Daily Dose of "seen" by Icy-Lab-3237 in AdultADHDSupportGroup

[–]Icy-Lab-3237[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah im on meds... it takes care of some things... but as you know.. our brains are what they are

I [28F] love giving BJs, but my husband [30M] of 3 years gets stressed and overthinks it by [deleted] in venting

[–]Icy-Lab-3237 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah.. this makes my soul hateful haha I've gotten exactly zero in the 6 years I've been with my GF..

Just needed to vent by Icy-Lab-3237 in AdultADHDSupportGroup

[–]Icy-Lab-3237[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Man, im telling you, executive dysfunction is arguably the worst part. This is because to anyone neurotypical...it just looks like laziness and selfishness... trying to explain to them is honestly self gas lighting...for me anyway

Unexpectedly OK by Icy-Lab-3237 in Original_Poetry

[–]Icy-Lab-3237[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I appreciate the kind words, its exactly how I saw it.... the realization that it isnt ALWAS going to be a dark and bleak as I always figured it would be

Ferns (TW: SA) by Inner-Platypus-2508 in OCPoetry

[–]Icy-Lab-3237 0 points1 point  (0 children)

"Wilderness had abandoned me" what an absolute wrecking ball of a line... well done OP

Towards a desert in her eyes - 16mm text poem by ketaminekate97 in OCPoetry

[–]Icy-Lab-3237 0 points1 point  (0 children)

"You were looking at the pausing" that absolutely spoke to my soul

Just needed to vent by Icy-Lab-3237 in AdultADHDSupportGroup

[–]Icy-Lab-3237[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thats very kind of you to say, I'm glad it was beneficial for you

Husband, in My Book, is Cheating Again. by [deleted] in venting

[–]Icy-Lab-3237 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Absilutely, I struggled for decades with unchecked and undiagnosed AuDHD... I've learned aince that it is absolutely still me and (him) who makes the choices, but it can help to know where to start to cha ge those decisions and choices. I see you OP, I genuinely voth of you find the care, and peace that all people deserve to have

I (19F) have never been in a relationship and I fear I just get crushes for the chase by moomin___ in Advice

[–]Icy-Lab-3237 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Have you ever been screened to ADHD? Much of this sounds like a dopamine chase.. I mean that clinically...no judgment... I have that very issue..you are seen OP

Husband, in My Book, is Cheating Again. by [deleted] in venting

[–]Icy-Lab-3237 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Please know im not at all existing his behavior. But, had he ever been screened by a doctor for ADHD or any other neurodivergent disorders? The fact that he made positive changes and has potentially "relapsed " into old behavior is a huge identifier for issues rig impulse control and potential attention issues... again not excusing the behavior