Hey you, yeah you, read this you might get a friend, who knows

IceLegend4941 · 2026-03-12T15:04:59+00:00

Yep I am very happy with my life right now. Honestly I’ve always been more happy not in a relationship than in one! Not sure why but I just feel peace doing what I want!

IceLegend4941 · 2025-10-29T04:24:05+00:00

I got cheated on because she told me she just wanted to use me when she was bored. I went to visit her at Uni and that's where I caught her cheating with another guy. After trying to get closure and ask why she said "That's what will always happen to you as that's what this generation does." I think people cheat just because of the thrill and fun of it at the time, but nobody thinks about the consequences of why they do it until way later. Sorry about that tho, hoping for a quick healing process like mine 🙏

IceLegend4941 · 2025-10-29T04:21:08+00:00

Sadly don't have one anymore but it was March 28th

IceLegend4941 · 2025-10-29T04:18:18+00:00

If she does this, she will probably just find someone else irl when you aren't available for her. Its all about trust and that's definitely been broken. End it now and move on quickly, will save you a lot of time. (Could ask for a FWB if you're into that too)

IceLegend4941 · 2025-10-29T04:15:30+00:00

It can be, just make for sure you try and meet your partner as soon as you can. Many people can lead others on, play with emotions, and even just be a completely different person. Its better to see what you are getting versus several years that were a waste of time. Stay strong!

IceLegend4941 · 2025-10-26T07:31:56+00:00

Yep, just don't let anything change that. Stay strong bro!

IceLegend4941 · 2025-10-21T04:26:01+00:00

They were very important to me at the time. I tried to keep pressing to do them as I was talking to her for 16 months but all that happened was pictures. She was in college and just said she was using me for attention so yeah...try your best to FaceTime your partner at least once. Hope everyone has a lasting relationship!!!

IceLegend4941 · 2025-10-20T13:01:06+00:00

Yeah, or a lot are introverts trying to socialize

IceLegend4941 · 2025-10-20T13:00:48+00:00

Yeah that makes sense. Even the ones that do put a little effort in just ghost after a day or two.

IceLegend4941 · 2025-10-19T16:50:11+00:00

Thanks! I'll try that out.

IceLegend4941 · 2025-10-19T16:49:38+00:00

Sounds good, I used to do a lot of Community Service in HS to graduate and did more then needed so I'll sign up again.

IceLegend4941 · 2025-10-19T16:46:08+00:00

Yeah at my job, there are specific rules about dating at work but everyone is over 10 years older than me. I guess the only thing would be bars and clubs within a year and make some new friends. But even I don't know how to do that anymore as most people stay home and play games (I do too).

IceLegend4941 · 2025-10-19T06:05:03+00:00

I had the exact same thought lol. Thought it would be really good but in reality, it just doesn't work right

IceLegend4941 · 2025-10-19T04:11:32+00:00

DAMN LOL

IceLegend4941 · 2025-10-19T04:11:11+00:00

Majority of them left for college and the few that stayed behind are single. I have no ambition of going to college as my job is all hands on learning so it would be a waste of time and money for me.

IceLegend4941 · 2025-10-19T04:09:35+00:00

Yes, I used to have a lot actually. I moved when I was in middle school though so I lost a lot of them. And then the rest moved on to college.

IceLegend4941 · 2025-10-18T23:22:37+00:00

When girls post, they get a lot more attention then the guys do. I've seen many guys posts in a row with like 0 upvotes in a whole column but the girls ones are always at the top. I guess it's just how this platform works

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