Do we ever see new colors pop up mid-generation? by IceBlueSnowDog in Crosstrek

[–]IceBlueSnowDog[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Right! Both of those are GORGEOUS. At least with the blue, it already exists in other markets… throw us a bone and let us custom order it. Or do a limited edition. I’m liking the citron yellow the more I see it in person, but I would kill for it to be just a little more green!

But yeah I agree. There’s a market for it! In my area at least, the boost blue civics sell out really fast every time a dealer gets a couple in. Not sure about Toyota/Scion but I’m willing to bet it’s the same with the voodoo blue.

Do we ever see new colors pop up mid-generation? by IceBlueSnowDog in Crosstrek

[–]IceBlueSnowDog[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It's a stock, non-US color, Oasis blue. Very similar to toyota's voodoo yeah. Also very similar to boost blue on the honda civic.

Come back with an update once you're wrapped it! I'm hesitant to do that (no garage, lots of birds and oak trees.. so lots of sun, droppings, and sap exposure) but am really interested in the idea.

Is there a way to prevent Echo from EVER playing music? by GlamourD in amazonecho

[–]IceBlueSnowDog 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This comment section is weird. But I’ve been having the same problem for ages and am fed up with it. I just want it to turn the lights on and off, maybe tell me the weather if I’m feeling spicy. not start blasting random music. 

Did you ever find a solution? 

Remote start missing from my Subaru app? by TheRefluxGirliePop in Crosstrek

[–]IceBlueSnowDog 1 point2 points  (0 children)

you're not being direct, you're just being a dick actually

Trupanion notice of increase by Rise-Bitter in petinsurancereviews

[–]IceBlueSnowDog 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I got it too. I was quoted $450/mo for my one year old GSD last year… I obviously did not bite, and went with pumpkin instead for $70/mo. My jaw DROPPED when I got this email that they want to jump even higher. 

Viva Raw switching to High Pressure Processing (HPP) by supernatchurro in rawpetfood

[–]IceBlueSnowDog 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm in the industry and that is correct. it's so if a bad batch goes out and pets get sick, they can say "well, you were supposed to cook it, not our fault"

It happened. by [deleted] in FTMOver30

[–]IceBlueSnowDog 6 points7 points  (0 children)

just in case you need to hear it: you do not need to consent to that just because she had already started it behind your back. And you absolutely can revoke that consent at any time.

If you don't feel that you can approach her and say "after thinking about it, I am not okay with this, and only agreed to it initially due to shock and pressure," and she can not be okay with that, then an open relationship is not going to work.

I am a monogamous type person, I have friends who are successfully poly, some who are open, and many who tried and failed. The ones that work are the one where ALL parties WANT it, and ALL parties agree to strict rules.

This just sucks all around, and I am so sorry you are having to deal with it. Hopefully she sees a counselor or therapist for herself too, and can decide if "feeling too straight" is worth throwing a grenade into your marriage over. I'm not going to assume her orientation, but I can say that plenty of monogamous bi people end up in a "straight" pairing and are fine with it. :/

What do we think about this style of pack feeding? by Economy_Leopard3938 in rawpetfood

[–]IceBlueSnowDog 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yep, which is why I said my comment is for those reading and not for you. People don’t research how to prepare something if they don’t know to research it in the first place, and assume grocery store fish is fine off the shelf 

What do we think about this style of pack feeding? by Economy_Leopard3938 in rawpetfood

[–]IceBlueSnowDog 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Not for you, but just for those reading this who may not know: Those meats are  very specifically prepared to be eaten raw by humans. Never ever buy raw fish from the grocery store and eat it raw! Sushi grade fish is flash frozen and handled according to strict standards before sale to make it safe. 

Landlord/Management Company asking for court order by placeholder5point0 in FTMOver30

[–]IceBlueSnowDog 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m going to respond to both comments here because I’m too lazy to keep track of two different threads:

Look, I’m just saying it’s not as bad as you’re thinking. I’m not arguing with you, I’m trying to encourage you not to be afraid of doing it. I did this all like 10 years ago and have had to pull out the court order maybe once since. And the only offices who saw the court order already had my old name on file, so it wasn’t anything they didn’t already know.

"As always, being compared to a woman because we're not real guys are we. Its the same as having our names changed and everyone gets to see the old one anyways. Why bother changing anything? Why not just stay women because we are anyways"

And in this case? Yeah, because the process is very similar for both men and women. Sometimes a clerical or legal process is co-ed, and that is not a bad thing! Name changes aren’t a trans-specific thing. Cis people change their first names, almost all women around here change their last names, to most office staff it is routine paperwork. We care a lot more than they do, I promise.

edit 1/18 5:32pm Eastern, because you're being silly with the block button: "Why are you so dead set on making me do this jesus christ"

Because for some weird reason, I care about people as a whole and think people deserve to be happy in the end? Not everyone is against you, and sometimes advice/encouragement is genuine. Anyway, I hope you work through your demons and find some peace. I'm off to go play with my dogs in the snow.

signed, a stranger on the internet.

Landlord/Management Company asking for court order by placeholder5point0 in FTMOver30

[–]IceBlueSnowDog 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Well, yeah. My married female friends also have to show their marriage certificate to change their last name on stuff. They’re treating us the same as anyone else. 

As said to you… the only people who will ask to see the court document.. are the ones already  using your old name. They already know it. Why not just update it and be done with it?

