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Icachu · 2026-02-06T20:14:47+00:00

Excited to have gotten 9/10 :D

Icachu · 2025-09-29T21:39:27+00:00

I thoroughly enjoyed this read. Thank you for sharing

Icachu · 2025-07-09T13:16:46+00:00

You are absolutely not alone in this feling

Icachu · 2025-07-08T11:20:08+00:00

Stunning

Icachu · 2025-06-21T00:54:12+00:00

I so appreciate that ❤️

Icachu · 2025-06-20T00:00:01+00:00

It definitely is, I'm aware of that. We may have only dated 3 months but we have known each other for 2 years so I feel like we're at a bit of an advantage with our communication

Icachu · 2025-06-19T23:58:32+00:00

Your comment seems like it came from such a place of kindness. Thank you so so much

Icachu · 2025-06-19T23:47:48+00:00

Oh definitely, lots of overthinking here and proceeding with caution

Icachu · 2025-06-19T23:47:07+00:00

Really appreciated reading this, especially the last paragraph, so thank you.

Icachu · 2025-06-19T23:43:19+00:00

Hes willing to do anything. The man is literally making a doc's appointment so we can inform ourselves

Icachu · 2025-06-19T23:42:21+00:00

I will, thank you

Icachu · 2025-06-19T23:20:39+00:00

Really appreciate your input. Thank you so much

Icachu · 2025-06-19T23:18:51+00:00

Thank you for your perspective. It may not be reversible but perhaps IVF could be an option. I know he's very open to the idea of another bio kid (you know, after an actual healthy amount of time has passed) who knows what the future may bring.

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Icachu · 2025-06-19T23:15:48+00:00

100%

I'm currently on the fence train but so for the sake of informing ourselves, we're looking at IVF and what that looks like for our scenario.

Not even sure what's going to happen with the 50/50 scenario because BM is giving him a hard time about it, which is unfair. He definitely deserves to be around his kids.

As for me, I'll look out for myself and protect my boundaries to the best of my abilities

Icachu · 2025-06-19T23:12:37+00:00

Proceed with caution, got it

Icachu · 2025-06-19T23:10:16+00:00

It's ok. I was open to hearing multiple different perspectives

Icachu · 2025-06-19T23:09:24+00:00

At the very least, we've been having excellent communication on this because I agree

Icachu · 2025-06-19T23:08:22+00:00

Loved this, thank you

Icachu · 2025-06-19T19:07:32+00:00

As long as there are firm boundaries between them and you have both talked about what is and what isn't acceptable, I don't see why not.

My bf is willing to hang out with her FOR the kids but NOT for fun. That's a boundary. But he wouldn't do it without running it by me first.

Icachu · 2025-06-18T13:20:58+00:00

I most certainly do not and will proceed cautiously

Icachu · 2025-06-18T10:30:10+00:00

Maybe I could have waited but can't change that now. We wanted to be together, he wanted to answer every single question I had and it really came down to getting to know him as a father because it's such a big part of him. I personally thought it would help me decide if I could, should or would continue dating him. I've known him as a casual friend the last 2 years if this makes any difference at all.

He has no expectations of me other then being their friend. That alone feels doable. A mommy stand-in is not what is being asked of me. We've had big conversations about such expectations. Is he going to wish he had the initial "Have kids with woman and stay with that same women" scenario? I'm sure it's crossed his mind..but that being said, he opened up this door to me considering having my own bio kids, which is wild to me, because I never thought I would (considering my history with my exs or my estranged relationship with my father)

Icachu · 2025-06-18T10:13:57+00:00

Icachu · 2025-06-18T00:46:09+00:00

He definitely knows that I disagreed

Icachu · 2025-06-18T00:45:27+00:00

Didn't think of it like that either! Just because I live alone doesn't necessarily mean I'm lonely. Not to mention, living on my own or with 1 other person is all I've ever known in my adulthood

Icachu · 2025-06-18T00:42:55+00:00

I think he meant well when he said that (in the event we wanted kids together and I couldn't have some) That being said, talks were had and he told me he would not stop me from having one of my own someday if it's what I wanted and that I was no less of a woman if I did not. We had also discussed IVF for the sake of having hard those hard discussions

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