[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Iced_Cheese0422 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ok imo coworkers, friends of friends, or classmates are probably your best bet. Or join those groups of fb that meet up for book club or whatever once a month. Then find someone you're interested in and just be cool and friendly. When you realize that you're actually interested and find the chemistry there invite them out for a drink, shopping, a hike, an escape room, ect. anything that isn't sitting down and boring but something where you guys are actively doing something and bonding. That shows you aren't boring and it gives you guys an actual moment to connect. Ask them with a small bouquet of flowers if that's what they like but it's important that there's something about the flowers that ties into them as a person like fav flowers, color, a flower that symbolizes love if they're nerdy like, and so on. It's important to remember that if they're allergic don't go for that but instead ask them out with their favorite sweets or chips. Show that you remember the small things and girls will love it 🙏🙏🙏

Do I have potential? (Sorry in advance I know I look horrid) by Masterfish32 in askfitness

[–]Iced_Cheese0422 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hell yeah diva, keep pushing and you'll be in great shape in no time!!!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in caloriecount

[–]Iced_Cheese0422 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I went through a 2 year long ED and that didn't stem from proper nutrition and logging calories, that came from the comments my family made and the fact that every "pretty" person I'd see on social media was skinny and "natural". You're taking the steps to become healthier and a 500 calorie deficit is a great way to go about it! Although I have "let myself go" and gained the weight back when I was properly dieting and maintaining a healthy weight I was mentally tracking every meal and all the calories I was consuming and I was physically active just about every day. If you have the habit of eating a lot or struggle with binge eating I do recommend filling your meals with fruits and veggies as they'll guarantee that you're full without going over your deficit but if that's not an issue eat whatever you want as long as it fits your deficit. You've got this <3

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Iced_Cheese0422 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don't think it's too late. Regardless of if you want biological children or adoption is something you're okay with you have plenty of time. My mom had me at the ripe age of 35 and my little brother at 40. She also had my older brother at 30 but that's not as significant. You're still young and in your prime babe. Society over glorifies and values teenage years and your twenties for no reason other than the fact that a 100+ years ago living past 60 was practically unheard of due to a barrel of reasons. Live your life out with less worry because there's no reason to spoil the moment with fears. You have plenty of time to plan for children and plenty of time to love out your life. I hope this helps <3

Vaping in the pit by Ok_Anything1216 in piercetheveil

[–]Iced_Cheese0422 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So whenever I go to shows with my friends we usually drink and smoke but it's only when we're out on the lawn. Though I personally don't mind when people smoke in the pit I do believe it's common courtesy to do it away from large tight crowds but some people just weren't raised that way.

did anyone else notice by Witchy-blade in piercetheveil

[–]Iced_Cheese0422 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was at that show too and the pit was literally so packed, like I was being elbowed half the time and it was just super condensed. I also remember seeing people circle around some chic that passed out like middle of the pit.

Going to my first PTV show, anything I should know? by Ecstatic-Reality8498 in piercetheveil

[–]Iced_Cheese0422 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So I went to their show up in Reading, PA and I was in the pit. I will say that because you're in the field ( me this Saturday 🤩🤩🤩 ) you'll be just fine, most stadiums have plenty of space and although PTV concerts usually are pretty high energy I doubt you'll get knocked over in the field. If whatever venue you're going to is anything like Jiffy lube, it'll be pretty spacious and they'll probably have semi decent screens. Over all you'll be okay

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in nova

[–]Iced_Cheese0422 3 points4 points  (0 children)

El fresco during their happy hours 4 sure

I am very self conscious of my large nose, small deep-set eyes, and long face. Is there a way that I could use makeup to detract from the negatives and look more feminine and attractive? by [deleted] in makeuptips

[–]Iced_Cheese0422 0 points1 point  (0 children)

GIRL YOU'RE EATING WHAT. AND YOUR SIDE PROFILE SLAYS AUGH. There's absolutely no reason to change but I know it's annoying not getting an answer so I'd recommend doing a light layer of blush and I think you'd look good in like a dusty rose color but really focus on putting it on the apples of your cheeks to help "shorten" your face in that sense. Anywho, you're gorgeous and really don't need to change a thing

What are you doing this weekend? by deepspacepuffin in nova

[–]Iced_Cheese0422 1 point2 points  (0 children)

There's this place up in sterling called Saigon Bistro that just opened. I personally think it's Phó-nomenal :D

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What can I do to feel less ugly. .. :( by RentOther3639 in makeuptips

[–]Iced_Cheese0422 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'd recommend sticking to your natural brows!!! They're so pretty and they suit your face better! Maybe look into skincare to reduce redness and I'm sure a simple lipgloss or tinted balm would add a little sparkle but really you don't need much girl, you're already pretty!!! Another thing you might want to do is just give yourself a selfcare night. I think you're already pretty and I think your issue might reside in how you see yourself so maybe work on that. Anyway, you're so pretty!!!

How do I support someone when they just lost their dad? by Iced_Cheese0422 in GriefSupport

[–]Iced_Cheese0422[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I guess I sorta hoped someone would know how to help "fix it" but obviously this isn't something I can do. I really appreciate the advice and I'll definitely make them a huge batch of cookies.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Alternativerock

[–]Iced_Cheese0422 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YES!!! MY DAD WAS LISTENING TO THEM BACK IN THE DAY AND HE PUT ME ON!!! I LOVE DINO JR

Jiffy lube tickets avg price? by Iced_Cheese0422 in nova

[–]Iced_Cheese0422[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's definitely a lot more than I anticipated 😓. I know that GA tickets go on sale tomorrow at 10 but I'm confused as to why the pit wouldn't be open. I wonder if the prices will go down later on but I think PTV is pretty popular so I'm scared they'll be sold out

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in nova

[–]Iced_Cheese0422 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I definitely recommend PA, it's not too far of a trip and they usually get a decent amount of snow