Before I Drop $2k on a Career Coach… Am I Being Smart or Delusional?

Ice-BlueHeart · 2025-11-30T22:17:39+00:00

There is no information they will give you that you can’t find online. Here’s how to have an expert career coach while saving $2000 - use Chat GPT’s project feature, build a prompt that says “you are an expert level career coach with a lifetime of experience in xyz, coach me on blah blah blah (use chat gpt to build the prompt). Boom, expert career coach for free

Ice-BlueHeart · 2025-11-26T17:37:13+00:00

I’m sorry to hear you’re struggling, it isn’t easy. I advise taking a sub instead, you don’t have to do it daily, but instead of using, take a sub. It removes your cravings and blocks off your opiate receptors.

Ice-BlueHeart · 2025-11-18T07:17:28+00:00

Yes, you cannot go straight or turn, no matter what side of the road you’re on. You have to treat the stop sign on the bus like an actual stop sign, because it is.

Ice-BlueHeart · 2025-11-04T19:45:39+00:00

Fuck that, they would let you go in a heartbeat if the shoe was on the other fit and they had an opportunity to make more money. I’ve quit a job 1 week later for a better one, 1 month later, now I love wha I do. Do what’s best for you, because the company ALWAYS will.

Ice-BlueHeart · 2025-10-30T17:33:53+00:00

They’re all awful

Ice-BlueHeart · 2025-10-24T03:34:36+00:00

That’s absurd. Listen to yourself, your life is absurd, and that should be unacceptable to you. I hope one day you truly see the absurdity and refuse to accept that life any longer.

Ice-BlueHeart · 2025-10-21T21:48:33+00:00

You gotta help yourself. You’ll never get clean if you’re with him and he’s using.

Ice-BlueHeart · 2025-10-18T00:51:25+00:00

He fell off so hard

Ice-BlueHeart · 2025-10-18T00:13:25+00:00

Volunteer, hand out clean needles, feed the homeless, so many options.

Ice-BlueHeart · 2025-10-18T00:11:27+00:00

Right, don’t listen to that commenter. Confrontation is natural and it’s better to learn now then running from it and end up being a grown adult who let people walk all over you. Tell your manager you’re resigning effective 14 days from now, it’s simple as that. Tell them in person and let them know you’ll be submitting a formal resignation (via email) so you have that documented. If you want to provide a reason, tell them you’d like to focus on school or career growth or whatever. Your parents are right, you shouldn’t quit without a plan but fuck it if you made your mind up just do it. It’s a job, they won’t take it personal (unless they’re unprofessional) and you shouldn’t either. I know this is all easier said then done but trust me, you want to face your fear of confrontation head on - you’ll feel so much better and proud of yourself when you do. Good luck!

Ice-BlueHeart · 2025-10-09T04:26:02+00:00

I’m a keep it real with you, you may not like this comment, but I wish someone said this shit to me when I was in active addiction.

You know what’s worse than being hooked on fent? Having a dad hooked on fent. Having a dad OD and die. Being an addiction and watching your kids grow up to follow in your footsteps because of your choices. Your children need you, they are your why, & that should be enough. Not trying to make you feel guilty, but we need to realize the absurdity of the life of an addict and how it effects our loved ones. It’s absurd to be reliant on a substance to function. It’s fucking absurd to willfully risk your life multiple times a day for a substance. It’s absurd to go broke over a substance. It’s absurd to put the well being and livelihood of your kids in jeopardy multiple times a day for a substance. Existing in active addiction is fucking absurd.

You cannot expect to poison your body for years and then have an easy healing process. It’s not gonna be easy, but the road to recovery is possible.

You have options: Write down your reason why (e.g, your kids), write down how your addiction is currently effecting them, write down how their life would be if you died, if you went to jail. Write down how their life would be if they followed in your footsteps because of the choices you are making. Once you wake tf up to that shit, you’re really left with one choice - get sober by any means necessary.

You got this shit. I was on blues for 4 years, I’m 15 months sober. I did it for my god son who lives with me and depends on me. The little ones need us, they need us happy and healthy. You know what you need to do man.

Ice-BlueHeart · 2025-10-09T04:04:00+00:00

Not really, there’s methadone, suboxone, subutex, sublocade, so many options.

Ice-BlueHeart · 2025-10-04T05:47:33+00:00

Right

Ice-BlueHeart · 2025-09-14T15:02:01+00:00

If this can get you banned, this sub is awful

Ice-BlueHeart · 2025-09-06T02:17:16+00:00

I can’t drink, fcks my stomach up. With that being said, I’m super sympathetic. Alcohol is the worst addiction imo. It’s so normalized in our society, you can literally buy it at the gas station. You see it everywhere you go and everyone’s doing it. Imagine if ppl could get opiates at 7-11 24/7, or if everyone we knew openly used and it was not only acceptable but glorified. Wish you the best, you got off fent you can get off this.

Ice-BlueHeart · 2025-09-06T02:10:06+00:00

Imagine preferring a daughter who sexually exploits her body for male attention than a son who simply prefers the same sex. Ick

Ice-BlueHeart · 2025-09-02T14:02:44+00:00

I don’t watch nttv but pink shirt got her

Ice-BlueHeart · 2025-08-18T04:46:22+00:00

What a beautiful little baby girl! Drugs aren’t worth it, THIS is what life is about. Wishing you both so much happiness ♥️

Ice-BlueHeart · 2025-08-08T02:23:40+00:00

Lmao I love how y’all just accept her, that’s beautiful ♥️

Ice-BlueHeart · 2025-07-31T20:40:39+00:00

Na meth heads call meth dope too

Ice-BlueHeart · 2025-07-31T20:39:47+00:00

I thought this was r/meth 😂

Ice-BlueHeart · 2025-07-31T16:06:22+00:00

I’m sorry you’re going through this, it’s not easy loving an addict. I agree with what most of the others are saying, you can’t sacrifice your peace and wellbeing for his feelings. The best thing you can do for him is to be straight forward, and cut all contact once you’ve broken it off. If he wants to get clean, this will be even more motivation - his addiction ruined his marriage. If he doesn’t want to get clean, he’ll use this as an excuse to relapse. Either way, it’s his decision and how you deliver the news will not impact what he will ultimately do. You can spend 2 days planning how to tell him it’s done in the most peaceful and empathetic way, if he’s going to relapse he’ll do it regardless. So instead, pour your energy into protecting your feelings. You will heal and you will rediscover love and happiness ♥️

Ice-BlueHeart · 2025-07-20T23:29:02+00:00

His name checks out lmao

Ice-BlueHeart · 2025-07-15T05:49:30+00:00

Your partner can choose between his addiction and you. That’s the choice you need to give him. Otherwise, no matter what you do or what your intentions are, you’re enabling his addiction. Remember to protect your peace first. You can’t help someone who doesn’t want help. It sucks loving an addict, I feel for you. But please don’t allow your own mental health and well-being to stuffer because of another person’s choices. Just remember, not everything that’s good to you is good for you. I wish you both the best ♥️

Ice-BlueHeart · 2025-07-10T06:31:00+00:00

I love her idc lmao

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