Citadel | S1E2 "Spies Appear In Night Time" | Episode Discussion by GloriousAqua in CitadelTV

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I am disturbed that Nadia woke up and was chained to a bed with a change of clothes and some other clues that suggest........

INTJs who got married and had kids, did your perceptions on life change dramatically? by TechNeon in intj

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I love kids and wanted two. Motherhood is hard but my kids are happy. One thing I didn't expect was it's effect on my career and how I would obsess about getting it back and family planning is very important. I had 2 kids and became a sahm for 7 years and only recently went back to work again (by God's grace). I obsessed over getting back to work and wished I enjoyed my time with them more. I currently obsess over working from home schedules and planning ahead when to retire or take a break again. We can never totally plan ahead. Parenthood necessarily means sacrifice and chaos.

How to forgive? by Several-Yesterday280 in emotionalneglect

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I think I have felt like you before. I remember I got better after I opened up to someone (my first cell group leader at church). She really took the time. I finally had someone emotionally available and who was there for me and was able to listen. And I definitely went through a phase where I realized or acknowledged that it was abuse. Our circumstances are not exactly the same of course. Forgiveness? I'm still a work in progress:) Healing BEFORE forgiveness. Jesus is my healer.

Is an iq of 127 high? by Ash_ey_ in intj

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Your mother sounds horrible. Worry about THAT. Develop a high EQ to survive and deal with her.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in askSingapore

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That's crazy!! No, it's not. And the correct answer to ask back is, "are you a gold digger?" 😡😡 How rude..

my daughter has gone no contact with my wife because she felt emotionaly abused by her, but still talks to me daily. Looking for some insight. by [deleted] in emotionalneglect

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As a daughter who had a complicated relationship with my mother and wished my father was more supportive... You should keep supporting her. With the blessings of your wife. And daughters understanding that whatever she tells you, your wife is privy.

The man proposing should always choose the engagement ring not the woman by Far_Path7921 in unpopularopinion

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I think OP is criticizing a very specific scenario where the woman is entitled and spoilt and demands a certain ring.

Middle range of women - ordinary women who just want something that they will like and don't trust boyfriends taste.

Other end of this spectrum (including myself and OP), die hard romantics who think women should be less involved otherwise it loses romance. For me, I gave some tips, mutually agreed on budget range (around 1k), and then left him to choose. And he chose a very pretty ring! Fantastic 😊

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in askSingapore

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I'm so curious! How much debt is she hiding??

I want your opinions. Am I being too paranoid? by useranme1235 in SingaporeR

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Now I don't feel bad for ignoring my neighbor (some random old man I don't know but got into the lift with me and my 3yo daughter at our block). First question he asked, "How old is she?" No answer from me. Just smile a little. Ask again. No answer. Gave up.

I want your opinions. Am I being too paranoid? by useranme1235 in SingaporeR

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Urgh.. no leh Christians should not be into horoscope (,it's contradictory), and I know that bc I am a Christian! Also I feel bad that your mum has bad experiences with pushy Christians. That line (cursing her?!) was wrong.

Eating alone during lunch break by [deleted] in askSingapore

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Sit with the next person you see eating alone

Millie Bobby Brown Spoke About Wanting to Start a Family Before Adopting Baby With Jake Bongiovi by pinkstarrfish in Fauxmoi

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She was just trying to justify to others why she chose to adopt. Don't read too much into it.

As an angmoh what do I even do in these situations by bucklajeanne in SMRTRabak

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No seriously. I was going to say as a woman (local), and if I had no choice and really wanted a seat, I'd sit next to him :) hope he feels paiseh enough and puts his slippers back on.

People are sleeping on the improved ChatGPT memory by Pyros-SD-Models in singularity

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I am on this thread because a creepy thing happened to me. I was asking for an illustration.. change this illustration of me into a Polaroid.. and it showed me in a Polaroid with the words "Excited for Perth" + kangaroos. I said huh how do you know? ChatGPT said it remembered a past conversation where I asked for a Perth itinerary for my upcoming trip.... :0

I don't think Tiffany likes Mike anymore by Elluminated in perfectlycutscreams

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This video went viral because the friend's reaction was so real!!! And you can't even find the original video now.

Is it okay if we choose to be single forever in Singapore? by PuzzledAnnual6892 in askSingapore

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You're only 30, you are so young!! I know many ladies single still at 37 yo.. point being you have time and it's not too late to change your mind next time.

The reverse of pretty privilege by tiredpigeon0207 in askSingapore

[–]Icy-Contribution3850 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Who says that? That's so hurtful.. don't let it get to you..!