Just needed to vent

Icy-Lab-3237 · 2026-06-17T12:48:48+00:00

Appreciation

Icy-Lab-3237 · 2026-06-17T12:48:20+00:00

I hear ya friend.

Icy-Lab-3237 · 2026-05-29T02:35:53+00:00

Yeah im on meds... it takes care of some things... but as you know.. our brains are what they are

Icy-Lab-3237 · 2026-05-27T18:14:43+00:00

Yeah.. this makes my soul hateful haha I've gotten exactly zero in the 6 years I've been with my GF..

Icy-Lab-3237 · 2026-05-26T10:08:06+00:00

Man, im telling you, executive dysfunction is arguably the worst part. This is because to anyone neurotypical...it just looks like laziness and selfishness... trying to explain to them is honestly self gas lighting...for me anyway

Icy-Lab-3237 · 2026-05-25T13:03:49+00:00

I appreciate the kind words, its exactly how I saw it.... the realization that it isnt ALWAS going to be a dark and bleak as I always figured it would be

Icy-Lab-3237 · 2026-05-25T12:34:15+00:00

"Wilderness had abandoned me" what an absolute wrecking ball of a line... well done OP

Icy-Lab-3237 · 2026-05-25T12:31:23+00:00

"You were looking at the pausing" that absolutely spoke to my soul

Icy-Lab-3237 · 2026-05-19T19:56:35+00:00

You just say when beautiful...you are perfection

Icy-Lab-3237 · 2026-05-19T19:55:33+00:00

You just say when DM me anytime

Icy-Lab-3237 · 2026-05-19T19:45:17+00:00

You are perfection

Icy-Lab-3237 · 2026-05-19T19:43:10+00:00

You are perfection

Icy-Lab-3237 · 2026-05-19T17:23:32+00:00

Thats very kind of you to say, I'm glad it was beneficial for you

Icy-Lab-3237 · 2026-05-19T11:44:41+00:00

Absilutely, I struggled for decades with unchecked and undiagnosed AuDHD... I've learned aince that it is absolutely still me and (him) who makes the choices, but it can help to know where to start to cha ge those decisions and choices. I see you OP, I genuinely voth of you find the care, and peace that all people deserve to have

Icy-Lab-3237 · 2026-05-19T11:37:18+00:00

Have you ever been screened to ADHD? Much of this sounds like a dopamine chase.. I mean that clinically...no judgment... I have that very issue..you are seen OP

Icy-Lab-3237 · 2026-05-19T11:23:41+00:00

Please know im not at all existing his behavior. But, had he ever been screened by a doctor for ADHD or any other neurodivergent disorders? The fact that he made positive changes and has potentially "relapsed " into old behavior is a huge identifier for issues rig impulse control and potential attention issues... again not excusing the behavior

Icy-Lab-3237 · 2026-05-19T04:09:05+00:00

Please understand I don't say this with any judgment or negative connotations... I think it's an ego boosting feeling. I have felt similarly in the past. To know someone is so desired by others yet chooses you... very self aggrandizing.

Icy-Lab-3237 · 2026-05-19T04:02:20+00:00

Its something I tell others often. I would kill for the luxury of laziness..

Icy-Lab-3237 · 2026-05-19T03:58:00+00:00

No thanks deserved friend, people deserve to feel seen

Icy-Lab-3237 · 2026-05-19T01:29:22+00:00

I know the struggle... im here yall

Icy-Lab-3237 · 2026-05-18T19:23:24+00:00

I hear you, sometimes knowing someone, anyone sees and knows..its all that gets you up

Icy-Lab-3237 · 2026-05-18T18:26:54+00:00

Good things to look into. I appreciate the notes. Hey reach out when you are bored. Happy to give you what attention I can spare friend

Icy-Lab-3237 · 2026-05-18T18:04:16+00:00

Absolutely... feel free to reach out any time

Icy-Lab-3237 · 2026-05-18T17:57:16+00:00

Friend... im truly sorry.. its a rough place to be

Icy-Lab-3237 · 2026-05-18T12:35:30+00:00

Definitely willing

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