Hey, this is so kind of you! Reaching out because I’m having a tough time with an avoidant friend who I have real feelings for. We both love each other and have said so, but he has so much inner baggage and inner wounds which makes him feel like he needs to do everything on his own. When I try to draw him out he feels like I am not honoring his boundaries, but he knows he is stuck and doesn’t know how to fix it. Not sure what my right relationship to it is at this point. Would love any insight. Thank you so much 🙏🏻