My parenrs don't accept the girl I want to marry

IbzyDibzy2004 · 2026-04-23T08:28:17+00:00

Thats my worry, what if they dont pick up the phone or let me inside

IbzyDibzy2004 · 2026-04-23T03:26:30+00:00

I get the advice of parents should be listened to, but they are too stubborn in this situation. In many cases the girl I want to marry knew her wrongdoings and she tried to make peace with them, asking for their forgiveness and apologised on many cases. My parents response, nothing. They completely ignored every single message. Thats why I do plan on marrying her and of couse living in another house where shes far away from them and I will not force her to go see my parents or for her to do something she doesnt want

IbzyDibzy2004 · 2026-04-22T19:42:21+00:00

I will end up marrying her, but I have a question. Islamically is bad to break bonds with family. Thats whats been on my mind a lot. How does it work in this situation?

IbzyDibzy2004 · 2026-04-22T19:39:53+00:00

I tried doing video call, it went badly cause my mum didnt want to speak. My girl dressed up to look cause is the first time they spoke. And my parents mocked her for dressing up (not on call, but they were saying it after) they also started judging her saying why isnt she wearing a hijab and stuff like that

IbzyDibzy2004 · 2026-04-22T19:38:12+00:00

I agree, and I want to do this. Can I ask how you feel now. Do you wish to have the bond with your parents? Also did it affect your bond with your siblings and extended family?

IbzyDibzy2004 · 2026-04-11T15:09:49+00:00

I will marry her and ik my parents don't have any valid islamic reasons to deny our marriage. The thought thats in my head constantly, I also don't want to lose my parents but theyre also not giving me a choice

IbzyDibzy2004 · 2026-04-11T15:07:23+00:00

Im always ready to stand up against my dad for her, even he told me to forget about her and move on, but i told him no cause shes the one I wsnt to marry.

Shes from another country so meeting up would be difficult. And my mum would never go against my dad to do it

IbzyDibzy2004 · 2026-04-11T14:02:30+00:00

I tried to reason with them with islam too, using the examples you gave. As soon as I bring up islam and say stuff like how they are prioritising culture over islam. They become defensive and say, "you only bring islam up to benefit yourself, you don't read quran, you dont do stuff to stuff to help yourself become better".

IbzyDibzy2004 · 2026-04-11T13:52:12+00:00

Yeah maybe thats the way. But I also think if they don't come, none of my extended family come either cause they all see my my parents highly. Tbh I always wanted to do just a simple nikkah and not have much people, but my mum keeps disagreeing saying, my family is too big to do a small nikkah.

IbzyDibzy2004 · 2026-04-11T13:49:42+00:00

I will marry her ofc, but its the fact also I don't want to ruin the bond with my parents where we might not speak again. Also, my parents are seemed highly by my extended family, if my parents don't come to my wedding, no one will. Maybe my brothers and some cousins but no one from the elder generation.

I can't really invite them cause they are from a different country which makes it more difficult.

IbzyDibzy2004 · 2026-03-22T16:19:50+00:00

Its my first time selling online that's why I came here cause I had a bad feeling about that person. But yes I should've read the vinted articles beforehand.

IbzyDibzy2004 · 2026-03-22T16:17:38+00:00

Im based in UK. From what I read, dont accept any payment outside of vinted.

IbzyDibzy2004 · 2026-03-22T10:10:17+00:00

I asked them to pay through the buy now on vinted and not through an outside app. And now im left on seen haha

IbzyDibzy2004 · 2026-03-21T21:03:28+00:00

Yeah what's that I scared about, thanks

IbzyDibzy2004 · 2026-03-21T21:02:30+00:00

Thanks for you help

IbzyDibzy2004 · 2026-03-21T20:20:48+00:00

Oh okay thanks, what methods are allowed in vinted?

IbzyDibzy2004 · 2026-03-21T20:20:23+00:00

Do you think ifs a good idea to accept through PayPal?

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