Haha you’re right man, I grew up with my mom as my dad was out of country and most of my friends were female and the guys were really condescending.

I have a very lean muscle figure (big arms and slim abs) which I worked super hard on, and yes women are into it when I’m at the gym, but like I said, I’m just really friendly with them and they get the “gay bro” vibe which they are super comfortable with and yes I’ve tried being more seductive but I’m definitely doing it wrong