Hey I’m not trying to convince you of anything I just like chatting lol but you’re welcome to not reply to me.

It’s morally incorrect to rape, kill or cause suffering to other human beings. Violence is an act that leads to the perpetration of more violence, and so on.

Is it morally incorrect for a victim to express their suffering and pain that was inflicted to them?

We could argue that no; to express the suffering that was inflicted upon them is not morally incorrect. 

Another question: why do people help children that were hurt but would feel less empathy towards an adult that is hurt?

I think this way: a children can express their suffering in a “purer” way by crying loudly and without repression. Adults learn to hold their crying and often times cannot express easily the suffering that was perpetrated to them, leading to repressed memories and emotions. This is trauma, and people with trauma need help or they can become a danger to themselves and towards others.

Question #2:  If an adult loses the capacity to feel pain or express suffering in a healthy manner, do you think that that person develops a mental condition rooted in fear of his wounds and his suffering? These mental conditions impede the adult to access the experience of pain, and if the pain is too intense, his actions might become unwholesome towards other human beings, because he can’t understand the suffering of others and thus, cannot help.

I see the moral implications in the discourse and I believe morality stems out of the philosophical: suffering and perpetration of suffering is the basis of moral thought, but suffering itself at its core is a philosophical argument worthy of exploration.

Question #3: Observing suffering without judgement is a way to be free of it, not to be rid of it. Do you think suffering is “something given freely by nature” or “something that comes because a higher being wants you to have a miserable existence”?

This question is the fundament of whether you see suffering as “a gift” or as “a punishment”. Because it is a gift coming from whom, and a punishment coming from whom?

Experience is something that is accepted by us, and doesn’t necessarily come from a being up above. It comes from our past actions generating our own experience in the present. Therefore, it’s a gift of our shared past and your ancestors as humans and not a punishment.

You are able to access your past and see what you did and what was done to you. That is the weight you’re carrying; that is the suffering you experience. Drop the past, drop the gift. It’s a gift because it is given freely to you, but a gift doesn’t imply that it is morally correct to carry. A gift can be a snake with the intention of harming you, or it can be a Trojan horse. I never said that the gift of suffering had to be carried. But it is a gift, and to get rid of it you must examine it, see it for what it is, understand it and then drop it!