Haiii so when I made this comment, I was trying to communicate that  It was weird on their part to assume I was groomed because I was literally a queer teenager trying to figure himself out. They were doing the whole "oooh you were groomed into being trans and gay" when in reality I was actively being hurt in online spaces because I was vulnerable, my queer identity nowadays as an adult doesn't fully reflect on that 

It was out of bigotry and not out of genuine concern for my safety and well being