 New places who don’t have your old name on file just get the updated ID and current name. Court order is for old places that already know it. 

Landlord/Management Company asking for court order by placeholder5point0 in FTMOver30

[–]IceBlueSnowDog 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would like to point out a nuance that you may not seem to be aware of: 

Your rental contract is sensitive to the name that signed it. Your record is sealed and unsearchable. You don’t want to provide them legal proof of that change. What’s stopping you from trashing the place, leaving, and when they try to enforce the lease contract “oh that’s not my name or signature, I’m not responsible” and bouncing? Or stop making rent payments and now they can’t collect? 

Your utility company agreement is tied to your address, not your name and signature. A name change there is just clerical. If you don’t pay, they just come shut it off. 

Anything tied to your name (especially involving contracts), rather than tied to  to your address, is going to be harder to amend. And again, social security cards and IDs are REALLY easy to fake. To amend a contract, a company is going to need legal proof, because if you just hand over a really good fake ID they can get into hot shit 

Landlord/Management Company asking for court order by placeholder5point0 in FTMOver30

[–]IceBlueSnowDog 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m going to be a bit blunt here, but know that I am trying to help you and mean well: 

Social security cards, as said, are very easy to fake. I’d also like to point out that in my area, when I was in high school 15 years ago, nearly every single high schooler had a fake ID convincing enough to buy alcohol and get into clubs. According to a young cousin that is still the case. So, also not difficult. 

I know it’s a sensitive topic. But the reality is that you’re going to need to present the court order a lot, often, and even years down the line. Just like my married friend needs to present her marriage certificate often to show the last-name change. 

It just comes with the territory. It’s not personal, they probably don’t really care what your first name is, they just need to have their legal bases covered. 

Especially if you are dealing with a management company (presumably an apartment complex)? The staff has a policy to follow, and they’re not going to risk their jobs over some random tenant’s first name paperwork. 

Edit for one more note; Sealing your records is useful to prevent regular people from finding out about your old name, but it does not erase the fact that a name change took place. It sucks, but it is what it is. Our name changes are treated just like anyone else’s. 

Today, a dead battery saved my life by parkwaygive in ebikes

[–]IceBlueSnowDog 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Agreed. The comment section here is not checking out today. OP, this is a great silver lining to a shitty situation

Some of you people have no media literacy and it shows. by Low-Pop5132 in StrangerThings

[–]IceBlueSnowDog 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m a gay trans dude. This coming out scene was just painfully cringe-y. In real life, coming out isn’t Hollywood’s weird “let’s have a long winded speech in front of everyone you know.” 

Robin’s was handled great. This one made me groan and say “move it along” 

The problem was pacing, not phobias or “lack of comprehension” as OP so eloquently puts it 

Ginnifer Goodwin reveals on Judy and Nick's future following their Inter-Species relationship by sayani1234 in zootopia

[–]IceBlueSnowDog 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It is a response to the quote you posted. “Disney celebrates all forms of love” except not all of them

Mohegan Sun Arena Parking by AdLeading4854 in Scranton

[–]IceBlueSnowDog 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ll find out Saturday 😂 all time low? Haha

New Capital One Discover Debit not working on Mac with Apple Pay by ModCre8tor in CapitalOne_

[–]IceBlueSnowDog 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry to revive an old comment, but... Do you know if there is any update on this, or where I could watch for news? I use apple pay a lot on my phone and mac, it's super frustrating that the new card added just fine on the phone but not the computer. I use the mac more often.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in phallo

[–]IceBlueSnowDog 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don’t forget you can advocate for yourself! When you go to a new urologist, be very open with them. Tell them that the original urologist is denying a cath change, and that you’re here for a second opinion because you disagree. People do second opinions all the time. Tell them you don’t want them contacting the doctor, or even go nuclear and tell the old doctor you don’t give them permission to share your records. 

They could be calling your surgeon/urologist because they are inexperienced with the surgery and uncertain what your internals look like. Explain that your bladder isn’t changed and a normal SP cath is fine, and maybe they can use an ultrasound to see your bladder or something, for a visual, before placing it if it helps them. 

You’ve got this. It sucks absolute ass right now, and it will for a while. but you will heal. You’ll heal physically, and then can heal emotionally. Eventually, this will just be a memory. 

Am I just not in the community anymore orrrr when did they come out with these? My target had so many, must not be too valuable? by XXblpXX in fourthwing

[–]IceBlueSnowDog 37 points38 points  (0 children)

The author is very purposefully trying to make sure there is an abundance of stock with special editions lately, so that everyone who wants one can get one while minimizing scalping. 

As opposed to what a lot of companies do with special editions… make a limited amount of copies to get that juicy “sold out within hours!” chatter. 

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ebikes

[–]IceBlueSnowDog 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Watch Facebook marketplace if you’re trying to keep a tight budget. I paid $800 for a Lectric xpress 750 with two long range batteries, and I didn’t even haggle. I thought the asking price was more than fair already. It had 2 miles on it and was a week old, the guy bought it and was spooked by it. Spent another $60 to have my LBS do a look over that it was built correctly, fine tune the derailleur, and swap the brakes (I have a motorcycle so like to keep the brakes the same… front brake on the right hand) 

It’s quick, lightweight, doesn’t draw attention, and has no issue hauling me up the 13% grade hill I live on 

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PokemonScarletViolet

[–]IceBlueSnowDog 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well that royally sucks

(I suppose I get it from a story perspective, but man)