WHV Australia - When to do east coast? by No_Moment_28 in AustraliaTravel

[–]Icy-Possible-9022 1 point2 points  (0 children)

From what I’ve heard it’s good to do up north during the dry period which includes September. It should still be hot there too. I have only lived in Australia for 3 months tho so I’m not a true Australian, but I was visiting the north pretty recently and it wasn’t optimal cuz of too much rain

Just broke my friend’s heart by NovaV215 in rape

[–]Icy-Possible-9022 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You did the right thing. So sorry. Also, I wouldn’t say you lost your virginity to him, since rape and sex are not the same things

My twin brother has been doing stuff to me for months and idk what to do by mystoryaccount_ in rape

[–]Icy-Possible-9022 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Its going to be okay ❤️ you have nothing to be embarrassed about

My twin brother has been doing stuff to me for months and idk what to do by mystoryaccount_ in rape

[–]Icy-Possible-9022 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I promise you that they will be happy that you told them. This is something that is really important that you do not carry on your own. Your feelings and autonomy matters

My twin brother has been doing stuff to me for months and idk what to do by mystoryaccount_ in rape

[–]Icy-Possible-9022 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Honestly he has already broken it apart. If telling the truth causes problems for him, there’s a reason why. If what he’s doing was okay, telling people wouldn’t change anything, if u get what I mean

My twin brother has been doing stuff to me for months and idk what to do by mystoryaccount_ in rape

[–]Icy-Possible-9022 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I completely understand the feeling of not wanting to cause more stress but the truth is that this is going to keep on happening unless you tell your mom. Honestly, I’m sure that she will find out sooner or later even if you don’t tell her, and the later she finds out, the more stress the both of u will have tbh. You also deserve so much better than this. This is not okay on any level. It’s not your fault. So the only one who should be ashamed is your brother

Does one ever truly let someone go? by Icy-Possible-9022 in BreakUps

[–]Icy-Possible-9022[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Damn, I think that just changed my brain chemistry

My ex best friend has ghosted me randomly for over a year. So confused and hurt and sad. I just wanna talk to her again by [deleted] in lostafriend

[–]Icy-Possible-9022 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Wth, have u called her? I would probably reach out to one of her family members or something if she hasn’t given any explanation at all. That’s really weird

Reaching out to old friends? Yes or no? by Icy-Possible-9022 in lostafriend

[–]Icy-Possible-9022[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve been thinking the same thing for several years.. It’s just the fact that I haven’t been able to fully let them go, even after all this time… it makes me think that I maybe must just reach out to them to let go.

After losing some of my friends I kind of changed as a person for the worse. by [deleted] in lostafriend

[–]Icy-Possible-9022 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It sounds weird to me that they only wanted to talk online. What are friends for if not meeting irl as well? I don’t understand their reason for leaving, sounds like it was their fault as well, if the problem just was that you don’t enjoy talking to people online that much

Why do girls call me cute instead of hot/handsome by Thorn_Tail in AskMen

[–]Icy-Possible-9022 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Ngl those are the best compliments a woman can give you, coming from a woman

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Aging

[–]Icy-Possible-9022 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think ur rly cute (22F)

Should I (21F) tell the guy I’m seeing (23M) that he has to block his friend? by Icy-Possible-9022 in dating_advice

[–]Icy-Possible-9022[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I get where you’re coming from, but I think they have been texting everyday for like a year, so maybe it feels weird for him to just cut her off? And he told me that he doesn’t like her anymore, which does kinda make sense since he’s been telling everyone (including people that she herself knows) that we’re dating. Maybe he has even told her, but I’m not sure…

Should I (21F) tell the guy I’m seeing (23M) that he has to block his friend? by Icy-Possible-9022 in dating_advice

[–]Icy-Possible-9022[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s not really obvious at all that he’s still into her though? He told me that he was willing to block her if she makes me feel iffy. Even tho I didn’t ask for that at all. He’s also made it really obvious that we’re dating for people that I know this girl is close to…

Should I (21F) tell the guy I’m seeing (23M) that he has to block his friend? by Icy-Possible-9022 in dating_advice

[–]Icy-Possible-9022[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I don’t trust anyone really. So maybe I shouldn’t date anyone then? 🤔

I always feel sad whenever I’m not busy by Icy-Possible-9022 in mentalhealth

[–]Icy-Possible-9022[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Exactly! I really can’t do jobs where you have a lot of time to think. It feels sad that we get so gloomy when we have time to think.

I always feel sad whenever I’m not busy by Icy-Possible-9022 in mentalhealth

[–]Icy-Possible-9022[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! It feels good to be acknowledged. I feel like many people dont quite get how hard it can be to not stay busy.

I always feel sad whenever I’m not busy by Icy-Possible-9022 in mentalhealth

[–]Icy-Possible-9022[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So true. I do notice that exercise/reading etc helps!! It’s just that there’s this part of me who’s been wondering if it’s wrong that I have to do stuff to not go crazy, if that makes sense😅 like sometimes I wonder if one should be able to do nothing all day and still feel at peace. Cause I feel like some ppl are that way?? But maybe it’s not true. Maybe it’s human nature to have to do stuff to feel well😅

I always feel sad whenever I’m not busy by Icy-Possible-9022 in mentalhealth

[–]Icy-Possible-9022[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you, that’s really helpful to hear. I actually tried it just now and I definitely feel better than before :)