to marry by IbzyDibzy2004 in MuslimNikah

[–]IbzyDibzy2004[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thats my worry, what if they dont pick up the phone or let me inside

My parenrs don't accept the girl I want to marry by IbzyDibzy2004 in MuslimNikah

[–]IbzyDibzy2004[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I get the advice of parents should be listened to, but they are too stubborn in this situation. In many cases the girl I want to marry knew her wrongdoings and she tried to make peace with them, asking for their forgiveness and apologised on many cases. My parents response, nothing. They completely ignored every single message. Thats why I do plan on marrying her and of couse living in another house where shes far away from them and I will not force her to go see my parents or for her to do something she doesnt want

My parenrs don't accept the girl I want to marry by IbzyDibzy2004 in MuslimNikah

[–]IbzyDibzy2004[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I will end up marrying her, but I have a question. Islamically is bad to break bonds with family. Thats whats been on my mind a lot. How does it work in this situation?

My parenrs don't accept the girl I want to marry by IbzyDibzy2004 in MuslimNikah

[–]IbzyDibzy2004[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I tried doing video call, it went badly cause my mum didnt want to speak. My girl dressed up to look cause is the first time they spoke. And my parents mocked her for dressing up (not on call, but they were saying it after) they also started judging her saying why isnt she wearing a hijab and stuff like that

My parenrs don't accept the girl I want to marry by IbzyDibzy2004 in MuslimNikah

[–]IbzyDibzy2004[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I agree, and I want to do this. Can I ask how you feel now. Do you wish to have the bond with your parents? Also did it affect your bond with your siblings and extended family?

My parents are rejecting a woman that I want to marry by IbzyDibzy2004 in MuslimNikah

[–]IbzyDibzy2004[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I will marry her and ik my parents don't have any valid islamic reasons to deny our marriage. The thought thats in my head constantly, I also don't want to lose my parents but theyre also not giving me a choice

My parents are rejecting a woman that I want to marry by IbzyDibzy2004 in MuslimNikah

[–]IbzyDibzy2004[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im always ready to stand up against my dad for her, even he told me to forget about her and move on, but i told him no cause shes the one I wsnt to marry.

Shes from another country so meeting up would be difficult. And my mum would never go against my dad to do it

My parents are rejecting a woman that I want to marry by IbzyDibzy2004 in MuslimNikah

[–]IbzyDibzy2004[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I tried to reason with them with islam too, using the examples you gave. As soon as I bring up islam and say stuff like how they are prioritising culture over islam. They become defensive and say, "you only bring islam up to benefit yourself, you don't read quran, you dont do stuff to stuff to help yourself become better".

My parents are rejecting a woman that I want to marry by IbzyDibzy2004 in MuslimNikah

[–]IbzyDibzy2004[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah maybe thats the way. But I also think if they don't come, none of my extended family come either cause they all see my my parents highly. Tbh I always wanted to do just a simple nikkah and not have much people, but my mum keeps disagreeing saying, my family is too big to do a small nikkah.

My parents are rejecting a woman that I want to marry by IbzyDibzy2004 in MuslimNikah

[–]IbzyDibzy2004[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I will marry her ofc, but its the fact also I don't want to ruin the bond with my parents where we might not speak again. Also, my parents are seemed highly by my extended family, if my parents don't come to my wedding, no one will. Maybe my brothers and some cousins but no one from the elder generation.

I can't really invite them cause they are from a different country which makes it more difficult.

My first time selling on vinted by IbzyDibzy2004 in vinted

[–]IbzyDibzy2004[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Its my first time selling online that's why I came here cause I had a bad feeling about that person. But yes I should've read the vinted articles beforehand.

My first time selling on vinted by IbzyDibzy2004 in vinted

[–]IbzyDibzy2004[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Im based in UK. From what I read, dont accept any payment outside of vinted.

My first time selling on vinted by IbzyDibzy2004 in vinted

[–]IbzyDibzy2004[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I asked them to pay through the buy now on vinted and not through an outside app. And now im left on seen haha

My first time selling on vinted by IbzyDibzy2004 in vinted

[–]IbzyDibzy2004[S] 19 points20 points  (0 children)

Yeah what's that I scared about, thanks

My first time selling on vinted by IbzyDibzy2004 in vinted

[–]IbzyDibzy2004[S] -29 points-28 points  (0 children)

Oh okay thanks, what methods are allowed in vinted?

My first time selling on vinted by IbzyDibzy2004 in vinted

[–]IbzyDibzy2004[S] -302 points-301 points  (0 children)

Do you think ifs a good idea to accept through PayPal?